My boyfriend set up this really romantic get away on Valentine's Day and I was snowed in so I could't go. I tried calling him to apoligize and he's not pickig up my calls. I really love him. Wat should I do?
2007-02-14 04:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awww... Just leave him messages and tell him that you loved his idea... and you feel bad, and you want to explain!
2007-02-14 04:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by E 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OH GOD, I'm so sorry, you are another unfortunate victim of uncontrollable circumstances. If he is a good guy he will understand. This is terrible I'm so sorry, even though it's not your fault you couldn't make it, you should give him something a little extra the next time you see him just to make him feel better, and don't worry you'll get through to him sometime, take care and good luck.
2007-02-14 04:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he should be able to understand that you were snowed in and shouldn't be mad. it's not like you can control the weather, I can understand on his part that he was probably disapointed but he shouldn't be mad at you it's not your fault and you shouldn't feel guilty about it just tell him that you were sorry that you got snowed in but you really want to make it up to him, and if he's still mad then just give him his space and give him time to cool off and let him know whenever he's ready to talk to you you'll be there.
2007-02-14 04:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him a message telling him what happened and why you could not make it. Tell him you are really sorry and ask him to forgive you. If he calls you back then everything is good but if he does not call you back then give him some time. But you can not make him forgive you. Give him some time to think and some space.
Good luck sweety.
2007-02-14 04:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't worry about him forgiving you. If you were snowed in and he was more concerned about you ruining his plans than for your safety in trying to drive when you are snowed in, then he doesn't sound like he has your best interests at heart. Rather than you worrying about him forgiving YOU, I think he should be worrying about you forgiving HIM for his selfish attitude.
2007-02-14 04:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all he should understand that you got snowed in and if he cares about you he wouldnt want you to be out in something that could hurt you or kill you...
so good luck!
2007-02-14 04:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by heatherstike2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This may sound kind of harsh but I would not call him and apologize if he will not answer the phone.. It was not your fault you got snowed in.... he has no reason to be mad at you
2007-02-14 04:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by novagirl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just send him a letter or text or email whatever and tell him why you couldn't go then buy him something realy nice and see if you can plan something romantic too and maybe hes not picking up cause hes not there.
2007-02-14 04:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mercedes aka gata cubana 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. It's when he doesnt care that you missed a date that you should worry. We have a short memory, he'll get over it.
2007-02-14 04:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by jr321 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you tell him to grow up and get over it.. why is this your fault and why should you be apologizing for something that you can't help? you shouldn't be...
2007-02-14 04:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋