my dads girlfriend and him just got a new house and we moved in and now she is moving out because me and my sister use drugs but she knew that to begin with......should i feel bad? im not going to stop over that...
2007-02-14 04:45:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gee, if you stopped using illegal substances, then you would be able to NOT ruin the relationships of others, have enough money to MOVE OUT and LIVE on your own, and yes, EVERYONE would be much happier around you.
Yes, you SHOULD feel bad .. but until you hit rock bottom, and until your father STOPS giving you a house to crash in, money from his wallet and STOPS enabling your use of substances .. YOU will not have to take RESPONSIBILITY for your Horrific actions .. nor your own CHOICE to be an addict.
2007-02-14 05:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has every right to move out, regardless of what she did or did not know before hand. And, yes, you should feel bad about that. You and your equally selfish and self destructive sister are ruining your dad's life. So far you've cost him the woman he loves. And on top of that if you get caught with drugs in his house he will be arrested and have his house confiscated by the state as a nuisance. Add on that when the bank gets wind of that they will call in his loan and he will have thirty days to pay for his house including interest and penalties. If he doesn't he can go to jail again. There goes his credit. And when he gets out he won't ever be able to get another loan of any kind or even rent an apartment because he will have to disclose that he's been convicted of several felonies thanks to you two. As far as I'm concerned you two ar ethe ones that need to go. Straight to jail.
2007-02-14 13:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should feel bad and drug use is hardly a good thing maybe you should stop for a minute and think about yor dad how selfish are you. Even if you are smoking weed have you ever met someone who has been doing that for 30 years they are usually very annoying my brother in law never shuts up and hes jumpy and ah i just cant be doing with him and my brother has been taking god knows what for years and i just look at him and think what a sad pathetic loser we have all tried to help him sooo many times and the entire family has given up we each have one of his children because they were going to be taken into care and its all because of drug use.
2007-02-14 12:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by kazz06 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a selfish, foolhardy brats you and your sister are!
No wonder she moved out. And now you have sacrificed your dad's happiness because you want to get high. If I was your dad I would have kicked you out a long time ago.
Not to mention the fact you could get him arrested. But obvious you don't give a damn about other people.
GROW the HELL up and get your life together!!!
2007-02-14 13:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, don't stop over that but for your own best interest. Without the overhead of purchasing drugs you could get a place of your own and not have to worry about ruining anybody Else's relationship.
2007-02-14 12:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by tonafun 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so what are you going to do for your future? sit at home and do drugs? try to get any job and have it last if your on any drugs.. it won't work. is dad going to support your drug habit for the rest of you meaningless life. maybe she thought about this, and when it made her sick she had to leave..... smart woman...... at least she's getting a life without having everything she has stolen from her for drug money.........how many more of your dads friends are going to alienate him because of your drug use? have a nice day
2007-02-14 13:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you wouldn't feel bad about using drugs no matter what happens . . . until one day hopefully you will hit rock bottom and realize what a loser you are. Get some help!
2007-02-14 12:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what the **** are you thinking???...its their house..instead of spending all of your money to get high find your own place...you are lucky she even let you come over to their house....get a life
2007-02-14 12:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-14 15:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by oldhagthenag 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋