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peope who havent lived it judge u?

2007-02-14 04:41:31 · 12 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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It's a good question.
Several years ago, a guy by the name of Joe South recorded a song called "Walk A Mile In My Shoes." It was a big hit. It also served as a lesson we all should learn. It's so easy to judge others when we really know very little about their experiences and what they have to deal with.

The worst part is that so many people jump to conclusions.

Part of that is because communication is so easy. With cell phones, email, etc... we say things before we think about them.

Back when long distance calls were expensive, there were no cell phones and the internet didn't exist... people had to write letters. When you sit and think about something for awhile, you aren't so fast to judge.

The song got it right.... "WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES!"

2007-02-14 04:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's just how some people are. Cant do anything about it and cant change people. All you can do is ignore them. If you put yourself out there then expect to be judged. Just try to pick the right answer that sounds the most logical for your situation. And if they judge you without you asking, then tell them to go pound sand. MY $0.02

2007-02-14 12:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0 0

Because we are told from day one what to do in certain situations. right from wrong and what not. So unless someone knows what the situation is it's easy on their part to say what you should do, or say, or be. It's easy to judge when you think you know the answer. Those who have been there done that get it. And understand.

2007-02-14 12:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by muzicizlife 2 · 0 0

I guess that is what you get when you ask questions in this VERY public format. That and if you ask a question there are a TON of people wanting to put their two cents in and be validated themselves.

but of course that is just my opinion :)

2007-02-14 12:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0 0

Because they havent lived intelligently.

2007-02-14 12:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by finished 3 · 0 1

And how do you know when one has actually lived it or not???
And/or, if one answers a question. It's just an opinion...Not a judgement.

2007-02-14 12:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1 0

Its not.....

They are called the "Know-it-alls"..

I never pay attention to them...

With a bit of time ...the wind eventually gets out of their sails...

2007-02-14 12:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by yahoo 6 · 0 0

Because the average person is a stupid jackass that thinks they know everything and the whole world should agree with them.

2007-02-14 12:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0 1

because they like to gossip, however there is only one who will judge us, and it does nt really matter what they say, Jesus loves you....He will judge us all.....God bless

2007-02-14 12:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0 0

perhaps it is not judgement but on here...one is asking for the others "opinion"....perhaps it is just someone's opinion simply because u asked.

2007-02-14 12:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1 0

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