i need someone to talk urgently .i'm a teenager i really need some help.?

Question

i'm a teenager i liv with bro nd mom, i think mom's loosing her control over us.she upset bout smthin nd i'm worried.
how can i help her in this kinda of situation?
pls help me
grl who needs help urgently

Answer 1

Have you tried talking to your mother? Asking her if something is bothering her. If she won't tell you what is on her mind then do what you can to make her life a little easier. Help with dinner, help clean up after yourself, do some laundry, and above all behave yourself. Do your homework and be respectful. Talk to your brother about trying to pitch in too. Maybe she is just worried about the 2 of you becoming crazy teenagers. Maybe she is tired. Talk to her. She can probably use someone to talk to.

Answer 2

This is NOT the best place to get the kind of help you need. You need help with skin attached, not a bunch of faceless, sometimes clueless strangers. Talk to a counselor at your school about your concerns, if you truly need help. Of course, speaking to your mom about your concerns first would be best. If you've already done that, then seek the help of a family member. If they won't help, then talk to your school counselor. Keep seeking help until someone listens. Too often, kids give up too soon in seeking qualified people, and end up leaning on the wrong people. Sometimes, even qualified people don't seem to want to help, because they are over-burdened with other stuff. I've been told that the squeeky wheel gets the oil, so keep squeeking (so to speak) and seek the help you need. Other than that, just be the best son and brother you can be. Be the best student you can be. Don't bring trouble home, to add to your mom's stress. Since your mom doesn't seem to want to share what's going on in her life, you'll just have to do your best in the areas that you do have influence over. And that's in your school & personal life. Just remember, everything is temporary and all passes with time. I really hope that all works out well for you real soon. <*)))><

Answer 3

If you don't know what your mom is upset about, there's not much you can do, other than not do anything yourself that would add to her stress right now. It could be she's worried about something that has absolutely nothing to do with you directly. She could be worried about her job, bills to pay, etc. The things adults worry about on a regular basis. You can best help her out right now by not giving her anything else to worry about. Come home when you're supposed to, follow all the household rules, even help out with some of the household chores. Do your homework, study hard and I'm sure your mom will appreciate your efforts. It may not help what she's already worried about, but at least you won't be adding to her stress. Good luck.

Answer 4

I'm very sorry. I've been where you are and because of that, I've never kept important things from my children. Some parents feel that they are protecting their children by "hiding" important things. What they don't realize is that families are so close, that all the members pick up on it when something isn't right. I don't know how to help you as you don't give specifics. Perhaps you don't have any to give. If you feel comfortable doing it, I suggest you tell your mother directly that you KNOW something is wrong and that you are WORRIED. Tell her that whatever is wrong, it can't be as bad as your imagination is making it out to be. Ask her to please tell you what is wrong so that your whole family can deal with the problem together. That's what families do!

Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 5

Wait till your alone with her and explain that your worried about her and you know that there is something up she will probably be a shocked that her teenage daughter has noticed somethings not right and might sort the problem out or even want to talk to you about it. How old is your bro could you talk to him about it and then both try talking to your mum together.

Answer 6

its a ood thing you care bout her but remembver that we cant control other people meotion try talking to her and tha tyou dont understand why she is acting that way speak in akind voice and maybe the est way to stop a bullet isnt by standing in front of it you understand wah tim saying let her have her space and maybe when she is calm talk to her about this so you ca navoid such situations. but right now i think you should reconfirm your love and car for her adn tell her honestly the nicestr way possible how you feel if that doesnt work i suggest you try to do it when she is calm sorry ur goingthour this

Answer 7

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Answer 8

First off, Cold-Fire I am going to continue to report you because all you are doing is mocking people by copying and pasting their questions into your answers box.

Now, for the girl who needs help, talk to one of your guidance coulselors at school or other trusted adult. Talk to your mom and see if there's anything you can do to help her out. You might be surprised to know she will talk to you.

Good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

You are in a stressful time of life. your mom is too - raising teenagers is hard work. Try to be good and help out around the house and give your mom a hug. God bless you.

Answer 10

The best thing for you to do is to sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her that you know something is wrong and you are there for her if she wants to talk. Since you realize that she is losing her grip...try being a model daughter and encouraging your brother to do the same. The best thing is to let her know that you realize something is up and encourage her to talk to you....or someone that can help her feel better.