Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I've been told by a close friend that I scare them. Yeh, that hurts. We were messing about and I put him in a wrist lock, he said ouch, your hurting me but for some reson i carried on for a bit. It's hapened before too.
Personality wise, I'm always on guard. I don't like to let people close although once we're going out then it's ok.
Basically this is playing havok with my love life. Guys are scared of me and even the brave ones are stone-walled. What can I do? How can I be a more trusting person? How can I sort out what seems to be an unconcious agression?
Help me, please.

2007-02-13 04:55:32 · 14 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 04:55:17 · 4 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

How do I deal with something of that magnitude with my g/f, she has all the "feelings" I guess of it being something like that, She's very emotional and she's hinted that she knew I was "the One", when we got close and she wasn't nervous, and she regards it as being a horrible time in her life, I'm just trying to figure out.. how do I get a hold on things when she lets me know what it is.. I've prayed and thought about it ever since she told she wasn't ready to tell me something that made her uncomfortable and it was hard for her to trust someone and scared about what my reaction was going to be when she told me, umm.. our 1 yr. anniversary is tomorrow on Valentines Day and I know thats gonna be the farthest thing from our minds but.. later on.. she's gonna tell me umm.. yeah how do I manage get a grip on it ?

2007-02-13 04:55:07 · 19 answers · asked by JKR 1 in Singles & Dating

usually. just curious.

2007-02-13 04:54:54 · 14 answers · asked by wildchild47236 3 in Singles & Dating

tell me any and everything

2007-02-13 04:54:28 · 31 answers · asked by adriene86 1 in Singles & Dating

therz a girl she fell in love with me, I started caring for her whn her sister died , but it was never in my mind that she will fell in love with me, whn ever i try to tell tht i dont love her we r just freinds , she starts crying, so much, now since whn i came to know she is also suffering from brain tumer i nvr discus ths love thinge with hern whnever she says i love i reply same, coz i m afraid if i telllher the truth she gonna die , but i m ruining my life like this, its been a year i havnt had any girlfreind coz of her, but i cant take it anymore, she always weeps and cry, but she also loves me more than anything and is ready to do anything for me, but i dont love her !!! i dont have any feelings , i care coz she is just a good freind to me , she says she's gonna suicide the day whn i leave her. I m like stuck or ... i dono , plz advice me wht shld i do ,

2007-02-13 04:54:04 · 20 answers · asked by Vicky 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 04:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by cardsfan271525 2 in Singles & Dating

She is sensitive about her weight, what did I do?

2007-02-13 04:53:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

look more at a guy,s height and unhairiness,than what a great loving man he may be???

2007-02-13 04:52:35 · 26 answers · asked by a.c 3 in Singles & Dating

skin "Oh that's good, you are enchanting, that's calmed me doown soem" or is that un acceptable?I'm talking about french kissing.

2007-02-13 04:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by brad 1 in Singles & Dating

im confused with this,and have a broken heart...

2007-02-13 04:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm assuming its far different than what makes a man cheat on his girlfriend. I'm familiar with all those reasons, but now I'm curious about the opposite sex's reasons for infidelity.

I write a blog dedicated to this topic, Cheating on Your Girlfriend. If you are curious on why men cheat or how they do it, read up:

2007-02-13 04:50:28 · 32 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 04:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by rach * 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you tell your girl that you are just looking does that mean you are interested in the girl but you just look or does that mean that you don't love your girl. Please help me my relationship is on the line.

2007-02-13 04:49:35 · 8 answers · asked by bluemami06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well here it goes . . . My girlfriend and i have been so happy the past 10 months, in the past month things have been changing little by little. It is now to the point where she is mad at me for the littlest thing. I am a musician, and so at least once a week i go and jam with my friends. On her side all of her friends have loss contact or just left. Is she getting mad because i have an escape and she doesnt? How do i help her get an escape as well? My ultimate goal is the be able to go play music and hang out with friends without her getting mad at me. How to i acomplish this?

2007-02-13 04:49:35 · 19 answers · asked by someoneelse 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I like and as far as I know he likes me.Anyway,he text me last night so I want to text him now only I am scared he won't text me back because sometimes he doesn't bcos hes busy.I have got this fear he won't text me back but i want to text him so shall i?I want to text him a casual message like how are you?Hows your day been?Is that ok?

2007-02-13 04:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

I realise I may have made some mistakes, but I also realise I love him so much. It was very unexpected. I am shocked that he called me to call the relationship off. I was thinking of calling to his house in 2 weeks time to discuss things over with him.I was thinking that he may have made a hasty decision. I am unsure what to do. Does anyone have any advise.

2007-02-13 04:48:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone suggest any Valentines quotes. It cannot be too long as it will be used in a SMS text

No creepy smarmy ones pls

2007-02-13 04:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by davie 2 in Singles & Dating

I caught him last year saying explicite sexual things to women on line. He said he'd stop by I can tell he's looking up other website that you can use your phone on etc. I want to confront him because this makes me sad - but in another way he doesn't go out so he's not cheating. We've lived together for 9 years and are getting married next year. Should I just let it be - I have also snooped on his cell phone so I think maybe this is the reason why he's found other ways to get in touch with women (I'm assuming they are women - otherwise why would he hide it?) Am I bad for still suspecting? In all ways he's such a wonder guy - and we're not exactly kids either. Thanks for your messages - and I particularly hope there are guys out there that answer this....

2007-02-13 04:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by moonchild 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont want her to feel bad or Im stingy,but I think its ok now since almost a yr right..

2007-02-13 04:47:30 · 12 answers · asked by jimmyl929 3 in Singles & Dating

What is more romantic putting a card on your boyfriends car for him to find , or suprising him personally with a card in the morning?

2007-02-13 04:47:28 · 4 answers · asked by Elle x 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 04:47:25 · 6 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Weddings

2007-02-13 04:47:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister in law is so obnoxious, no matter what you say to her she has this hour long story about the same thing that happened to her blah blah blah. And the whole time somebody is talking to her she isn't even listening to you she is too busy formulating what she can say afterwards. What makes a person be like this??

2007-02-13 04:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 in Friends

I commute 55 miles one way to work and it takes me an hour to get home at night. I don't have the ability to change my work hours so I don't get home until 5:30 - 5:45pm every night. My bf hates the fact that I get home so late. He says it's a wasted evening. What can I do?

2007-02-13 04:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by sher2003bear 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 04:46:38 · 28 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

s h i t). Which one is cheaper & will satisfy all of your sexaul fantasies without any hassle or strings attached.

2007-02-13 04:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by Tony 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend now for about 5 months and the first 3 months were great. Actually they were out of this world. I could see my future with him stretching into the distant. This has been my 1st non dramatic relationship and the infatuation stage has just ended. My last ex was a real "winner" NOT. He was a loser, lost his job as a police officer, abused me, got caught for DUI. A whole pile of crap. All in all I dated him for about a year and I know I was in love with him at the beginning but had to get myself out of his mess and move on with my life.
I took a year for myself, moved out of town and just dated here and there, nothing serious. Then I met my now boyfriend and we clicked but I feel like I loved my ex more than I love my current boyfriend for some reason. I feel like something is missing in our relationship and I want to spend my life with him cause he is such a nice guy BUT I want my feelings to get stronger cause I dont want to love my ex more....
I have begun some councelling and that seems to be going ok so far but I AM SO SCARED that my feelings have changed and I dont love him anymore?!?!?!?

Is there any way we can make it work?

2007-02-13 04:46:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like, your personal preference. I know that whole "size doesnt matter line" but id rather have you not feed me it because I want to know the question is stated as what size and width do you prefer.

So what do you?

2007-02-13 04:45:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just refering to the fact that in most marriages that I know of it is so unfair to the woman. Most men these days want it all. They want us women to work, do all the housework and cooking, take care of the kids, do the shopping, ect.......Meanwhile, they put in there 8 measly hours a day at work, come home and eat the supper that you made, then take off and zone out infront of the computer or television all night, while we clean up the dishes, bath the kids, supervise homework, read the bedtime stories, get thier coffee and newspapers, take out the garbage, and still have energy for sex. Just wondering what makes you men so much more important that we have to pamper your asses or put up with your whining and pouting as a result?

2007-02-13 04:45:25 · 21 answers · asked by firefly2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce