I dont want her to feel bad or Im stingy,but I think its ok now since almost a yr right..
2007-02-13 04:47:30 · 12 answers · asked by jimmyl929 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should be straight up! a year is more than enough time with your partner to be comfortable bringing up issues like this.
this shouldnt come as a surprise for her in fact shes probably even thought about chipping in on your dates. it should be fine!
2007-02-16 13:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Giselle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Honesty is always the best policy. Maybe the next time you guys plan a date, you could bring up in a nice way that a relationship should always be 50/50, and sometimes it would be nice if you didn't have to dish out the cash.
2007-02-13 12:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chenielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but no matter what you are probably going to come out of it looking negative in some way or another. Im not saying its fair, but if you have been paying for a year, she probably thinks you would have spoken up by now, and bringing it up might make her feel bad. Again, its not fair but she may feel like shes been doing something wrong all this time by not paying.
2007-02-13 12:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit taking her out so much and when she asks why, Tell her you can't afford it. Then maybe she'll get the idea.
OR, next time she says where are we going to eat, tell her McDonald's for a hamburger and a glass of water because that's all you can afford.
2007-02-13 12:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front and honest. Truth and honesty is the best route in any situation. If you do not want to hurt her feelings then say what you feel.
2007-02-13 12:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she is really the person for you she will understand, how ever my bf would never have to ask me to help out, because i care enough to pay attention to his needs and to be considerate to his feelings.
2007-02-13 12:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by nealnefertirri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her....Say hey ,"we been together for a year now and I appreciate you and care about you but was hoping you can meet me half way with the bill"...Good Luck
2007-02-13 12:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a job and doesn't offer to pay, she takes it for granted that you need her more than she needs you.
2007-02-13 12:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you right it can be even 5 months ask her some girls are willing to help never know until you ask
2007-02-13 12:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl ,but I've heard Girls don't like losers.
2007-02-13 12:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋