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2007-02-13 04:54:28 · 31 answers · asked by adriene86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Be confident (insecurity is a turnoff at any size)
2) Take good care of yourself (this may include losing weight, but think about it in terms of how you dress, groom yourself, and maintain your health)
3) Get involved in activities where you would meet the kind of person you'd like to meet... but don't wait up for him. Anyone you have to chase is probably not worth catching.
Peace, and good luck
2007-02-13 04:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Don M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, hoepfully you can find someone who loves you for you or who has similar eating habits, so you being overweight won't be a big deal for him.
However, you should be worried about your health. If anything, try and lose weight for health's sake, not a man, and you'll find that men are more attracted to someone who is healthy and happy (not saying you're not, but your stats indicate you're probably at a higher risk for health problems)
Also, keep in mind that you have to be what you want to get. So if you want a healthy guy with a good body, you can expect him to want the same thing.
2007-02-13 12:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The other answers I read suck. You want to know how to get a man.....Be yourself and accept who you are and be happy about the way you look. Confidence is something that a lot of women do not have but it is something that a man loves. You look pretty good, the pic is small, but someone will be more than happy to give a big sexy chocolate drop such as yourself a chance.
2007-02-13 12:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's Not about weight honey! No matter what these other idiots say.
My husband is a bigger man & I love him no matter what his weight is. You need to concentrate on finding the right kind of man who will love you if you weighed 20 pounds or 600. They are out there. It take patience & time to find the right person for you no matter what you look like.
You could be 100 pounds & get men easily, but are they the right kind of men?!
Be patient, you are still a baby, it will come in time & when it does, you will be happy you waited!
Good Luck
2007-02-13 12:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your only 17 and weight 270, I hope you realize the harm you are putting yourself in... Heart attacks, happen every day.... go to a gym, work out, and live life better... please ....btw, plenty of men like big women... the more cushion the better the pushn ...just do it for yourself not for any lame excuse of a man....
2007-02-13 12:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Learn how to spell 'girl' so you might have a shot with intellectuals.
2. Find the smallest guy in school, then beat the hell out of him until he gives in.
I guess you could skip step 1.
2007-02-13 12:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every guy has different taste. If you love your self and have confidence in yourself then the right guy will like you! You can get a man no matter your age or weight because its you they are looking for, not your measurments!
2007-02-13 12:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would rather be with a CONFIDENT big beautiful woman who knows what she wants and knows how she likes it than a 115lb knucklehead that thinks she's Paris Hilton. My advice is to be happy with who you are, confident in all that you do, and enthusiastic when you're doing it! Enthusiasm in my opinion is worth at least 1.5 points on the 10 scale!!!!!
2007-02-13 12:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop worrying about what others think of you and do things to make yourself happy.
People want to be around others who are happy and confident, and i dont care what some ppl say, size doesnt always matter.
Ive seen ppl weighing 400+ pounds fall in love and get married.
If you are happy with yourself, it shows and ppl are naturally drawn to you. Would you really want to date someone who was solely concerned with your weight... they would be constantly harssing you if you even gained a pound.
2007-02-13 12:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~Browneyes~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be happy with yourself and don't try so hard. Men are really attracted to women that are confident. Try and take care of yourself. I don't mean 110lbs. but to a place your comfortable. enjoy your life.
If you love somebody, they shouldn't make you cry. They should be worth crying over
Find a guy that adores you, not one you adore
2007-02-13 13:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋