Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

help me get away to find a christian man from church close to my age and that I can be his wife and a companion to him like God would meeting a bride.

2007-02-13 12:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by someone who cares 1 in Singles & Dating

I just lost a friend over a play. My friends and I are making a play on High School Musical and this friend named Allison is Gabriella Montez and I was Troy and I just told her we found an actaull boy for Troy because I hated acting a guy! She got mad at me and called me a b**ch, she also quit the roll and I found someone better than Allison so what should I do? Should I just not be friends with her or try to fix it?

2007-02-13 12:20:07 · 18 answers · asked by Laura S 1 in Friends

They always fight and my mom has been talking to a guy online. My dad sides with my brother and my mom with my sister. My sister constantly says she hates my dad and mom does nothing about it. Everything my mom says/does is negative to my dad. It has to do with money being held by my dad and control, a big word in this house. My mom has stomach problems and she is always moody. My sister is 16, im 20 and my brother is 14. My mom is a stay at home mom but is also a president at an animal shelter. Sometimes it seems like she cares more about the animals than she does the family, except for my sister. If my sister needs to go anywhere or do anything its almost an instant as long as she asks mom. At night if I come out to get something to eat(my mom sleeps in the living room(as do my brother/sister) then she will yell at me like its in the daytime even though people are sleeping. I want the best for my family but I dont know what to do. Where do I start? What can i do? Thanks!

2007-02-13 12:18:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want a cell phone. My mom says that I'm too young. I'm twelve. My mom says that I'm still a baby and that I should have fun being one while I can. My sister got one when she was 13. Every time I talk to her about it she gets angry with me.

2007-02-13 12:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by tawgirlz 1 in Family

What are some fun (COED) games to play at a party for 15 year olds? Dont be immature and put sex please like i want party games but like seven minutes in heaven just more creative lol andany other ideas

2007-02-13 12:18:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, and we decided to stay friends. we hung out a few days ago and everything was fine, but now i feel like complete crap. I am totally in love with her and i dont know what to do. She has had multiple brain surgeries and because of that has some baggage, and although she said "there was no spark", i feel that she just is afraid to get into a relaionship with anyone. I havent told her i was in love with her but I cannot help how i feel and do not know what to do. Please help. I know if i tell her it will just make the relationship more awkward. What do i do? I know that if i tell her it will ruin our relationship... how do i tell her if i know that she doesnt feel the same way.. if she did she wouldnt have broken up with me no?

2007-02-13 12:17:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Dearest Sexy Hunk,

Thank you for your thoughtful and comprehensive reply. I am very pleased to hear you want to go forward with this plan. Also happy to hear about your update regarding the store.

In fact, I already have mostly cleared out the room upstairs that will go to you. It sure looks a lot bigger without all that stuff in there. I wanted to see if there really was enough space for my baby and I to share one room. Well, my baby and my clothes fit in the same closet without any problem. I moved my computer downstairs, and once that was out of the way, pretty much all mine and my baby's bedroom stuff fit without any undue effort. Still have some organizing work to do, and a few more trips to Goodwill & the trashcan.

On a different note, I have not yet gotten my tax refund, which was going to fund my travel to your house. My baby 's birthday broke my budget this month plus I overpaid on my loan, not thinking about things like gas money. Although, it is still possible I will get that refund tomorrow (Tuesday). I will let you know how that turns out.

If we don't chat tonight, have a nice sleep, interesting dreams, and I will get in touch w/you tomorrow.

Always Your Sweet,

Pumpkin

2007-02-13 12:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

I know you’re supposed to get over your ex… but there are what appear to be unclear and buried feelings. Feeling for which are locked… if you know what I mean? Is there a way to access those feelings?

2007-02-13 12:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so this guy (from what i've heard from everyone) is supposed to ask me out tomorrow. I know that i'm going to say no, but he's the kind of guy who goes all out for these things, u know, card, flowers, chocolate, the works. so, my problem is that i'm afraid that i'm going to make him really upset and that he will have done all of that for nothing. what should i do?

2007-02-13 12:15:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you have a last fling while engaged ? How did things turn out? Would you take it back if you had the chance? How common do you think this is?

2007-02-13 12:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by gerber baby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and haven' t had my 1st kiss. am i hopeless??? i kno im not ugly and there are a few guys i think like me but wtf. i go to a school where i'm basically the only black person so maybe thats got sumthin to do with it but i havent even seen the rite guy. help me!!!

2007-02-13 12:14:29 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys, i think this question is kinda silly. But please help me by all means! I am still so dependent on my parents now and I am living w/ them. We just bought a brand new 2007 vehicle and it is quite expensive for us. Yesterday my dad he let me borrow the car and I accidentally made a damage to it. Now there is a big ugly scratch on the very back of the car. Car's color is silver so that is obvious for my dad to see the scratch. Since my dad he is VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY serious about car damage and such matter would piss he off so quick. It's like he's gonna ground me up or something like that. Although we have insurance, but he still takes it very seriously. Should I tell him the truth or should I lie to him by letting it go and wait until he finds out on his own? I feel very uncomfortable if I have to lie. But since my dad he will never take this matter slightly, i think i have to lie. Please help me seriously!!!! pleaseeeeeeee Thank you

2007-02-13 12:14:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A ways back I was feeling like I needed some color so I bought a pack of tanning sessions at a tanning salon. I went a few times and my wife noticed a slight change in my color and asked me if I went tanning. I dont know why I felt embarassed about it but I did and I told her no, dont be silly. Today I went again and I got more color than usual and when I went home she kept asking and asking, so I told her the truth, mandid she get pissed. Now she thinks I lie to her about everything and even thinks I have something going on with someone in the salon. I deeply regret having lied to her and I dont know what to do now. I already apologized to her but she was so mad she said she didnt even want to be near me right now. I would appreciate if anyone has any good advice, serious answers only please.

2007-02-13 12:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by chefbill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i try to be nice. im not cocky or anything, and im decent looking, (so im told anyways) but noone will date me. why? what am i doing wrong?

2007-02-13 12:13:40 · 2 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 12:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who has given wedgies? Have you ever received/given a wedgie?

Who did you give it to. What kind of undies did they have on? How was their reaction? Permanently stretched?

Feel free to include anything else, LOL.

2007-02-13 12:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by Question 1 in Friends

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2007-02-13 12:13:24 · 6 answers · asked by ♠Gotham♠ 3 in Family

what's the biggest you've had to deal with? was it all it was meant to be? did a smaller man please you better?

i've heard women say that its not the matter of the size but how he works it. i'm curious if women will answer honestly.

2007-02-13 12:13:21 · 6 answers · asked by BLASTING ON FOOLS 2 in Singles & Dating

tommoror is v-day and i am have just started going out w/ this realli hott guy but i don't know wat to give him!we still haven't kissed yet!and i can't go to the store plz help me!

2007-02-13 12:12:54 · 3 answers · asked by sad 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 12:12:15 · 1 answers · asked by cameron t 1 in Singles & Dating

We have both been married before but don't want to get married again. Is it morally / socially ok to say we are married when we really are not legally? Is it bad luck for him to wear a wedding ring and for me to wear an engagement/wedding ring if not really married? We love each other very much and are very committed to each other.

2007-02-13 12:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by BB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

make out or tongue kissing or french kissing?
i need tips!

2007-02-13 12:11:26 · 4 answers · asked by sad 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm a 18 year old guy who has only had 5 girl friends.the longest one i had was for 8 months,But because im not good looking girls dont give me a chance,Even if i say hi they just look away from me,I find it hard to get a girl to give me a little chance, so help i really want a nice girl on my arm,

2007-02-13 12:11:24 · 20 answers · asked by me n you 1 in Singles & Dating

IM A BLACK WOMAN IN LOVE WITH MY BF MIKE WITCH IS A WHITE MAN!!!! WHY EVERTIME I DATE A WHITE MAN THEY TREAT ME LIKE A QUEEN AN SHOW ME THE MOST AN HIGH RESPECT AND LOVE!! BUT WHEN IDATE BLACK MEN IT NEVER LASTS OR THE BLACK MAN TAKES ADVATAGE OF ME LIKE IM SOPPOSED 2 BE WITH HIM!!! I HAVE KINDA TURNED MY BACK AN CLOSED MY MIND TO BLACK MEN 4 THE SIMPLE FACT IM TIRED OF GIVEN MY ALL AN LOVEN THEM AN THEY JUST HURT ME AN ALSO NOT ATTRACTED TO THEM!! BUT I CAN SAY THIS ITS BEEN 1 YEAR AN ME AN MY BF ARE IN LOVE THE SAME WAY AS WE FIRTS MEET!! ALSO I AM VERY TIRED OF STERIOTYPEZ IM NOT MEAN OR PUSHY AN I TREAT MY MEN RIGHT THIS B.S STERIOTYPE OF THE BLACK WOMAN HAS TO STOP SMH ITS 2007 GET REAL!!!

2007-02-13 12:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by BEAUTYFULL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is my freakin problem? Why can I not find a boyfriend? I'm pretty cute (not to be concieded or anything), I'm accepting, nice, and to top it off, I'm kinky! Isn't that what every guy wants?

2007-02-13 12:08:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is Valentine's, Christmas,New Years, Thanksgiving...what about singles??

2007-02-13 12:08:44 · 15 answers · asked by misskitty5648 2 in Singles & Dating

Two weekends ago I went out with a buddy I havent seen in like 3 years. There was a group of us including his sister whose about five years younger than me (21). The two of us seemed to hit it off and we were up till 5 just catching up (Ive known her about as long as him) long after everyone else went to sleep. She mentioned some guy she was talking to. I was talking about some date I had a few days earlier. I think I should have asked her out but for some reason I didn't. I know where she works and was thinking of visiting her and asking her out. It just seems a little creepy to me. How about you guys? Should I run it by him? I really havnt hung out with the guy in a while and wouldnt really care if I didnt.

2007-02-13 12:08:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess this question could be answered by those who are going through or have already gone through a divorce as well, but the part that doesn't pertain to me is we weren't married therefore I'm not "entitled" to anything (house, alimony, etc). I am a stay-at-home mom (can't afford daycare, even w/child support) & had to move back in w/my parents because I'm not working & therefore can't afford a place right now. I don't qualify for state aid either, since my "assets" (my car) are worth slightly more than the state allows, but if I sell my car, I'll have no transportation to med appts, grocery shopping, future job, etc (we live out in the sticks so there's no public transportation here). Where should I begin to get back on my feet & become self-sufficient once again??

2007-02-13 12:07:59 · 6 answers · asked by Starting from the ground up..... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is a virgin...really is a virgin a person who didn't enteract with sexual contact or is it a person who never had sex.Please explain because I looked it up and it saids a person who didn't enteract with sexual contact and I have been enteracting with sexual contact and alot of it.So am I a virgin?Someone PLEASE explain!!!!!!

2007-02-13 12:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by poemangel always 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 12:07:38 · 10 answers · asked by Patricia P 1 in Weddings