I just lost a friend over a play. My friends and I are making a play on High School Musical and this friend named Allison is Gabriella Montez and I was Troy and I just told her we found an actaull boy for Troy because I hated acting a guy! She got mad at me and called me a b**ch, she also quit the roll and I found someone better than Allison so what should I do? Should I just not be friends with her or try to fix it?
2007-02-13 12:20:07 · 18 answers · asked by Laura S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK. Your friend here should not be upset that you didn't want to act as a guy. I think you should forget her, not to be rude. But, I think it is the best thing to do. It doesn't make sense for her to be mad just because you didn't want to act as a guy.
2007-02-13 12:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I have no idea why she would be upset with you for quitting the role of Troy since, well you are a girl and it would be easier and better if a boy played that role. Now as to her quitting her role, well that is her decision, there is nothing you can do about it, and the good news from all this is that you found someone who is a boy to play Troy and you found a better actress to play her part. If you want to try to salvage the friendship that is your call, but only if you want to since you wonder if you should even try to fix it. I would say if you do not want to lose her as a friend try to fix it but if she is stubborn then forget it.
2007-02-13 20:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have other friends I wouldn't worry about it. Why should you play a guy in a play when there is someone better for the job, she should understand that if not she was in the play for the wrong reasons and you don't need her anyway. You take the play seriously, and respect the art form; she thought she could use the opportunity to make friends, if that hadn't happened something would and you would have lost your respect later than sooner so take it as a blessing in disguise ...
2007-02-13 20:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is precious. But someone that can call me a b**** really can't be considered my friend for long. And someone that walks out and expects me to run after them, well they can keep running. They need more than you can give them.
Give it a couple of days. When things cool off, if you can look each other in the eye without a death wish, then talk it over. If she just wants to be a drama queen, then let her do that.
2007-02-13 20:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by K-men mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. High school musical is gay
2. That's a bad way to loose a friend. try and make it up to her
3. why did you agree to playing a guy in the first place?
2007-02-13 20:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she was the one who got mad over the whole situation, just give her time to cool off, and she will come back around. Maybe try to apologize to her and let her take it from there, if she chooses to accept, then great, if not then let it go you tried and it's her loss. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 20:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say you should try to fix it cuz a friend is more important than a play and well after the play is over with.... everyone will forget abt it and you'll be left alone or with less friends so fix it...
2007-02-13 20:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by medha dutta1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been friends with her for a long time then the play isnt worth losing a friendship. Yuo should stop and really think hard about this and ask yourself is it worth losing this person?
2007-02-13 20:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by gameplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems kinda stubborn if she gets mad at you because you don't want to be a guy when you could get a real one. i think that you should try to patch things up with her because she isn't worth ur time.
2007-02-13 20:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Briana DeShe' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont be friends with her.unless you REALLY REALLY think you should. You know her better and if you were very close I do think you should try to fix it. But if you werent that close dont.
2007-02-13 20:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Volleyball Expert in da house!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋