Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I am going to kiss my GF for the first time. it's going to be at school. Any advice

P.S. im 12


okay a couple things

1. she asked me to kiss her

2. she wants it to be at school ( after the bell rings and everyone is heading off to class, no i am not going to skip class.)

3. Don't say im too young, it's just a kiss, and yes it's on the lips.

is there anything i need to think about while i kiss her to be less nervous.

im kissing her on V-day ( valentine's day)
and im gonna give her a chocolate rose and a white stuffed animal bear.
( i really like her)

2007-02-13 11:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at a wedding? What about setting up dates with someone they just met?

2007-02-13 11:53:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, one of my BFF's has a major crush on this guy who is also a really close friend. She wants me to ask him out for her, but the truth is, I don't think her crush likes her at all. What should I do? Be a loyal friend and ask him out for her, but have her heart broken or tell her the truth, but also have her heart broken.

2007-02-13 11:51:50 · 7 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Friends

2007-02-13 11:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating

I give my friends advice all tha time about their relationship. I'm 17 and I've had 1 and a half boyfriends. The half is because I used him for a month then dumpped him. But that's not the situation. I'm sprung on my first boyfriend but we've been broken up since last August, I would tell myself to move on kuz that's what advice I would give a friend but i can't. Everytime I try he pulls me baCK. He's a gangbanger and now he's in jail and has been for a couple of weeks. I don't know wat to do kuz I'm stupid. I have been keeping distant from boys i might like juss so I could stay single in case my ex want me back. He shows that he wants me back and I always ask him wat tha hell are we doin kuz we won't hook back up. I bluntly ask are we hooking back up kuz I hate beating around tha bush. wat should I do. I have several options but they aren't tha same and everytime I go outside boys approch me but I would juss play wit their head. somebody please knock some since into my head.

2007-02-13 11:51:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 11:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do for love? What would you do for your lover?
Happy Valentines Day!

2007-02-13 11:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just wanted to say thanks!

it's was the most attention i've had this week!

2007-02-13 11:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by soren 6 in Friends

I think theres a market for cards with more realistic expressions....

2007-02-13 11:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by birdie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

According to these sources they say women cheat more!!

Cosmo says Girls cheat more.

http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/men/menu/articles/0,,426370_525871,00.html

The Sun says Women Cheat more

http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006600199,00.html

Womenlifstyle says Women cheat more

http://www.womenlifestyle.com/entry/women-cheat-more-than-men-study/

I'd say that's consensus enough. I would say women probably cheat more than men do.

2007-02-13 11:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you show a woman you like her without telling her?

If you ask a woman out to dinner, lunch or coffee... is that an indication that you like her or just being friendly? Also if you communicates with her after a couple of days or few days, not neccessarily on a daily basis.

I getting confused on what is a man's intention when they ask me to have lunch/dinner with them. It seem hard to identify what is a date or just hanging out anymore.

2007-02-13 11:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by equality 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm not that cofiedent in myself so i told 1 of my best guy friend . and he said i here a lot of guys say you are sexy and that kinda lifted my spirit .but my girl friends think i'm full of myself . what do i do?

2007-02-13 11:47:18 · 13 answers · asked by hot stuff 1 in Friends

My son is 24 and acting like a teenager. I believe in God and brought him up as a christian, now he says I poisoned his mind and tried to brainwash him and that he does not think he can speak to me again if I cannot listen to reason. (If the existence of God cannot be proved scientifically then God cannot exist)
We have always talked about many things, including philosophy and I dont have a problem with his beliefs but cannot say I do not believe in something which is so important to me.
Should I pretend he didnt say it, try to talk to him about it, or just do nothing and wait and see what happens?

2007-02-13 11:46:57 · 12 answers · asked by cate 4 in Family

Me and my gf have been talking about moving in together for a few months. We have been together for 8 months. She has $60,000 in debt. She also has a freeloading brother that has to stay with us(he is 23 and works but does not give $$). She is working hard at 2 jobs to keep herself afloat. I love her but all that plus her chaotic schedule and stressed attitude is not something I like. I have expressed my concerns to her but she blows them off. Now her lease is expiring in a couple of months and she is expecting me to move in to help with the bills. I told her I do not think I can do it after all and she got very upset. Any Adviice? Thanks for your responses.

2007-02-13 11:46:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing my ex for about 7 months now.we have GREAT sex and he recently asked me if i would let him record us. i asked him,"what are you gonna do with the tape?", and he said,"watch it with you-it'll be fun and it will add more excitement when we are together!". i really don't think he has bad intentions, but what do you guys/girls think?

2007-02-13 11:46:21 · 13 answers · asked by mida-mida 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked this girl practically forever. We have 5 out of 6 classes together and we usually talk with each other in all of them. Idk why she just doesn't like me cause we always flirt A LOT and hang out the majority of the time in school. She talks to me around her preppy friends who think im pretty cool and dnt have a problem with me, so she must be comfortable with me with her friends. She does kind of act a little different around me than she does around some of her friends. I like her better the way she acts around me. Since I figured that she liked me, I "accidently" sent her a long text that I was sendin to my friend that said how pretty she was and how much I liked her and my friend txted her about it and the girl I like said that she didnt know wut to say back and said that she doesnt want to be more than friends. Neither one of us have mentioned this txt to each other and act like it never happened. I jus like her a lot a lot and kinda wanna be a lot more than jus buddies.

2007-02-13 11:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by [(I.L.W.S.M)] 2 in Singles & Dating

do u thing i sud

2007-02-13 11:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by tatortot so cool 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy...but he MIGHT like someone else. Should I talk to him about it?

2007-02-13 11:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by shooting_star242 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 11:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by debraj622000 2 in Weddings

i like this really cute nice guy and i dont know how 2 say i like u and how do u say it not i person because i won't see him

2007-02-13 11:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

i'am 14 years old i'm emo play the drims piano and guitar in a band

2007-02-13 11:44:08 · 12 answers · asked by William C 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... there is this girl .. lets call her Bobby ... Bobby has had a crush on my bf lets call him Nick... ok Nick is always talkin about her ... in a bad way... but Bobby is talkin about him in a good way ... is Nick hiding the fact that he likes Bobby ..or does he hate her ... but whenever i try to say soemthing about her he always says something like you should not be talkin about other peole behind there backs is wrong... bnut then he goes and does it ....... does that mean Nick likes Bobby ?? Or what ?

2007-02-13 11:43:30 · 2 answers · asked by emily v 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 11:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 11:43:09 · 10 answers · asked by babygirlknowhowtodo 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a rocky relationship with my father. We differ greatly on politics and yet I am open minded and respect other points of view.
I enjoy opposite ideas, how else do you grow and learn acceptance and wisdom?
We fought last winter and he's written me off, telling me that I've been no good since I was 12yrs old!
I understand that things are said in the heat of the moment that we don't really mean. However I think I know my father well enough to know, that it is always up to me to reconcile and tread the turbulent waters.
I've been crushed so many times and yet who hasn't?
My heart aches for my children, as they have now seen an indepth look, at the less than attractive side of their grandfather.
Kidz are extremely resilient though and my father has had very little to do with them. That doesn't mean he doesn't care, he just never see's them unless I bring them to him.
I hurt because I know he'll never know me and he's missing out on two amazing kids, his grandkids

2007-02-13 11:43:05 · 5 answers · asked by cHaMeLeOn_jO 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is fate real or just opinion?

2007-02-13 11:42:31 · 3 answers · asked by dantheman7588 2 in Singles & Dating

First off, I tend to vote Democrat and could not be more against the Iraq War. Visit some other discussions on this site. You’ll see that I have big issues with conservative political policies. Secondly, Lawful does NOT = Right nor does it = correct! Your argument for relative morality I will agree does make sense on a grand scale. Peoples’ sense of morals can differ and still fall within the acceptable societal norm. However, for specific issues, morals are not relative, but concretely static! One of those morals is the right to live your life without it being intentionally taken away from you by another human being. Imagine your reaction if you were having a discussion with someone and they told you, with all sincerity, that they didn’t think killing or ending human life was morally wrong. Would you consider this person moral? Would you still talk to this person? My bet is that you would not. An overwhelming majority of people would think that this person was off their rocker and would avoid them like the plague. Furthermore, I still get a kick out of fellow debaters trying to discount my argument because they say I’ve based my belief on my religion. I have done no such thing (I haven’t gone to church regularly in years). I’ve used deductive logic, with science and the basic moral principle that I just mentioned above concerning right to life as my benchmarks, to form my conclusion. Science tells us that at conception, a living human cell is formed. It begins a process called mitosis, which is the process of cell division, or growth. Science also tells us that dead cells cannot divide and grow. If these cells are human cells, and they are growing, then from the above we can logically conclude that we do, in fact, have human life. And if we can, from above, mutually agree that human life has the right to complete their existence without being eliminated in an intentional way (society’s basic agreement on right to life), then we can conclude that abortion is morally wrong. It’s not a hard argument to follow. I do appreciate your history lesson with regards to the Courts rulings (I’m aware of the Court’s rulings, thank you), but again, they don’t really apply in our discussion unless you’re arguing that they’ve ruled on morality here. Which by the way, contradict your entire argument. I never argued that abortion was illegal, or that women didn’t have the legal right to have them done. What I did was say they didn’t have the moral right. What I did was call them immoral, based on irrefutable scientific fact, an irrefutable and binding societal contract to not end human life, and deductive reasoning. That’s actually ironic when you think about it. Here we have, as I said above, far left liberals arguing ethics and moral standards when it comes to economic and political matters, such as minimum wage fairness, characteristics of the free market, CEO golden parachutes, gaps in compensation between the elitists and proletariats, and desired government intervention during the oil price surge ( just to name a few). Yet, they can’t see how their own argument and position in this discussion is violating the most basic societal contract. There’s HUGE inconsistency on the left when it comes to a discussion about morals. But the real kicker is this: while there are pro lifers out there that are whacked and clearly have gone off the deep end, many pro lifers cite the same arguments I have, and we get accused of trying to set up a sectarian form of government to push our religious beliefs. And on the other hand, you have the pro choicers who contend that life doesn’t begin until birth. Of what are they basing that on in this MORAL argument? Science rejects their claim. So what then are they basing it on? The only thing that’s left is…faith.

2007-02-13 11:42:24 · 8 answers · asked by Dark Helmet 2 in Singles & Dating

so there this guy i have been with for thje last 7 months hes the nicest guy ive ever meet and he really loves me i do to but he dosent live in the town i live he lives like 20min away frome were i live i see him like every week mabie once a week or sumtimes twice i have had lots of fun memories with him i have started to talk to some other really nice guy from my school he says he loves me and i think that i kinda do 2 i see him behind my boyfriends back but he eventually finds out from people that he knows frome over the town were i live i am confussed and need advise thanx for taking the time to read this

2007-02-13 11:41:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half, and we have been living together for about a year and a little bit. I've had my doubts about our relationship and my suspicions. When i checked his phone everything was deleted, untill i found a undeleted text from his phone sayin 'love you i hope your boyfriend don't find this love you loads and loads'. I've asked him about it and he just brushes it off like i hadn't said nothing,
Please someone help me

2007-02-13 11:41:35 · 20 answers · asked by LOOPY COLLEGE STUDENT 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't ask for details. Let's treat it like a hypothetical question. What are the advantages and disadvantages to taking someone back under these circumstances?

2007-02-13 11:41:18 · 26 answers · asked by ah_relaxing 2 in Marriage & Divorce