i've been seeing my ex for about 7 months now.we have GREAT sex and he recently asked me if i would let him record us. i asked him,"what are you gonna do with the tape?", and he said,"watch it with you-it'll be fun and it will add more excitement when we are together!". i really don't think he has bad intentions, but what do you guys/girls think?
2007-02-13 11:46:21 · 13 answers · asked by mida-mida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dnt record it!!..you never know what his intentions could be..he might think its ok to show a few of his friends but how would u feel about that??
2007-02-13 11:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!! Hey, I made the mistake when I was 18 of letting a guy tape us having sex. Our relationship ended a couple of months later and I never found out what happened to that tape even though I demanded it back.
I mean, for all I know he still has it and spanks to it, or is showing his friends....ick!!!! What if he has put it on the Internet? I feel so ashamed, especially because of the things we were doing on the tape.
anyway, please don't do it and save yourself headache and heartache in the future.
sophia
2007-02-13 19:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it.Anything can happen tomorrow.If you do it and he has the tape,if you make him mad or he blows up for some reason,that tape could wind up anywhere.Even if you think you have the original he could make copies without you knowing.Is it really worth the worry?
2007-02-13 19:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable with it then go ahead. BUT make sure he lets you hold on to the tape.
2007-02-13 19:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by deadetern1ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't let him tape you having sex because you never know what he might do with that tape or where the tape might end up
2007-02-13 19:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a blackmail situation if I've ever seen one, do not record yourself. Ever, with anyone, even your husband if you get married.
2007-02-13 19:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be on the internet let him record. if you do not want to be on the internet dont let him record.i believe you would end up in pics all over the net.
2007-02-13 19:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by D R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!! You never know what the future holds and you may live to regret it. Better safe than sorry.
2007-02-13 19:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Record it, watch it right after and then burn the thing. he wants to use it to show it off to his friends.
2007-02-13 19:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by djrisk75 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u really have to think about that cus ur sex life is personal so do u think u can trust him with that
2007-02-13 19:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mz.Myunique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋