I have liked this girl practically forever. We have 5 out of 6 classes together and we usually talk with each other in all of them. Idk why she just doesn't like me cause we always flirt A LOT and hang out the majority of the time in school. She talks to me around her preppy friends who think im pretty cool and dnt have a problem with me, so she must be comfortable with me with her friends. She does kind of act a little different around me than she does around some of her friends. I like her better the way she acts around me. Since I figured that she liked me, I "accidently" sent her a long text that I was sendin to my friend that said how pretty she was and how much I liked her and my friend txted her about it and the girl I like said that she didnt know wut to say back and said that she doesnt want to be more than friends. Neither one of us have mentioned this txt to each other and act like it never happened. I jus like her a lot a lot and kinda wanna be a lot more than jus buddies.
2007-02-13 11:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by [(I.L.W.S.M)] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well- I'm sorry but this girl sounds like a player. She might not even do it on purpose, but some girls just flirt A LOT (ie- my b/f's ex-g/f....gr her...). You DESERVE a girl who will be straight up with you. You can't make a girl like you. A girl can't help how she feels about a guy, trust me I should know. These feeling are impossible to control even if we wanted to. I'm sorry to break it to you, but it might be time to move on.
(PS- you want to make her think you of as more then just a friend, the only way to do that would be to change yourself. And if you did do that- she would like a "fake" you, not the real you, and who wants that anyway? good luck!!)
(extra PS- I don't fully know your situation, so if you think there might be hope by somthing you didn't care to share on here, keep at it for a bit, I just don't want you to get hurt, sorry to say, some girls can be awful to guys w/out knowing it, I hope this is different for you!! AgAiN, Good Luck!!!)
2007-02-13 11:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friend this is quite a complex situation. As I'm sure you already know, a lot of times in these situations one or the other realize their feelings later or not at all. From what you've got up there, all I can say is that she's used to having you around as a friend and that's all she knows and from what it sounds like it's hard to avoid. Risk is usually what drives hidden emotion to the forefront, by that I mean if she thought you liked another girl or stopped hanging around her and started hanging around another girl friend of yours, it might make her jealous, get her worried that she might lose you and spark some realization in her, if it's there. However on the other end, she may genuinely not have any feelings which needless to say is quite upsetting, but in cases like that it's always good to know what's going on from her perspective, the kinds of things she tells her girl friends that she may be too shy to tell you. Keep an open mind that she might be sincere about not having feelings but keep trying. Hope this helps and hope things work out.
2007-02-13 12:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom Kaz and The Razz'matazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, keep going. that's exactly how my g/f and i got started. it started as a friendship and evolved into a relationship. now we've been together for 7 months. just keep moving along. one thing to not do is rat on other guys to make yourself look better, they really dont like that. do nice things for her, like wash her car and then spend the day with her. watch a movie or something. the summertime is great for that.
2007-02-13 11:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋