I'm 14 and haven' t had my 1st kiss. am i hopeless??? i kno im not ugly and there are a few guys i think like me but wtf. i go to a school where i'm basically the only black person so maybe thats got sumthin to do with it but i havent even seen the rite guy. help me!!!
2007-02-13 12:14:29 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't kiss until I was... 15 or 16 (not sure) one of those.
I don't think you're hopeless, don't worry so much. =)
2007-02-13 12:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO, you are definately not hopeless, I used to feel like a loser because I hadn't had my first kiss, so when I was thirteen I found this wild guy who I knew wouldn't be inhibited at all and we started "going out" and I kissed him, it was completely impulsive and tacky and there was nothing special about it, it was outside of a roll-a-rink and in the background were obscene chants. The only good thing that came from that was experience, which was NOT at all a very good thing. I was my current bf's first kiss and it was really romantic and I wish i'd waited for him. I know a girl that had her first kiss when she was 16 or 17 and over a year later they're still together. Shes not a freak, its probably the sweetest relationship I've ever seen, she just waited for the right guy. Giving away things like kisses to people who don't mean anything is not worth it. Wait for the right guy so you won't look back and feel stupid.
2007-02-13 12:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by julietlovesthebeat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not. i just got my first kiss this year and i'm 17 and in the 12th grade!! Don't worry. God has a plan for you. Rushing will get you into alot of trouble. Alot of people I know rushed into things just because and it went wrong. Just wait. There's someone for everyone. Maybe you're guy didn't come yet, but he will. Be patient. That's what I did and i'm happier than ever. Trust me. You have enough time to get kissed!! lol Being the only black person in the school dont have anything to do with it.
2007-02-13 12:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by balla32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, ur not hopeless! i havent had mine either and some ppl i kno say im pretty but alot of other ppl think im ugly. and youll find the right guy 2 even tho it feels like you NEVER will! and im sure its not just cuz ur black! well im not black but i dont think thats y! and if a guy does like u, get 2 know him. he could be really nice when ya get 2 know him! good luck w/ that!
2007-02-13 12:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are the type of marvelous number of solutions in this one, i doubt you'll study mine, or p.c.. it as maximum ideal. Im 15. Ima guy, my widespread call is B I had my first kiss at the same time as i grow to be 3. with yet another guy. then I kissed a lady at the same time as i grow to be 7, 8,and 9 kissed yet another one at the same time as i grow to be 14, and now im fifteen, had sex 2 months in the past and kiss on a commonplace foundation I nver had your issue, yet enable me allow you to understand this, people are the following, attempting to assert be organic, and the first kiss is for someone particular actual? imagine you imagine you discover that individual, and resources them that very particular first kiss, and they go away you. the guy you gave your particular like to, doesnt want you anymore. its maximum ideal to get it out of how and end wondering its some large particular aspect. kisses are an expression of love, it doesnt count number wether its your first or no longer. oh, and its no longer known. i want you to bypass kiss someone, and adventure it. reason 14, your starting up you existence. initiate it with a band, no longer a whimper or stutter. a huge BANG!
2016-12-04 03:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry. One of my craziest, nicest friends didn't get her first kiss until she was a senior in high school. I've had my first kiss (and a whole lot more), but I'm still holding out on labelling my 'first meaningful kiss'--let me tell you, going around kissing boys can be fun, but I'd give anything to be able to label my actual 'first' kiss as my 'first meaningful kiss', but I can't.
I honestly can't even remember who and when my first kiss actually was--I think it was a spin the bottle game in middle school. It was completely forgettable and I really regret that!
So, don't be me. Don't kiss a boy just to do it. Find a good one and have it be special. It's one of those things you should remember for your whole life, don't cheat yourself out of that memory!
2007-02-13 12:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it is if you havent met that person that attracts you in a instance. Than youre ok because u you should save everything like that (especially your virginity) for the one you know for sure is what you want. Never settle for less. If you know without a doubt you can do better than go find that better one.
2007-02-13 12:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it doesn't matter how old you are. I was 15 when I had my first kiss. But that doesn't matter. U are going to find the right guy for u and he is going to be amazing. have fun and don't worry about it will happen when the time is right.
2007-02-13 12:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by bec7bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about when you will get your first kiss and you cant try to forsee when it will be or who it will be with. You are not hopeless i didnt get mine until i was 16 and i gained some freedom. But anyway u are not hopless and when u get it it will be amazing!
2007-02-13 12:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First kisses aren't all they are cracked up to be, so you're not missing that much. I was 16 before I had mine. There is not a deadline or anything...be patient.
Until then work on your spelling. (Slaps your hand)
2007-02-13 12:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋