Two weekends ago I went out with a buddy I havent seen in like 3 years. There was a group of us including his sister whose about five years younger than me (21). The two of us seemed to hit it off and we were up till 5 just catching up (Ive known her about as long as him) long after everyone else went to sleep. She mentioned some guy she was talking to. I was talking about some date I had a few days earlier. I think I should have asked her out but for some reason I didn't. I know where she works and was thinking of visiting her and asking her out. It just seems a little creepy to me. How about you guys? Should I run it by him? I really havnt hung out with the guy in a while and wouldnt really care if I didnt.
2007-02-13 12:08:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a sticky situation because if you do ask her out and anything wrong happens, depending on what happens you may never speak to her or your buddy ever again. But I would probably run it by your buddy first just to see if he is cool with it because if not then once again you could find yourself in a situation where you just lost two friends.
2007-02-13 12:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and if you arent close with the guy you dont need his permission. It may be creepy though for you to show up at her work, unless you have no otehr means of contacting her. If thats the case then go for it.
2007-02-13 12:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you haven't seen this guy in a while it really should not be a big deal. If it really creeps you out, ask him about it first, but otherwise, if your interested and she seems to be also, go for it.
She is more than old enough to decide for herself who she sees and who she doesn't.
2007-02-13 12:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋