Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

i love the idea of having a cupcake tower, or little stacked cakes for a wedding cake (actually, that's what the original wedding cakes were little cakes held together with icing.) my question is, would it be ok to have a smaller "normal" wedding cake to cut, and then the stacked one to serve? my fiance's aunt makes cakes and will most likely be making ours (he's in charge of that aspect) and i'm pretty sure she's making the usual, round tiered cake. i'm just wondering how it would work. i mean, you can't cut a stacked cake real well......can you? how

2007-02-12 07:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by Duelen 4 in Weddings

I cheated on my now wife once while we was dating (I know stupid me) she cheated on me with a couple of different times I figured I deserved that besides we was just dating. A year later we got married but now she is cheating on me and uses that as an excuse. She is going to the bars and letting guys fill her up and has has left with a couple of guys I have had a few friends there to tell me about it. She said that since I cheated on her then the court will look at it like we cheated on each other instead of her cheating on me. Is their any truth to this? I mean when I cheated we was dating and I haven't cheated since especially after we got married. We have been married 3 years and I haven't cheated on her.

2007-02-12 07:49:27 · 21 answers · asked by southernguy_692003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today i found out that one of my friends like the girl that I like and have liked since August should I ask her out before he does? Or just let her go?

2007-02-12 07:48:58 · 16 answers · asked by Rob 3 in Singles & Dating

spliting up with my partner n we had rude pictures of each other on our phones. he asked me to delete his and i did. he also as a video of me. i am worried he didnt delete it has he lies. if your a man what would you do. if he does do i have any legal rights to prosecute

2007-02-12 07:48:51 · 8 answers · asked by poppy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend have been friends for like 5 months now... he is pretty much the only BEST guy friend I have. He is a really good guy, but I think that he wants to stay in the friend zone, lately I have been a B**** to all of my friends because my emotions are screwed up… i have no clue weather he likes me because i dont want to make things akward between us. we hang out ALOT and he kissed me a couple of times, but i have no clue. Plus I have a boy friend. We’ve been dating for two months... I just need to know what to do... so anyone who can help plz do.

2007-02-12 07:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by ~Angel Face~ 1 in Singles & Dating

do you like skinny or meaty girls what do like about us the way we dress what is your type or should i say what is HOT???

2007-02-12 07:48:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:47:35 · 4 answers · asked by more100 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so these 2 guys like me and I like them both but I don't know who to go out with because one of them I would have a longer relationship with but the other one I like more and we get along great

2007-02-12 07:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by maddy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by bballplayr44 1 in Friends

What are some pros and cons of being an only child????

2007-02-12 07:46:44 · 7 answers · asked by Airbear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would u dump your gf when she tells you shes 3 week pregnant with your baby at 15.
the lad is 17 by the way and im 15!

2007-02-12 07:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by foxxie-soon-2-be-mamma-@15 2 in Singles & Dating

Just last week he ran away from his dads house from big time problems that i won't go into detail with. Ever since then he hasn't been open with me, he doesn't call or answer my calls, he doesn't take the time to be with me. And all he does is hang out with his friends and have them answer his fone claiming he isn't around when i do call him. So i feel the need to talk and work things out to save our relationship. I know we're still young, but we're getting married at the end of next year and i don't want to have to leave him over something that can be fixed with a deep conversation. Any advice?

2007-02-12 07:46:13 · 1 answers · asked by Victoria G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would a girl prefer a shy guy or a more outgoing(talkative) guy

2007-02-12 07:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband of four years had a year long affair with a coworker. We are trying to work things out and things are going....pretty well. But it has been extra difficult because I know all of his coworkers and have known them since I was little because my mom worked for the same company and all of them knew about the affair too so its extra humiliating.

My question is, for Valentines Day, would it be blatantly obvious / tacky if I sent him balloons or something to work. I guess I just wanted to stake out my territory if that makes sense. Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-12 07:45:55 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was kissing my boyfriend recently in bed and he always tells me he loves me but this time he said i love u louise instead of i love u lisa. I am his first girlfriend and hes also got my tattoo on his body and asked me to marry him 3 days before he said it obv i said yes. But now im not sure what to do. He said he doesnt know why he said it and i said it didnt matter.

But deep down i am really hurt and confused. I really love him but obv he cant of been thinking about me to say something like that can he? I am starting to wonder if hes maybe cheating?

Why would your boyfriend say another womens name? Please help

2007-02-12 07:45:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had class together for one semester and just when things were starting to click, we had to start our next semester. I don't see her anymore except for one time a day in the hallway. I just want to know how to get things started again.

2007-02-12 07:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by VOL I 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by jessb 1 in Weddings

Ok to make a long story short. I was spending the night at my BFF's house the other night and she had her friend over. Ok so my bff was telling up about how she had this wine and she said i could try it so i did. i did not like it and spit it right back out. Her mom somehow found out and now her mom hates me! she used to really me and she was like my 2nd mom!!! i am so sad!

2007-02-12 07:44:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im quiet and shy unless im with my best friends. Im 5 10" blonde hair and 16 yrs old and weigh 135 pounds. Would girls find me attractive????????

2007-02-12 07:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:43:26 · 32 answers · asked by Just Call me Shay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently found out that my boyfriend LIKES to wear diapers, but he doesn't go in them. I think this is weird, because he is 16. I also think it is sort of cute, but I am wondering if he is mental or something.

2007-02-12 07:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok the details are: My husband is 16 years older than me! Well right before I met him he had been to prison and since then he's been back once! I am pregnant with his baby and I am so scared that if he gets into trouble again how am I going to make it? I know that he hasent done anything since We've been married but he's been married before and he has 3 kids so that's obviously never stopped him!

2007-02-12 07:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do you put a kiss (es) at the end of a text to a girl?

2007-02-12 07:42:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How hard should somebody try to save their marriage when kids are involved? My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years and have twin 4 year old boys. We have not been happy for quite some time, but have co-existed without too much complaint. We have decided to go to counseling and are both willing to try and make it work. But is there really hope of savings things once the intimacy is gone? We have not had sex since April and before that, it had been 6 months. My wife has never lost the weight from the pregnancy and still weighs about 75 pounds more than when we met. She shows no desire to try and get back to a healthy weight either. Am I just delaying the inevitible with the counseling?

2007-02-12 07:41:24 · 37 answers · asked by Jaybo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is going on year 4 of no valentines suprieses. even just a romantic kiss or a thoughtful act of kindenss. he acts like he can make it up in things we are already doing, for example we are going to moody gardens in galveston on the 17th. he waslike oh crap, v-day, can you pretend like moody gardens is you gift??

NO!! so not cool! he does it on my birthday too since my birthday is 2 days before our anniversary adn a week before mothers day. what should i do??

2007-02-12 07:41:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if you don't like your fiance's surname? How do you tell him?

2007-02-12 07:41:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he came back from bowling as ive said before an he didnt tell me anything he did during his time there. mmkay.. hes like i just bowled an played pool with these 2 guys. um okay whatever then. He stayed 3 hours instead of 2.
He got home I was online, since what ELSE should I do?

He does his homework, hes quiet. Then asks me. Can i go on for a few not that long. So I say ok. I let him on an hes quiet the whole time wanting me to talk I asked him why he isnt making conversations.
Anyways yea.

He said I have to talk. rightt.
Well then he got mad he stayed there for almost 4 hours an made me talk the whole time he didnt talk much at ALL.

I asked him why he said i have a headache is why. But im like yeah u were with ur friends i bet u talked with them an didnt complain to them hes like yea i did. Sure whatever. thats why he was there for 3 hours?

Its like during sex he says he loves me an pays attention to me, after sex he forgets that im even there. But we dont have sex much, maybe

2007-02-12 07:41:04 · 4 answers · asked by Queen Ruzi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:40:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help How can I fix this with him? need alot of advice?
i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel we are good for each other & that he's the one for me .....no rude comments

2007-02-12 07:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 07:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by Ramundo 3 in Singles & Dating