Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

Me and this girl have been together for 8 years.. recently, she's trying to get help to get a job. Well she needs a guy's help that I don't like and we have had our problems. Basically, not working with him really, just trying to get on.

They have been exchanging text messages, e-mails, and phone calls about the issue.. yet she deletes them all and says "she doesn't want me to get mad" but I tell her I won't.

The thing is, I have a sneaking suspicion. I've tried to break up with, and convince her to go be with him so I can move on. She says no, there is nothing there and all he is doing is helping her.

But yet, she still deletes the messages and calls?? I told her, out of respect, if she didn't talk to him and she said "fine" but yet she gets sarcastic about it and whenever mentioned she says, "i'm not allowed to talk to him.."

Am I overreacting, or is this something to be worried about? Both said NOTHING is going on but she acts strange, and the doesn't wanna have sex

2007-02-12 07:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by eric c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 07:17:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

hallmark stealn my money, my gf says she really doesnt like the holiday either (i know shes serious becuase she just cool like that)
but i still guilty for not doing anything for her

2007-02-12 07:16:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-12 07:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I like and we hangout often but never declared it more than just friends, but I feel the feelings are the same. But I would like to send him flowers "something small and simple", and unnamed possibly. Would that be to much to do, or maybe an eye opener for him???? Please send me some advice.

2007-02-12 07:15:29 · 7 answers · asked by chocolatesyrup101 2 in Singles & Dating

whats a good key to writing songs?
im intrested in music and i got recording equiptment.
i just want to write my own material.
any hints, advice?

2007-02-12 07:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs B 2 in Family

2007-02-12 07:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in the Uk and many asian countries the guys there keep their skin.

2007-02-12 07:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by KAPPAx3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by soumya s 1 in Friends

2007-02-12 07:12:04 · 25 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello Everyone,
I have been invited to the wedding of a near relative/close family friend who is marrying in the UK. The groom is English and was able to tell me that he found weddings to be more formal than they are here in the states. I am wondering what would be acceptable attire, without coming across as either painfully proper or hopelessly American underdressed. The bride and groom are just 30, I'm 33. It is a big wedding, held in an abbey and all at 2pm. I understand that hats are the thing at weddings in the UK? Thanks much for the help!

2007-02-12 07:11:34 · 12 answers · asked by searampgrrl 1 in Weddings

2007-02-12 07:11:28 · 10 answers · asked by misteyblue345 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been living together and with out her children (3) she wants them to move back with her (us) or shes moving back with them. She moved to find a job but has came up with no job and finding herself slipping away from her kids. i don't want to move to that side of the bay b/c there is no work for me but there is for her plus shes says her kids are in better schools and baseball season is starting for her son. what should i do? i love her do i let her go or beg her to stay? what @ the kids?

2007-02-12 07:11:27 · 14 answers · asked by ☼ robert ☼ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 07:11:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well the current boyfriend I have has been the BEST. And hes also [what I consider] my first REAL boyfriend. He tells me all the time that he loves me, and he just is SUCH a sweetie. BUT it scares me sometimes.. because when we talk about our future, he tells me that its up to me to keep this relationship interesting.. I mean, it sounds like he loves me.. and even the way he looks at me you can see it. But just some things he says are a little scary. And it also seems like he is getting kind of demanding and controlling. Like just little things he makes me do for him. Like get something for him because hes too lazy, or tell me what to do when I know what I want to do without his help. I mean he is such a supportive boyfriend, and he helps me through thick and thin, but its just soo frustrating when I can't understand what to do. What can I do to make him ALWAYS be interested in me? [ He likes respect and humor and sexiness] Any suggestions.. PLEASE help? =]

2007-02-12 07:10:26 · 21 answers · asked by ♥DANyELLE. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:09:50 · 31 answers · asked by kitten 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I had to stay up all night to do homework and now I"m really hyper. I live in the dorms (co-ed dorms) and have my own room,. I have two message boards on the outside of my door.

One says "Go away! No body lives here!"

The other says "Feb. 14 is national One Night Stand day! At least for singles! Because I said so!"

I put in smaller print at the bottom of that "Unfortunately, I'm already taken! haha!"

so what would that say about me?




by I'm already taken is that I'm taken on Valentine's day

2007-02-12 07:09:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 07:09:38 · 2 answers · asked by xGoldScorpionx 5 in Singles & Dating

why is it that most women prefer guys with little or no chest hair, but think older guys are sexier than younger guys even though guys who are past their late teens or early 20s tend to have chest hair?

2007-02-12 07:09:28 · 18 answers · asked by hero0fdahouse 1 in Singles & Dating

i've seen thing that made the truth set in/out to find and has come for ward can everyone/all for give the fool?

2007-02-12 07:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by reva a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cute?

2007-02-12 07:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by firshizel 2 in Singles & Dating

valintines day is coming up and I need a boyfrien so I don't feel alone. plz respond back if inrested.

2007-02-12 07:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by Toni Swanson 1 in Singles & Dating

ive only been going out with my gf for about 3 weeks and im planning on getting her a teddy bear and a necklace.is this too little?

2007-02-12 07:07:11 · 25 answers · asked by nuttiecleva 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 21 in a month... i've had a micarriage in the last 6 months... why???????

2007-02-12 07:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 07:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Family

2007-02-12 07:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by soumya s 1 in Friends

Frankly, I think she is cheating.. but she doesnt wanna to admit it for obvious reason i'm sure ;)

2007-02-12 07:05:26 · 12 answers · asked by Ichigo 4 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND IS 3 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. WEVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 5 MONTHS ALREADY BUT WERE ON & OFF. WE BREAK UP EVERY LIKE 2 WEEKS. I LOVE HIM BUT HE DOESNT SEEM TO LOVE ME. SOMETIMES HE IS SO SWEET BUT THEN HE CHANGES AND HE HURTS ME EMOTIONALLY. HE ALWAYS MAKES ME CRY. BUT I ALWAYS TAKE HIM BACK BECAUSE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. ANY ADVICE?

2007-02-12 07:05:26 · 10 answers · asked by ::p!nt0 bEaN:: oRaNgE pIcKeR!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 07:04:20 · 20 answers · asked by glenda w 4 in Marriage & Divorce