MY BOYFRIEND IS 3 YEARS OLDER THAN ME. WEVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 5 MONTHS ALREADY BUT WERE ON & OFF. WE BREAK UP EVERY LIKE 2 WEEKS. I LOVE HIM BUT HE DOESNT SEEM TO LOVE ME. SOMETIMES HE IS SO SWEET BUT THEN HE CHANGES AND HE HURTS ME EMOTIONALLY. HE ALWAYS MAKES ME CRY. BUT I ALWAYS TAKE HIM BACK BECAUSE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. ANY ADVICE?
2007-02-12 07:05:26 · 10 answers · asked by ::p!nt0 bEaN:: oRaNgE pIcKeR!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't deserve to be treated like a doormat. Find someone who appreciates you for you.
2007-02-12 07:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for my advice its different dont just jump to sudden conclusions and move on what u guys need right now is a real good private talk only the two of you explain to him how u feel and tell him what hurts you tell him that you want a stable relationship follow my advice and ur heart. IF this DOES NOT improve the relationship then its not meant to be!! Good luck babe.
2007-02-12 15:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres one thing i hate is seeing a woman cry, makes me feel bad, so if you ask me he's a jerk and he doesnt deserve you, You can do a lot better, Im always a softy when it comes to womans feelings, always have been, good luck with your problam.Dont cry.
2007-02-12 15:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats difficult...you really need to talk to him about it properly though. ask him why he hurts you and tell him you dont like it, it upsets you,and that you will NOT be walked over by like a doormat. he might be insecure himself so takes it out on you, the one he is closest to which is bad.he may have problems he needs to talk about.say you will give him one more chanse to proove himself, and to make it good. at least ignore him for a long while to show you wont keep taking him back, and to sort himself out. but if he does spoil his final go, you will have to leave him for good.
2007-02-12 16:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it is i would let him go, don't come back to him let him be the one to feel the pain. give it 2 weeks or so and if he comes back then see if you want him back. i think a break from him to clear both your minds would help. then maybe from this break you can learn about his true feelings for you.
all the best and good luck
2007-02-12 15:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force yourself not to go out with him again. if you guys are on and off then it's not gonna work even if you do love him. Are you sure it's because you love him or because u don't want to be alone and he comes back? Consider all possiblitities. But please do not go back to him.
2007-02-12 15:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by FML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Ask him what he doesnt like in you, what make him change so much, and then youll see what to do. Waitin for additional details;)
2007-02-12 15:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jidde I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who doesn't make you cry. there are plenty of guys out there for you- life is too short to be crying over a stupid boy who doesn't know how to appreciate you!
2007-02-12 15:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, and get over him,,,or he will continur to hurt you,,,simple,,,he knows you will be there,,,so you have now become his doormat,,,
2007-02-12 15:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by kandcforfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, dont go back, pray!
2007-02-12 15:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋