Please help How can I fix this with him? need alot of advice?
i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel we are good for each other & that he's the one for me .....no rude comments
2007-02-12 07:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is soo hard for me because one of my friends already broke up my 4 year relationship and now she's ruining this one
2007-02-12 07:49:22 · update #1
You need to make a very difficult choice.If you really love this guy and he loves you as much then you need to tell you friends that there crossing over large boundaries with you and and your relationship with your guy. They need to stop interfering in your relationship and respect you and him for it or your going to have to cut them off as your friends because they are hurting what makes you happy.....If they are TRUE friends they will respect you and your honesty and would want to see you happy....But if it is your boyfriend who may be overreacting and trying to choose your friends then maybe he's not the guy you should be with because he is controlling who your friends should be....Sorry but you have to be harsh and real to as what you really want and need to say..........
2007-02-12 08:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need better, mature friends. Stop being around them. If you want to hold on to someone then you need to let go of the friends. Put some distance between you and your friends. Because just by association lots of guys will think you are just like your friends and that you tell all of your business. If you want a chance at a normal relationship, dump your friends.
2007-02-12 07:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friends to stop acting like your parents i would never let my friends disrespect the man i love and it sounds like your friends r trying to run your life if this man is not good for u it's u that needs to see that for your self but you also need to realize that your man needs to just let it roll off his back he should not let your Friends control how he feels about you, r u sure he feels the same way about you ? I'm just wondering because if he loved you so much he would fight for you not run away you need to rethink this guy and your so-called friends
2007-02-12 07:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this sounds like you need to keep your friends seperate from your relationships. If you like the guy, and they have run off other guys in the past then why do you keep bringing guys that you like around them?? They don't sound like they are very good friends anyway!
2007-02-12 07:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by me m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old u r. if ur 18 or older, then ur friends need 2 get over themselves. stay out of ur business. they r not true friends if they don't want u 2 b happy.
2007-02-12 07:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by army brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do feel for you but you need to keep your friends and your love life separate.. don't bring them around one another...when you go out with him make it just the two of you not him and your friends...only you can keep your friends out of your life.. so do it.. be with him alone and don't talk about your friends all the time.. does he?.. go places together where your friends aren't hanging out. they are way too much into your life. don't ask them for their opinions anymore...good luck
2007-02-12 07:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose the friends. It sounds like they are adding water to the fire you are trying to create. Dump them and find better friends.
2007-02-12 07:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friends if they were REAL friends they would but out and let you make your own decisions your own mistakes and have you own relationship!
2007-02-12 07:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, do they plenty of times everyday to interfere ur business?
2007-02-12 07:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by zara_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ALREADY ANSWERED THIS QUESTION FOR YOU WHY DO YOU KEEP REPOSTING
2007-02-12 07:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋