would u dump your gf when she tells you shes 3 week pregnant with your baby at 15.
the lad is 17 by the way and im 15!
2007-02-12 07:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by foxxie-soon-2-be-mamma-@15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes its his baby and yes i am actually pregnant! and i was a virgin before him!
2007-02-12 07:52:20 · update #1
I was about 17 and thought I was in that situation as well (although the woman was older than I was by 4 years, not younger), and I was personally determined to stick it out. For the sake of my education and other things in my life, I'm grateful that it turned out to be false, but I wouldn't have left based on that. Here's the thing though in your situation, I'd start getting real and realize that this guy is only 17 and chances are (despite what fairy tale ending you might picture), this relationship is not going to be your last. This was both your doing, but you might need to be prepared to go it alone. I'm not for or against pro choice, but consider everything you do from here on out very carefully. Remember that you're young and naive right now, and if you feel like you might regret something when you're older, you will.
2007-02-12 07:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a silly question. The ethical thing to do is stay with you and support you.
The only reason that he dumped you is because he doesn't want you to keep it.
Keeping it? THAT IS A QUESTION THAT I'M NOT GOING TO WEIGH IN ON!
Now I could tell you what is going through his head but I guarantee you that he is probably emotionally less mature than you are. There is nothing you can do to get him back, and you probably shouldn't. You need to first discuss this with your parents right away. Then you go and discuss this with his parents. Do NOT expect them to be any nicer to you than he is though. Chances are, he is the way that he is because of them.
It is a really messy situation that unfortunately you have to bare the brunt of the repercussions.
2007-02-12 07:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Geiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweety. good luck.
if you have to ask it means you are not so sure about this relationship.
well my mom was 16 and my dad 18. and here i am. they have been married for over 29yrs. of course there was drama before the wedding,my granparents weren't too happy about it.
choose what is best for you,do what your heart tells you to do. hopefully he is a good guy and he will be there for you.
most likely he won't have a good reaction to the new,so let him alone for a bit,give him same time.
no matter what you have yourself
2007-02-12 07:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most 17 year olds, would run away, and not bother with the dumpping. and would say no, it ain't mine. Oh in most states, he would be going to jail, so yes, they would.
2007-02-12 07:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with my girlfriend if she told me she was pregnant, because I wouldn't have had sex with her.
Just saying "no" has its own rewards.
2007-02-12 07:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I wouldn't dump her.
2007-02-12 07:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is yours and you are the father take responsibility. She didn't make it alone.
2007-02-12 07:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by kewlkatty00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god are you pregnant?
2007-02-12 07:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋