Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

I want to stop cutting?
I need help to stop cutting
I have told someone that I am cutting. My girlfriend she is the only one I trust and I don't want to go to counseling that's why I am asking here I didn't know that it would be so hard to quit. My friend she used to cut her self and that's why I never told her.(was afraid she would do it again) But I did one day and she said she had cut her self again(not because if me though) not more than once and only that day(and it was past she had queit for a while shewon't ever go back to the way she was but there are times were she might do it once) but I didn't want her to do that again so she said she wouldn't do it again, if I really tried to quiet so that's why I want to quit.

my friend does know cutting is bad and she has quit for like two years but she met the person she that started it all snd she had to do it ounce I didn't know that ti'll I told her I was cutting

2007-02-11 06:36:38 · 13 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Friends

What are some of your favorite pet names that have been given to you; either by current loves, or past ones? What ones were cute, but then what ones were a real turn on when you heard them whispered in your ear? Ladies, any input or ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thanks everyone. Cheers!

2007-02-11 06:36:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all I'm a virgin and I am NOT in a relationship with ANYONE!

Anyway when two good friends have a one night stand together(and one of them is engaged to someone else), and after that night the two friends are much closer together(They spent the night bearing their souls to one another even their bodies). They still hang out but they are closer than ever before.

Some say that's where the problem begins. What problems will arise from this? Even if neither has feelings for another and swore to each other they won't do that again.

2007-02-11 06:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-11 06:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i have to attract a girl other than a good body

2007-02-11 06:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by HULK 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 06:34:32 · 5 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

its what i feel is it me or them. i just feel i don,t have enough money a nice enough home and things i don,t know

2007-02-11 06:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by denny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and if so, what should the woman do if she loves him?

2007-02-11 06:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have this friend and she is going out with an other friend of
mines but recently they have bin arguing alot and the other day she told me that she realy needs to find a better boyfriend. now the problem is i have one hell of a crush on her and i dont know what to do. one side of me wants them to break up so that i can ask her her out but then an other side of me is scared that if i do ask her out and im not good enough for her it will end our friendship.
and at the same time a part of me wants to see her happy even if its with him im so confused please help me

2007-02-11 06:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 06:32:40 · 27 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend who's a guy was telling me that at least 90% of guys aren't faithful to their girlfriends. He said that a guy will have like his main girlfriend right, and then sometimes they'll feel like trying something new and so they'll like talk to this girl on the side, and once they sleep with with the girl on the side, they'll never like talk to that girl again again. And he was saying how some guys are just slick and won't get caught doing it. And he was telling me that when a guy gets married, they'll like stop. And that the bachelor party is like supposed to be the last time they do it. And if that's true, then why is it okay for guys to cheat and not girls?

2007-02-11 06:32:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanted to go for coffee but everyone seemed to be wtih their friends and i would feel people did not want to talk to me, i sat next to one woman some of the small groups are nice but i wonder if i will ever get on their like other people although some say thier is an inner circle in the church.

2007-02-11 06:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by denny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong for the bride to wear a dress that isn't white

2007-02-11 06:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by princesskate235 2 in Weddings

My dad has been going out with this woman for 7 years and love eachother very much but ive been in love with her daughter for 4 years and im sure shes in love with me because the way she looks at me and her friends keep dropping hints when im around i cant stop thinkin about her what should i do and its driving me nuts please help me im desperate

2007-02-11 06:30:35 · 45 answers · asked by loz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-11 06:30:29 · 5 answers · asked by Some Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

What's the sweetest thing a girl has ever done for you on V-day?

2007-02-11 06:30:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 06:29:41 · 10 answers · asked by paolomoldovan789 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a total teen nerd and the girls just hate me. Is there any hope that I'll find a girl or will I be single for the rest of my life?

2007-02-11 06:29:38 · 36 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

With the divorce rate around 50% and infidelity rampant, marriage has long since lost its "sanctity". Intelligent logic based answers only-no religious Adam and Steve nonsense.
PS I am maried to a woman-and it is pathetic I have to say that. The last time I asked this question the slurs started quickly. My wife thought it was funny though....

2007-02-11 06:29:09 · 14 answers · asked by Richard L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now im single i have to much time i keep thinkin i wont to b with my ex time apart is killing me i no i dersevr better and im scared of a new bf as i wont to spend lots fo time with them like my ex did with me i feel alone now and hate it what shal i do stil love my ex loads

2007-02-11 06:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to a wonderful man for two years now. He accepted my daughter as his own, and we have a great sex life. But I met a good looking man who say's he want's to sleep with me. I am so scared that I might end up sleeping with him, and I don't want to destroy my marrrage, because of a lust.

2007-02-11 06:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by fionna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had to do was help them at any time. I figured this was going to be easy. My boyfriend had to leave the state for 2 months because of his job the following week. This is where it gets gross. His mom n dad were having s e x in the basement. When I woke up I didnt see them in the basement at all. Then I looked down n saw his mom n dad NAKED on the ground! I was really grossed out. Then his parents started talking to me. Saying they might get a divorce. I asked them what I could do to help, and if they told there son (my boyfriend) yet. They said they hadn't told him yet. I asked why there were going to get a divorce. They said because their s e x life sucked. They went upstairs with me,and we all had something to drink. The next thing I saw was blackness. I woke up in bed. But not my bed. His parents bed!!!! they kept touching me and stuff. They kept asking me if i wanted to do that again soemtime. I have 1 month left with them until my bf comes back!! What should I do????!!! HELP!

2007-02-11 06:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by abcyborg12 2 in Family

Frilends and acquaintances who are recent retirees often drop in -- always without calling -- to my workplace in order to go for coffee and talk. And talk and talk and talk.

I'm still working; they aren't. I have projects and deadlines. I get into trouble with my boss when these guys refuse to take my hints and end our coffee break. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but...

What's your advice?

2007-02-11 06:27:45 · 1 answers · asked by Willster 5 in Friends

I have a daughter that leaves with me, she has 2 daughters one is 3 yrs. old and the other one is 7 days old. The grandmother from the father side has filed for custody for no reason. She has lied to the courts about my daughter abusing the 3 yr. old daughter and being an unfit parent this lady has harrased us ever since my daughter got pregnant about taking custody of the baby, this lady has lied and even hit my daughter. She has called ACS on us for no reason. The have closed the cases because it was unfounded. We also filed a report on the lady way before the baby was born for harrasement on taking custody of the baby. She has also said that she can win the case because she has for money than us. My daughter is 18 yrs. old and goes to school and does take very well care of her children right now we don't have money for a good lawyer. So, I would like to know if she could really get custody? The baby's father is also against is own mother because he knows that his mother is wrong.

2007-02-11 06:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 14 and my frined intruduced me to his friend that goes to another school. He is really good looking and my friend told me that his friend likes me back. I have liked people from another school before and it didnt work out. We were all close then I cought him making out with another girl. Should I ask him out before its too late or do you think it will just be like the last time I liked someone else from another school.

2007-02-11 06:26:43 · 2 answers · asked by Catherine... 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 06:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

times in your life? Does it kind of creep you out a little? I am 41 and have a 55 year old lover. As an adult it doesn't matter about age but if I go back and think about it, he was 14 when I was born. He was 20 when I was starting kindergarten. It's just kind of weird to think about it, even though we didn't meet till a couple years back. When he was in college , I was a little girl starting grade school and to think that 34 years years later we would meet. Just kinda interesting.

2007-02-11 06:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

for a 14 year old to date a 20 year old?
cause my friend is
apparently they havent had sex
and he really likes her
like she is all he talks about on his myspace
and he's always talking about getting married and living together...
but there like 6 years apart........

2007-02-11 06:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by livers 2 in Singles & Dating

I need a clarinet player for an event. How do i find one locally?

2007-02-11 06:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Weddings

For instance is 0 degrees outside and I tell my 12 year old daugher(who of course knows everthing and tries to tell us what to do) not to wear suede sandals because of two reasons 1 its 0 degrees and your foot is only half covered 2 because is wet and salty out and dont want you to ruin your suede sandals that cost $40-
Now with the question out of the way here is what happened I ask here nicely 3 times on 3 seperate occassions not to wear them until at least until the weather got above freezing, 3 times after that within 1 weeks time see comes home with those clogs on, the last time I hid them in my room, my wife takes them out and gives them back to her and says its ok wear them.
I'm I nuts or is this total disrespect on my wife's part to tell the 12 year old (who doesnt listen to begin with ) I wonder why that is, to go ahead and dont worry about what I say, somebody please help me on this one, losing my marriage over sandals is crazy I love her but she;s killing me.

2007-02-11 06:25:45 · 4 answers · asked by BenBitten 1 in Marriage & Divorce