well i have this friend and she is going out with an other friend of
mines but recently they have bin arguing alot and the other day she told me that she realy needs to find a better boyfriend. now the problem is i have one hell of a crush on her and i dont know what to do. one side of me wants them to break up so that i can ask her her out but then an other side of me is scared that if i do ask her out and im not good enough for her it will end our friendship.
and at the same time a part of me wants to see her happy even if its with him im so confused please help me
2007-02-11 06:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by luis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just so you know im a boy
2007-02-11 06:33:57 · update #1
nothing is wrong with you...you just have a hell of a crush. I think your great for wanting to see her happy. No matter if its with you or not. Hang in there. If it is meant to be, it will happen. If you are friends then its a good chance that it will turn into something later. Be confident when your around her. Women love to see a man with a whole lot of self esteem and confidence. Be patient.
2007-02-11 06:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to think clearly, and think if she can be happy with him or if they'll keep arguing.
Then, if you think he's not a good match for her, you can tell her that there are many guys better than him who like her and think she's great and worth going out with.
If she says , yeah right? Then tell her that you care about her, a lot, etc. I mean, she can take it as a very good friend advice or as a potential bf and you won't hurt her feelings or ruin your friendship with her! It's worth trying.
2007-02-11 14:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, we if there about to break up. let them. but don't ask her out now because she needs some one to lean on. be that person. but don't make any moves, because she is very fragile and she will think that u are trying to take advantage of her. which that would be true. keep it plan and simple until she make the move. let it go, just be there 4 her.
2007-02-11 14:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let her make the decision of whether or not to break up with him. Tell her you want her to make whatever decision that makes her happy. You want her to choose because then when you make your move you won't be as much of the rebound. Of course you want her to be happy, so thats why you have to let her decide. I hope she makes the right decision and chooses you : )!
2007-02-11 14:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, don't miss out on the chance of happiness for both of you.
2007-02-11 14:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her if she needs someone to talk to your there might bring you closer
2007-02-11 14:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋