My dad has been going out with this woman for 7 years and love eachother very much but ive been in love with her daughter for 4 years and im sure shes in love with me because the way she looks at me and her friends keep dropping hints when im around i cant stop thinkin about her what should i do and its driving me nuts please help me im desperate
2007-02-11 06:30:35 · 45 answers · asked by loz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell your dad about how your feeling
2007-02-11 06:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by tinkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not blood relatives it is okay to have feelings for her. One thing you both need to consider, if it doesn't work out it can become a very awkward situation because you will always see each other at family gatherings etc. If you both still live at home it can be a real challenge for the same reason and many more. Go into it with your eyes wide open and take it slow.
2007-02-11 06:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by notaxpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing an intense attraction to your father's soon to be stepdaughter. Love comes out of a committed relationship, so this is not love. Let your father in on your problem. This is very important if you will all be cohabitating together. There are boundaries that must be established. Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt. Living together might reveal that you just had a crush that hair curlers easily helped you overcome! Good luck. Do talk to your father about it.
2007-02-11 06:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
legally there is nothing wrong as you are not blood related
MORALY you should be like brother and sister
you say for 4 years but not one of you as made a move towards the other that is a long time to have those feelings
i think you should both be happy just to be good friends and should remain that way that will make both your parents happy that you have all accepted oneanother as a family
be proud of your step sister go out together as a bro and sister love each other as a bro and sis share your problems as a bro and sis
be like this and you will both be happy
getting closer may upset the whole relation its better to have her by yoursde as a sister than to loose her
hope this helps ( BUT YES IT IS DIFFICULT )
2007-02-11 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by andygames07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok let's see if I got this right, your dad has been seeing her mother for seven years?
Dude go for it! If your father not going to marry this lady for 7 year why would he do it know, if you think there could be something there ask her out and like you father and her mother deal with it.
But if they do get married she not a blood relations was that fine you can still see her if you like.
Good luck and have fun
2007-02-11 06:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by choiceav 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This in not a problem you are not related and this is actually quite common. The only way it may become an issue is if you are both young and will be living under the same roof. Good luck
2007-02-17 07:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not related so thats not the prob,i think the prob will with what your dad an stepmother might think,but it sounds as tho you need to adress the issue with soon to be step sis in a delicate way as not embarass you or her,then if what you think is right an she does feel the same then take the matter to your folks get it all out in the open,an hey i hope it all works out for ya good luck ;-)
2007-02-17 22:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aven when your father marries this woman you won't be related to her daughter - however it may be better to talk to the girl involved first and then to your father. The girl may just say she likes you as a brother etc so don't talk to your father about it until you know how the girl feels
2007-02-14 21:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK that could be awkward in situations where you are supposed to be "brother-sister" also what if you guys were to say break up or get really pissed off at one another? you would be living in the same house! That would really suck...
If you want to, go out with her, but just know the risks of it, if something were to go wrong. It would probably pull your parents apart too.
2007-02-11 06:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Doz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out how she feels first its ok cus ur not blood related but its a very hard situation if u did get together the only people who would probably be in the way is her mother and ur father good luck
2007-02-15 01:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by sarah j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there ain't any legal reasons to stop you from being with her...however you have to consider what its going to do to your dad! But if you think its right then ask her how she feels...and if its the same then i think you should both tell your parents together! Good luck
2007-02-12 07:43:27 · answer #11 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋