now im single i have to much time i keep thinkin i wont to b with my ex time apart is killing me i no i dersevr better and im scared of a new bf as i wont to spend lots fo time with them like my ex did with me i feel alone now and hate it what shal i do stil love my ex loads
2007-02-11 06:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx guys u r all brill "happy v-day to all you singel guys and gals!!"
2007-02-11 06:51:29 · update #1
I KNOW HOW U FEEL I'M GOING THREW THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW. BUT IT'S A MONTH FOR ME. WHAT I CAN TELL U IS I KNOW IT FEEL LONELY AND THE THOUGHT OF SEEING OR EVEN BEING WITH SOME ONE MIGHT SCARED THE HELL OUT OF U JUST KEEP PUSHING THREW IT BECAUSE THERE IS A REASON UR NOT WITH UR EX SO DON'T KEEP PUTTING UR SELF THREW THAT. IT WILL PAST THE LONELY DAYS. BUT DID U EVER FEEL LONELY DAY WHEN U WHERE WITH UR EX. EVERY ONE WILL HAVE LONELY DAYS EVEN IF THEY ARE OR NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-11 06:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make some more friends and it would be nice to get a new boyfriend if you do it don't mean that you should spend all the time with them cause it can smother you. Don't have your ex back just because you feel alone if you do love him there must have been a good reason you broke up so think hard about that. You'll be fine Good luck
2007-02-11 14:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need time aaon to think about things and find yourself read a book or books get a fun hobby meet friends take those extra hours at your job make some extra cash take yourself to dinner take a friend go with some friends go to a club redecorate your house paint your nails and toes a diffrent color evryday get a puppy name it...get a kitten and love it then name it..."snowball"..b/c that names cute buy some cloths with the extra cash you made and shoe it off with your painted nails and toes you did and show evrybody pics of your cute new cat named snowball...have a nice day!
2007-02-11 14:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by jumanjisapikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you hav too much time on your hands, and you are dwelling, time on our own for reflection is good. do not let the lonliness push you into a rebound situation tho, you are best to try and occupy your mind with an interest or hobby, go out and enjoy your freedom too, hang out with friends too, the time isnt right to jump into another relationship yet, be confident and at ease being on your own for a while first.
2007-02-11 14:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on, as painful as it can be, you should move on, too. Get back into the game, and dont let rejection stop you!!!!!!! Good Luck and Happy Valentines Day!!â¥â¥â¥
2007-02-11 14:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the best healer, feelings pass,people leave us an thats just the way it is,i am however very confident you will find the one for you,in the mean time just have fun, you dont get a practice run at life!!
2007-02-11 14:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by big burts bollox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,first you are going to have to get yourself out.You have got into a rut.Have you got friends go & have a night out start to live.Good Luck
2007-02-11 14:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back in touch with him then, unless he is abusive. If so, then go out with your friends more, and give yourself time to get to know yourself better.
2007-02-11 14:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some voluntary work help someone else out and you will feel better about yourself and make some nice friends
2007-02-11 14:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move one go out with friends have a good time, lifes to short to waste it.....
2007-02-11 14:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋