My friend who's a guy was telling me that at least 90% of guys aren't faithful to their girlfriends. He said that a guy will have like his main girlfriend right, and then sometimes they'll feel like trying something new and so they'll like talk to this girl on the side, and once they sleep with with the girl on the side, they'll never like talk to that girl again again. And he was saying how some guys are just slick and won't get caught doing it. And he was telling me that when a guy gets married, they'll like stop. And that the bachelor party is like supposed to be the last time they do it. And if that's true, then why is it okay for guys to cheat and not girls?
2007-02-11 06:32:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its more like 50%.....who ever said it was always ok for guys or girls to cheat anyway.......maybe in your area its considered for ok for only the guys to cheat......but cheating is wrong either your a guy, girl, lesbian, homo.......
2007-02-11 06:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hell that is true. Basically your idiot guy friend is saying that 90% of men don't give a damn about a women's feelings, and will cheat on them periodically. I don't plan on having a bachelor party. The bachelor party to me is something that shows, its you last time to have fun, and get a stripper. But not the night before your wedding. Your last day of being a bachelor is the day you tell your girlfriend that you love her. IF I have a girlfriend, she will be the only one i'll be with. No women on the side. Even in this was true, then it should be alright for women to do the exact same thing. But sadly society calls a guy with multiple women, a playa, or a pimp. But if a women does this, she's a slut, or whore. That is society's mind set. Who knows when they'll treat both sexes the same.
2007-02-11 14:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The percentage does not seem statistically valid. Perhaps, 90% of the guys in his circle of friends do that, but it can't hold true for the general male population.
Second, it sounds like you're talking about young immature guys who aren't anywhere near ready to be in a committed relationship or get married any time soon, so that's a factor to consider also.
Finally, if you're engaged to someone, you've made a promise to marry them. A bachelor party isn't an excuse to cheat one last time. That's BS.
2007-02-11 14:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your friend knows what he's talking about to be honest. Sure there are guys who will cheat incessantly, and marriage won't stop them cheating either. Certainly it's not as high as 90%. Are you sure your friend isn't trying to justify something he did that he shouldn't have done or isn't trying to turn you against someone., maybe a love rival??? As for the Stag or Bachelor party, most men who are about to get married feel exactly the same as the women and are too in love or too nervous about their upcoming nuptuals to even think about being with someone else at their Bachelor Party.
2007-02-11 14:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least 90% of men are not faithful to their girlfriends. True. And this does not change with a wedding ring. Yes the bachelor party is "supposed to be" the last night if "freedom" but that is BS. The reason is that monogomy is not the natural state of a human being. It is natural for men to cheat; it is genetic. I am stunned that almost no one knows this fact of psychology. Its "ok" for men and not women bec our society is hypocritical and uneducated.
If your man cheats, it is not "your fault" and really has nothing to do with you. It is by no means grounds for divorce. So many women suffer needlessly.
2007-02-11 14:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur friend is basically talkin outa his bumhole 2 be polite..
Not all guys are like that! Maybe just the ones he hangs around with are?
But yes do be careful because some guys are like that, but they will probably get caught in the end anyway. U shud be able to tell if u think ur man will cheat, when u get to know him well enough!
2007-02-11 14:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not ok for them to do it. they sometimes feel the need to find someone new but if he really cares for you he will stick w/ you. a lot of guys epecially jr. high aged guys aren't faithful. and sometimes neither are us girls. i have a friend and she has had more "bf's" than i can count. guys will mature and when they do they will realize that it's not all about sex. it's about being w/ the person you love and love being aroung. someone they care about.
2007-02-11 14:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by katy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i betcha I could question if maby ya spoke a little slower in english and its never good to cheat on any body.
to altemently crush all faith and self asteam in one sentence
ive had it happen to me and I have been single and selbit for five long years and Im doing alright
2007-02-11 14:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say75% of guys arent faithful ,,, the 25% who would be faithful arent getting any and have trouble finding girlfriends..
2007-02-11 14:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends entirely on the man. Ninety-NINE percent think about it, but not that many are fooling around (there is simply not enough time and hotel rooms!)
2007-02-11 14:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anastasia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋