Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

I've always been attracted to fat girls. The main trouble is, it's more than just a preference, I'm completely obsessed with the thought of them getting fatter, outgrowing clothes, getting stuck, breaking chairs etc.

I've dated a few girls who are on the plump side and I'm sure they'd be horrified if they knew that I'd fantasized about them getting fatter, to the extent that I feel really guilty about me being with them.

Is there any way of losing a fetish, such as hypnosis or some other kind of therapy, or if not, what do you think I should do about my problem, which is stunting my lovelife?

2007-02-11 11:32:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i are superbly close, but lately , they've been trying to get closer with me. ex : inviting me over, sitting by me, moving closer in a movie. do they like me?

2007-02-11 11:31:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have joint custody(not physical) and I have pleaded with her to see the court appointed psychologist. The psychologist even called and she refuses to see him. This would help the kids so much they are 6.11 and 13. She continues to take them out of state on my scheduled visitation days as well as makes medical decisions without consulting me. This is all in violation of the divorce decree. She continually puts the blame on me when in reality it is both of our faults. She had her friend a recently released mental patient watch the kids in order to save money. Meanwhile I never miss one child support payment and sometimes pay three weeks at a time. Even now when I see her she screams and yells at me in front of the chldren about being late to a basketball game, Any advice on what to do once she gets the court papers?

2007-02-11 11:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very fussy when it comes to what guys I like... And I feel this is limiting my chances of meeting them... how can I stop being so fussy.. I want to open up and give people a go but I am quiet particular when it comes to what guys I like.. how can I stop this train of thought and let myself go?? Is this a bad thing?

2007-02-11 11:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by channille 3 in Singles & Dating

i tend to like guys that i just can't have (are taken) but now i like this boy who is single. (to my knowledge) and its just another hopless situation. i relly don't know him all tht well and i know i ahve to talk to him... but whta about? how could i possible have a conversation with him. he really quiet, and like is super smart and has alot of money. but i just fell 2ft tall when i'm around him and eery thing i say sounds stupid. and i wish it could just be perfect and we could just sit down and have a conversation.
i also don't know if hes shy or just thinks i'm revolting. becasue he knows i like him, but i think he thinks i'm just another hoodrat black girl. but i don't know how to show him the real me. i need help! this is a hopeless situation but i really want to go out with him. what do i do?

2007-02-11 11:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright..At this moment in time, I don't quite like anyone. I'm looking for a serious relationship and willing to wait it out until the right guy comes. That is not my problem. My problem is as follows:

There are a few guys that come to mind which seem to fancy me. No outright like me as in they want to date me but fancy me. I don't like any of them back.

However, I still find it interesting to lead them on. I'll play nice and see if they do something for me and then be rude if they say a comment that I would normally wouldn't take offence to. I do this just for the heck of it - to see their reactions. To see how much I can manipulate them.

Sometimes I'll even be really flirty with a random guy cashier to see how he reacts. See if I can make him blush.

Is this a really bad thing? I do not do it often - it is not an every day thing. However, it is slightly addicting. It's nice when I'm "successful", as it were and manage to get my way.

If it's bad, how do I stop?

2007-02-11 11:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend..and i asm sick of him and i lie someone else and he likes me back...but i dont want to hurt my bf heart when i break up with him...how do i do that?

2007-02-11 11:25:38 · 2 answers · asked by OliviaMorgann 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO GIVE MY BOYFRIEND FOR VALINTINES DAY.AND I DONT KNOW IF HES GETTING ME SOMETHING.WEVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR ONLY 2 WEEKS AND IVE ONLY SEEN HIM ONE TIME.WHAT SHOULD I GET HIM.OO AND IM 13

2007-02-11 11:25:35 · 6 answers · asked by Priscilla 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend pretty much lives under parental lock down. And her dad yells at her if her showers last longer than ten minutes! So she's takin FIVE MINUTE showers! How do I tell her to tell him that he's totally whacked?

2007-02-11 11:24:48 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah Currey 1 in Friends

My boyfriend doesnt call me for times upon times and I always do the calling because he doesn't by credit. When I call him, I would think that because we don't see each other for long and all, he'll be glad that I called. He always seem distracted and not interested. I love him and I think he's playing on that. He doesn't tell me anything anymore and I'm tired of it. I'm going to leave him before Valentines Day. What do you think of the situation?

2007-02-11 11:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Girl-In-Blue 3 in Singles & Dating

i know like 7 postions but i dont think thell work they say shes a freak in bed

2007-02-11 11:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by TE LEGEND IN THE MAKING 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in a semi new relationship and I was wondering which one of us is better looking? My bf has no intrest in this girl and she has none in him, but I am still a bit jealous because when I saw her pictures, I automatically realized how gorgeous she is. I won't say which one is who but pick girl A or B and why please.

http://s155.photobucket.com/albums/s317/amiugly/

2007-02-11 11:22:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey every woman , I am Egyptian and i am living in Egypt . I am 25 years old . simply and without introductions , i want to marry .

2007-02-11 11:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by Taha K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Look im a 20 year old virgin, and i've had a couple "dating" runs here and there with women, and actually am pretty good looking. With that included I've taken note I got the nice guy curse; you know old school charm, but I now I live with two roommates off campus in college and transferred here so I really dont know people and have taken a few shots with girls; but in the end I keep getting frustrated? Is my problem possibly im close minded or im putting too much emphasis and worry about gettin laid. (my buddies poke me daily about it..) I guess in the end maybe im venting but I'm just looking for some kind of advice... thanks.

2007-02-11 11:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by bill 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, she's been saying that her marriage is over. I've been dumb enough to take her seriously. Should I remain optimistic, or get over it and try with someone else who isn't as special to me as this woman?

2007-02-11 11:20:27 · 26 answers · asked by knight2001us 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 11:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 34 years. Our four children are raised and gone. We've gone from best friends to strangers. My husband puts me down in front of others. Everything has always felt like a competition with him, even down to who the kids enjoy being with more. I dont think in all the years we've been married that we actually resolved an issue. He wont talk things out with me at all. He wont take me out. We havent been out together in years. I have begged him to take me out but he is content sitting at home with a beer and the t.v. We dont have company as he has let the house repairs go for years and I am too embarrassed to have complany over. Everyone loves him but what they dont know is they are seeing a very different man than the one I live with. To them he is helpful and talkative. To me he does nothing and will not open up at all. I am so lonely, I have talked to him about this for years and he doesnt do one thing to change the situation. Should I leave him?

2007-02-11 11:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by My_Two_Centz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know most of us look back at past relationships and try to remember the good things about them. I'm curious what others miss the most about being involved in a monogamous relationship.

2007-02-11 11:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by cinsingl83 3 in Singles & Dating

I am Vietnamese and the girl of my dream is Caucasian. She is in some of my classes and I talk to her sometimes and she loves my jokes. I think i fell in love with her because she have that bliss classic beauty that every guy wants in a wife and when i say that she is not hott but she is beautiful. I know she's too good for me and only another caucasian can date her and marry her but I want to change that. She lives five houses down from me and own a beagle dog and I brought the same dog (My dog name is Oliver) just last month I purposely walked my dog by her and she bought her dog out and they began to play like boyfriend and girlfriend dog. We are both 17 years old and love our dogs. Her ex-boyfriend cheated on her because she wanted to wait til marriage to have sex and I told him to dump her and he did because he doesn't deserve her now she is vulnerable but I don't want to take advantage of that because I respect her too much. I want to be her boyfriend, what should i do?

2007-02-11 11:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2 in Singles & Dating

normal?

2007-02-11 11:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Friends

Isn't one year enough? Sometimes it feels like I'm not who she wants to lose it to.

2007-02-11 11:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not to good at understanding these relationship things but what would be some signs that he's ready to break up with me? Please help.

2007-02-11 11:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by Danae 1 in Singles & Dating

well it all started in 2004dec , someone introduced me to this guy, we spoke to eachother a little ,since after that i only saw twice , the person that introduced always tell me that guy said he want to go out with .Imagine every saturday since we last met in 05 feb he keep on asking about me . having seen the person that introduce us since ,06june . well yesterday i saw that person and they said he wanted to spend xmas with me . but the person that introduce us did not get any contact to tell me . please help i'm confused

2007-02-11 11:15:47 · 4 answers · asked by Regina 1 in Singles & Dating

emotionally, mentally and spirutually?
I been married TOO many times and am so tired of being the one who gives all the time while the hubby takes. I just want someone to love ALL of me accept all of me all the time

2007-02-11 11:15:46 · 10 answers · asked by flyingdove 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 11:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by WickedWest 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and how can i start talking to him! I want his phone number, but i dont wanna ask for it, unless he gives it to me. I'm going to tell him hes cute tomarrow..is that a good idea? Will he get the idea that i like him, cuz i want him to. How can he get the idea i like him without me actually saying 'i like you'?

should i flirt? tell me what to say to him!

2007-02-11 11:13:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

inside and out

2007-02-11 11:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about two months, and for Valentines Day I was thinking about doing something like making him cupcakes and spelling out "I love you" or "Be mine" on the top...feedback? Thanks :) I'm 15, by the way. And I'm not sure what he's getting me but he said he'd get me a "little gift" and I may have heard something about roses from other people...:) Thanks!

2007-02-11 11:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont even think he could be mad about anything,its strange and im worried what should I do..he doesnt answer phone at all..or email or text message...no response. he is the one usually getting in touch with me all the time....

2007-02-11 11:11:20 · 23 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?and should i ask her out again or let her come to me?

2007-02-11 11:10:58 · 30 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating