I am not to good at understanding these relationship things but what would be some signs that he's ready to break up with me? Please help.
2007-02-11 11:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by Danae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
conversations become terse
you don't hang out as much
he might even buy you an expensive gift just to keep you hanging on
of course, everyone would say "argument," but I would use the term "argumentative," meaning a tendency to disagree about anything
sometimes you can hear it when he greets you
2007-02-11 11:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by quillologist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have become a controlling, psyco,bride from hell to be I would break it off too. We dont need the headache there are plenty of normal women out there. The pre-marrige thing just shows us how you will act after the wedding.
2007-02-11 19:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i agree with the clown. heh.
Don't keep looking for things that you think mean he's over you, because chances are you'll take all these signs that you've made up in your head because of your insecurity and ruin a beautiful thing..... and then regret it later.
It's like on those movies how you dump the other person because you think they're going to dump you.... but they weren't really going to dump you then you want them back (well its similar, but not really)
If you love him you'll trust he wants to be with you.
2007-02-11 19:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when the guy starts to show less interest such as he doesnt call you as much, he suddenly becomes very busy, and your gut instinct tells you that somethings not right...you should probably talk to your fiance if this is how ur feeling since your going to be marrying him..
2007-02-11 19:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to do he will. but the question you need to ask yourself is do you want him too? if you dont want him too and you want to be with him still make sure you keep the relationship kicking. be confident if you act like you think he might leave you he might think the say. if you act like he is lucky to be with you even he might think the same as well. confidence is very attractive. invite him to dinner and buy yourself someone you know he will love on you and renew things between you dont think about him breaking up with you, think about making things work between the two of you.
2007-02-11 19:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by bqbalchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is avoiding you..........you need to ask questions....even if you only feel a little insecure about your relationship you should ask whatever you feel like is necessary. if he does not listen or ignores you there might be a possibility that there is something wrong. but dont jump to conclusions with out knowing for sure....good luck
2007-02-11 19:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 obvious signs:
1) he has cold affection with lots of excuses
2) irritable all the time
3) no time and always out of sight
2007-02-11 19:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by cynth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its usually a self fullfilling prophecy if you think you are going to break up you will --- so if you want the relationship to work believe it will work --- sit down and resolve any problems before they become monsterous --- best wishes
2007-02-11 19:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not calling you or ignoring your calls acting diffrent towards you not seeing you as much. Being arguementive with you or showing no loving emotions towards you. Hopefully thats not happening lol
2007-02-11 19:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... it he starts dating someone else, that would be a good indicator, otherwise don't look for trouble.
2007-02-11 19:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋