well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?and should i ask her out again or let her come to me?
2007-02-11 11:10:58 · 30 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her personally. she could have been put into peer pressure and made to have said no to save her reputation. that is no offense against you. but i would talk to her. their could have been a misunderstanding. or she is just confused. she needs to talk probally. good luck.♥
2007-02-11 11:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her come to you. She might have gotten out of a relationship lately and needs some time to move on for that or she might just be shy, but wait for a while. After a while, if she doesn`t ask you out, talk to one of her friends. Ask if they think she likes you again (even if she won`t admit it, friends know these things. My friend usually knows who I like before I`m even sure about it). Ask her friends if they think you should ask her out again. Try going to her closest friend(s), not just someone in her group of friends.
2007-02-11 11:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is playing with you. If she really liked you, she would have accepted the date right away instead of pondering on it. Plus she told her friends to tell you instead of doing it herself. She's nervous around you because she knows you like her. She's not worth dating because she's not reliable for waiting a week to respond through her friends. Even if you do manage to get a date with her, she would probably show up late or not at all. Get over it. She's not worth your time and money. You can get her jealous for fun by asking someone else out.
2007-02-11 11:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be two things... She either likes you or since she knows you like her she likes the attetion eventhough she doesn't like you... But lets take the first one. If she likes you well since you say she is acting shy go and talk to her, ask her out again or ask her why she didn't accpet going out in the first place and damn she didn't even told you, she send some friends... SHe is shy alright!! Well go and talk to her but don't ask her out quick... first try to let her feel confortable around you so she can loose her shyness.... Good Luck!!!
2007-02-11 11:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Majo's Project 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, this isn't really a tough one, because i was in this situation.lol. well what i found out was that my friends had told the guy that i said no when i had told them to say maybe! so then he didn't really get it. i kept flirting with hI'm, but he would just not understand. finally i said i thought about it and im saying yes! and he was like what. so now we r going out. well it could happen that way or maybe she just didn't know what to say. maybe her friends talked her into saying no. maybe she is jut not sure. or maybe she found your sensitive side and is liking you now. you never know. well id say you just go ask her what the deal is. if she "doesn't know what you are talking about" then explain it to her. maybe she is shy. Glad i could help!
2007-02-11 11:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably said no at that time b/c she didnt like u at that time
then after when u didnt chase after her...she started to think about u and wonder...then she started liking u
she probably wants u to ask her out again, thats why she is trying to get ur attention
she's probably shy or nervous
if she rejects u again, drop her, she's a trick. and an idiot.
Good luck!!!!
2007-02-11 11:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u but u know it will be difficult for her to ask u out if she's shy and maybe she just realized her feelings,so pls save the trouble and ask her out again i'm sure she'll jump at it this time.
2007-02-11 11:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by tersy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey? i answered this question before and your the same person....anyway wait for her to come to you but give her some attention and compliment her . maybe she isnt ready to have a relationship. dont ask her out just yet cause then it sounds like your nagging..it looks like she some what likes you...
2007-02-11 11:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Mugi, YES she likes you. Give her a little time,and then ask her out. I am sure she will go out with. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-11 11:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should ask her out again, you never really know until you find out from her yourself. so yeah, it could be that she likes you & shes hiding her true feelings, but if youre asking her out again.. would you be more confused if she said no again? ask her how she feels. (=
2007-02-11 11:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋