Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

She had rope and a malot in her room.

2007-02-11 11:44:15 · 21 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Family

i really trusted her.. and she told her 'friend' who is a teacher... and that led into the school councelor knowing.. which led to the principle, hence my parents finding out.. do you think that i should still be friends with her?

2007-02-11 11:44:10 · 22 answers · asked by dotdotdot 1 in Friends

Can I have her committed and locked away for the rest of her miserable life without her consent? Or either have her euthanized?

2007-02-11 11:44:00 · 20 answers · asked by BTH L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were together for 2 months and i broke up with him and i want to get back together... he told me that he has feelings for me still and thats good right?

2007-02-11 11:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife's new hobby has reunited her with an old childhood gal pal who shares the same interest. This girl has made sexual advances toward me. The first time it happened, I told my wife and she kind of blew it off even though she knows this girl is capable of messing around on her husband. The second time it happened and I told my wife about it, she was more convinced but is still persuing a new found relationship with her. Why would my wife want a girl who wants to screw her husband hanging around? Is this a test, trap?

2007-02-11 11:42:44 · 15 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why do people claim they want to observe you from a distance? Does this sound covert?

2007-02-11 11:42:29 · 7 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok..so..I just got back from the store where the guy I like works. I haven't seen him there in a month or so. So when we went to pay..I went in his register =] [he bags]. So when it's our turn, I push the cart over and I stand by it..So..while he's bagging..he kept looking at me. And whenever I'd catch him..he'd smile and so would I..Once..I looked at him and when he looked over I smiled real big and he returned it.
The last time I saw him there..the same thing happened. And we just looked at each other for a few seconds.
When we were at another register..sometimes he'd go to ours and offer to take it out to the car.

I've never actually talked to him before..
I was going to today..but..I got really nervous lol..
But I guess it's ok..because he likes coy girls..and I'm pretty shy..

But anyways..last year he was my mom's student..so that's how I know him, and we're friends on MySpace.

So..does it seem like he likes me back? =]]

2007-02-11 11:42:17 · 2 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my friend about a year ago, and and after we broke up we stayed friends. we exchange banter almost constantly when were around each other, and i can almost always get a laugh out of her. Lately i've been feeling this amazing connection with her, but only for very brief moments. I usually dismiss this because she has a bf(not a serious one, they've only been going out for a short time).

Basically, i just want to know how i can figure out if she actually likes me or if I'm just a guy-friend?

2007-02-11 11:41:59 · 29 answers · asked by yea 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 11:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by joelle 3 in Family

They've been broken up for over a year now, and I guess they still talk online sometimes. They went out for a year and half.

Well, the other night (Friday night) he started talking to her about why they broke up, and I guess the reason wasn't the same reason that my g/f thought it was. He is with another girl right now and has been for a long time now..but from what my g/f was telling me, he still kinda wishes they were still together, but he always says he is "just kidding". So Friday night was the night before the dance on Saturday night. Well, I guess they agreed that he would meet me, but he was being an idiot to my girlfriend at the dance and just kind of blew her off. He also mentioned online about how he had seen some shooting stars a little bit ago and wished she was there to see them. In short, my g/f and I have been dating for a little over a month now and it's been great, but this is just pi$sing me off. He's playing mind games with her

Should I kick his a$s now or later?

2007-02-11 11:41:42 · 1 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

We're both 13 and aren't really going out, we just like eachother. I dont have much money and guys are incredibly difficult to shop for. *loud obnoxious sigh* well anyways... any ideas?

2007-02-11 11:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my second marriage with my sons father. We have been together for almost four years. When my son was two weeks old, we had an argument and he hit me very hard in my behind. Like I was a child or something. When that happened, I left and stayed with a friend for a while, but ended up forgiving him. (I know, stupid me.) Now, 2 years later, he hit me again, now in my head, and I actually had to go to the doctor because my ear has been ringing for 2 days. I have been married before and was in an abusive relationship, and got out of it. Now, I love this man more than anything, but why did he hit me? Now, of course, he is crying, apologizing, blah, blah. Do I give him a second chance or should I leave and take my son away from him before he abuses my son too?

He has never hit or spanked my son. What is going on? Is it my fault?

Just looking for some friendly advice.

Thanks

2007-02-11 11:40:09 · 27 answers · asked by Spanglish Teacher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please help. thanx!

2007-02-11 11:40:08 · 1 answers · asked by Wee-Wah 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a college sr & grad. in May. I'm white, 22yr old man. I grew up an army kid (until 10) & was always around tons of diff. people & different cultures.But was NEVER SEEN AS A BAD "DIFFERENT." I want to date interracially(mainly African Americans), but my parents don't agree with it. They aren't really racist, just think that white m & white f should only date each other,etc (Everyone with their own race). I TOTALLY DISAGREE because I am not attracted by color nor do I stop liking someone/being attracted to someone because she just happens to be of another skin tone. I am heavily attracted to black and latin girls,white girls really don't do much for me. My mom says she don't care really. My stepdad is total opposite. He comments on people negatively who do & we have had arguments about it in the past. The thing is, I still live with them until May, but I wanna start now. What should I do? Go with my heart or wait a couple more months? I'm torn bc I am crushing on a few girls now.

2007-02-11 11:40:02 · 3 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Singles & Dating

before class started, my teacher stood in front of the classroom and stood on her tiptoes and looked at me, i guess to see if i was there, and smiled. Why would she do this? i'm not out all the time either.

2007-02-11 11:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by annabanana 1 in Friends

I want to move out and live with my fiance as soon as possible ... it would be in the same apartments but i dont know if my mom would say yes ... how can i make her say yes? and is there any laws that can help me? i just dont want to be mad at each other if i move..!

2007-02-11 11:36:41 · 18 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Family

...spouse or life partner? I'm sure there's a romantic answer to the big 'how we met' question. But I think that in the beginning, interest (no matter how vain) does play a part as a reason for selecting a partner. How is it that people call it unconditional love? We all have made mistakes and have flaws of our own. But everything always comes afloat. There's more than one question here: Are they denying the truth about meeting each other to live in a dream world? Do they lower the standards of their convictions? Are there real conditions? Does 'change' take a part in all this? Because change can destroy a relationship.

Another word that comes to mind is acceptance.

Here's a thought!!! You never hear an old couple say: "I wanted to get in his/her pants"

2007-02-11 11:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Usually whenever I see an interacial couple, it is a black male and a white female. I've also noticed the most of the white females are usually blonde, fat, and unattractive.

Why is this? Is it because black men like bigger women? Is it because the fat white women can't get a white guy so they date a black guy? Also, how come the black guys parade their fat white girlfriends around as if she is a prize? Because she is white and therefore better then even an attractive black women?

Please don't pretend that these couples don't exist because you would be lying through you teeth.

2007-02-11 11:36:05 · 3 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2 in Singles & Dating

hi ive been with my gilrfriend for 7 years, then all of a sudden we were very distant and so was our best friend of 12 years down the pub where i worked fridays and sundays. anyway enough was enough so one day i found her down the pub talking to my friend when she should have been at work, which made me think somthing was going on.
so i approached her and asked her straight she said no, but then she finished with me saying she wasnt happy. so i quit my job.
i found out 2 weeks later that she is now in a relationship with my so called friend, and i think it was going on before we finished. we have a 6 year old daughter together, and a house, and i am dying, i love her to pieces and if i could get her back now i would,
we met when she was 19, and she's now 26, so i think she was just testing the waters as she has been with me so long.
but will she come back to me and my daughter or am i living in hope, now that she has somone new who knows her nearly as good as me

2007-02-11 11:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by madmatty2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been "dating" for about 3.5 years. I met her right after my wife and I split up. We've had a lot of fun together and GREAT SEX. but I don't feel like I'm in love with her and she is, although she won't say it. She had a bad marriage a while back and another bad relationship since. She refers to me as her boyfriend, but I have never acknowledged this or called her my girlfriend. I did go out with another woman during this time and now she won't trust me even tho' I have not done anything to make her think I've done anything qith anyone else since then. I can't seem to win. We "broke up" Saturday night, but she still calls me asking me to give her a reason to hate me since it would be easier. I don't hate her. What is this? Do I stay or is this a dead end? If I call her I'll end up telling her what she wants to hear just so I won't feel so bad. I will miss some things, but i won't miss the 20 questions. What do I do??

2007-02-11 11:35:37 · 12 answers · asked by Idunnowhy 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to Matt and when I was about to leave he said "see ya later" in a soft smooth way. Is that a sign that he likes me? And he also said that my G1 picture couldn't look that bad.

2007-02-11 11:35:28 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

is there any way for a 16 year old girl to have an abortion without her mother or fathwer having to find out????? My cousin 's in desperate need and we don't know what the hell to do. Oh and will the guy go to jail since he's 18???

2007-02-11 11:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by la locita 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy i've been crushing on all year has fallen for another girl...but the worst part is that the girl has everything!! class president, completely athletic, tons of friends, bright blue eyes, long blonde hair...u get the picture. it's not fair! i thought that me and him were actually starting 2 get somewhere. why is it that you always want what you can't have?

2007-02-11 11:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 11:34:44 · 2 answers · asked by HOT SINGLE BACHELOR 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like i'm selfish and bad. I live with my mom right now. She always tells me to do things and I always get angry and refuse. So she says i'm mean to her.. So then I make up lies about how much I think she hates me and I want to leave.. then she gets upset and blames herself and thinks she really makes me sad.. but really I don't care.. I just want the blame to be on her.

I used to like a girl and a friend of mine cheated on his GF for a one night stand with her.. and now, I hate him. Its been a year since then but I want to anaomyoysly email his girlfriend about it just to ruin his 8 year relationship with her. Not because I care about her, I just want him to suffer.

I lie and cause drama for everyone because I find life to be so boring. And the funny thing is, EVERYONE THINKS IM SO NICE.. And they always feel guilty after I work my magic on them. They think they are abusing me and that I am innocent, but i'm not.. Or am I? No shrinks for me, thats why I have yahoo answers.

2007-02-11 11:34:33 · 45 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in tears, my boyfriend of 3 years and i have been engaged since november, just recently i found out i am pregnant, i was going to wait for 3 more days to tell him (on valentines day) problem is he just left me this morning for my CO-WORKER AND BEST FRIEND!!
what do i do now i love him and dont my baby to be without his/her father!!

2007-02-11 11:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by cuddlebunny_0023 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 11:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by indracyao 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy & our school is doing a fundraiser where you can send cards to people for Valentine's day & you can send the anonamausly if you want.
Should I send him a 'secret admirer' one?


Please answer both questions

2007-02-11 11:33:29 · 3 answers · asked by Talk-A-Holic 1 in Singles & Dating

My father died suddenly yesterday. He is a vet and he recieved disability checks. He had no life insurance I have no family that is going to help me with the funeral expenses. I think that he is elegable for va burial assistance, but I am just wondering who do I contact first and how do I go about starting the planning? Do I start calling to va and ss first? Or do I first start trying to locate a funeral home and explain to them my financial limits? Any sincere help would be deeply appreciated.

2007-02-11 11:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by joyce 5 in Family

2007-02-11 11:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by jesse james 5 in Singles & Dating