Am I a bad person?

Question

I feel like i'm selfish and bad. I live with my mom right now. She always tells me to do things and I always get angry and refuse. So she says i'm mean to her.. So then I make up lies about how much I think she hates me and I want to leave.. then she gets upset and blames herself and thinks she really makes me sad.. but really I don't care.. I just want the blame to be on her.

I used to like a girl and a friend of mine cheated on his GF for a one night stand with her.. and now, I hate him. Its been a year since then but I want to anaomyoysly email his girlfriend about it just to ruin his 8 year relationship with her. Not because I care about her, I just want him to suffer.

I lie and cause drama for everyone because I find life to be so boring. And the funny thing is, EVERYONE THINKS IM SO NICE.. And they always feel guilty after I work my magic on them. They think they are abusing me and that I am innocent, but i'm not.. Or am I? No shrinks for me, thats why I have yahoo answers.

Although I don't want to do what my mom says, because she wants me to live at home always and to avoid girls.

I know i'm doomed to be lonely but I don't want to be. Id want to be good.

I'm 22, for the age inquiry.

Someone said I don't know what its like to have the game played on me. Thats actually untrue. Women like to pull tricks on me often to rob me or other things, generally that is why I like taking revenge.

And the damage of friends is done. I only had two friends but one moved away (they told me they dont want to be my friend because they feel like they hurt me) and the other friend passed away.

So really, i'm already lonely.

Answer 1

Anyone get the feeling this question is a troll?

Answer 2

I know that a lot of people will respond to your question with anger but can you blame them? I really do think you know that you need a change of heart and mind it's time that you start before you create something you might regret your own self I don't know if you believe this or not but all the things that you are doing to people will and shall return to you because it is a true saying what goes around comes back around what you do and say will backfire one day if not very soon. Inflicting pain and causing grief to someone who cares and love you can cause future love loss and all the people who think that you are innocent will soon find out the truth you might not care right now but when you are all alone with no support from love ones or friends you will have successfully put a end to your selfish and manipalitive ways then you will know true boredom at the core! You may continue and not believe what people are telling you then you will soon find out WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK TO YOU!
You want to change start with your thinking and thought process control your urges to hurt and to defy people and your precious mom put an end to the drama before you dig your hole to deep that you will fall in first and can't get out! You still have hope and a chance use it before you yourself discover that you can not excape truth because it wins everytime!

Answer 3

I don't believe in good or bad people because we all have the capacity to do really good things and really bad things depending on the situation and how we're feeling on any particular day.

But it does seem like you're a manipulator. I know a couple of people like you including my own mom, and I honestly don't get you types, because it's like why would you waste your life like this? It doesn't make life any more exciting, it doesn't make you any more powerful than anyone else you're just more conniving than most people, who don't have the time or the motivation to try to manipulate others.

I think it's a very cheap and shallow way to live. Eventually people r gonna catch on to u, if they haven't already and they will dislike you. And besides that karma will come back to you because you're trying to control everyone else into believing whatever, and so the end you'll have no control over anyone, least of all yourself. Also, even though you think you're getting people to think what you want and do what you want, people are choosing to go along with you for their own motivations. So essentially you have no power over them.

I suggest you little mind games and gift of gab for better reasons than your own sick pleasure, get involved with something positive in your community, use your voice to manipulate people into becoming better people and to actually make good changes occur in the world. Because if not, you're walking on a very fine line that can easily lead into something dark which will only bite you in the rear. Remember you can manipulate people but not the universe u egomaniac.

Answer 4

You are disconected from your environment and the people around you. What you need is for your mom to see this and kick your *** out. Unfortunately you have hit the bullseye on a huge problem we have today. Idiot compassion. People have become a bunch of ******* that don't take into consideration that the people around them might be sociopaths or psychopaths. I don't think you are one of these though. You are just self centered and maybe a little autisitic. You should tell the guy's gf because it is not good to let people do bad things and not suffer the consequences.

Answer 5

You are selfish! You put your feelings and wants above everyone else, even your mom. You say you don't want to be alone but you are alienating everyone around you. If you think life is so boring move out from your mothers, get a new job, go back to school, do somthing diffrent to entertain your mind. Somthing that isn't so self destructive. Then maybe you'll be a happier person.

Answer 6

You remind me of a friend i have. He is also an atheist with low self esteem.

He is evil, vicious, manipulative and conniving,

and he is convinced that all of these evil things he does behind other peoples backs are OK

He sleeps with other peoples partners.

He spreads other peoples private and intimate tales all over the Internet.

He is always pissed off when he see his fellow com rads progressing in life.

He has even made fun of someone he cared for's death by showcasing it on the Internet through email.

What's frightening is that he is convinced that it's OK to do these things. No remorse or empathy at all to the victim.

He separates his friends from one another so he can manipulate them against each other because they only no of each other by what delusional story he may have told them.

Would you do these things to people that care for you????

Answer 7

You need to grow up. You apparently havent had anyone play a game on you like your doing to EVERYONE. Because if you did, you'd stop doing it to others. As for the crap your pulling on your mom...thats just plain right down STUPID. She is the reason you have life. Be nice to her. Some day you just may really need her.
I pray that you get a waking to what your really doing. I also pray that those around you see you for the person you really are. I speak from my own experience. My oldest son, who is 24 just dumped his son on me and split. Then came back after 3 months to try and get him back just to get a girl. It didnt work for him and he then split again. He has issues and so do you. Think about what your doing. You are hurting those people and the worse part is, it dont really bother you.

Answer 8

Ummmmmm..... No. You are not a "bad" person. Sounds like your mom is controlling and you need to move out ASAP. If you are 18+ yrs old and your mom doesn't want you around girls you need to move out YESTERDAY!
You are what psychiatrists would ALMOST call a "Sociopath" and you need to begin correcting it. It's like you are missing a part of your brain. See, just as with learning math, if you don't use that part of your brain your problem solving skills weaken. Well, without using your conscience for empathy, love and remorse, it become weak, almost non-existant.

Being the way you are right now is like being brain damaged and mentally ill. You need to change that sh*t real fast. You're cheating yourself the part of your brain that could feel more joy, happiness and passion in life.

THAT is why you are bored. AND you need to move out.

Answer 9

You're... Not a bad person.

I belive in the good in people, so I won't ever say someone's a bad person. You should probably take some yaga classes or some kickboxing, depending on what you prefare.

It seems to me like you have a lot of repressed anger. Try to get it out without hurting people.

Tho... I'd send that email. That guy deserves to suffer for cheating!! :D

But yeah.

Love,
No longer heartbroken, but fully loved.

Answer 10

Maybe you are very bad at this moment but its not to late to change. Please consult an expert dealing with your attitude. In the long run, by doing the same things, you will not feel guilty anymore like you seems today. Everyhting will be normal because you've been doing it for a long time already.

Try your best to be NICE 'CONSISTENTLY with everbody specially with your love ones. It seems brutal on your part to hurt the feelings of the people aound you that care for you most. Think it over mate.

Answer 11

Your just you. But I dont think you should be mean to your mom, as easy as it is sometimes. And about the girl, well she wasnt good enough if she likes one night stands thats whorish, and about your friend why not email her and tell her. He shouldnt have cheated in the first place, and he should suffer the consequences. If your bored, go do something you enjoy doing, but dont hurt people who dont do anthing wrong, hurt the ones that deserve it.