hi ive been with my gilrfriend for 7 years, then all of a sudden we were very distant and so was our best friend of 12 years down the pub where i worked fridays and sundays. anyway enough was enough so one day i found her down the pub talking to my friend when she should have been at work, which made me think somthing was going on.
so i approached her and asked her straight she said no, but then she finished with me saying she wasnt happy. so i quit my job.
i found out 2 weeks later that she is now in a relationship with my so called friend, and i think it was going on before we finished. we have a 6 year old daughter together, and a house, and i am dying, i love her to pieces and if i could get her back now i would,
we met when she was 19, and she's now 26, so i think she was just testing the waters as she has been with me so long.
but will she come back to me and my daughter or am i living in hope, now that she has somone new who knows her nearly as good as me
2007-02-11 11:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by madmatty2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
19 to 26 is a pretty intense growing period. I wouldn't get my hopes up. Anyway, even if she does comeback, ask yourself: is she back because he dumped her or she really loves me. Yeah, people make mistakes, but the message the dynamics of that mistake says she doesn't think much of your feelings and she doesn't seem to have much respect for you. She could have been up front (26 is old enough to stand up and be an adult) and told you the truth. I think the trust you guys built over the last seven years will not be able to be recaptured. You'll always be wondering what she's doing when she's not around for you to watch her. I wouldn't want her back. People who do things like that don't tend to do so just once. If she does come back, tell her to take a hike.
2007-02-11 11:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Janette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell whether she comes back or not but do you really want her back? Would you be able to forgive and forget about what she has done or is it something that will always haunt you because of the fear that she will do it again? What she will probably do is play with her new toy until he decides he doesn't want her anymore and she'll come knocking on your door knowing that you love her and will probably take her back. For your sake and for your daughter's sake, I wouldn't give this woman the time of day, you both deserve better.
2007-02-11 11:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say weather or not she will come back but you sound like a great dad and maybe if she would do that to you, you can do better. Your main thing is to take care of that little girl and stay very strong for her.
2007-02-11 11:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by whit g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know, but if she said she is not happy ...probably no, she can come back one day to see her daughter but not to get into the relationship again with you ...Women are mean ...when they say they leave you , it's for real ...!!! don't keep hoping , probably yes, if you keep on showing her that you still have interest for her .....by calling, sending emails, love letters, etc ..etc ...if she is a good person she could reconsider her position ..if not ..well, don't dwell on it ...Move on ...!!
God Luck !!
2007-02-11 11:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madmatty 2 ! To be honest i think she chose her road....witch way she want to go.....remember the apples don't fall for away from the trees.......that mean if she does come back, she did it once to you, she will do it again.....choose wisely (happy or unhappy).....it's up to you.
Best wishes and good luck
2007-02-11 11:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by sherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear this but she is very young. maybe she's testing the waters. as long as she still takes care of the baby thats fine.
you should too. how old are you?
2007-02-11 11:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yu shood just move on . sorry but live is soo cruel to us and plus we aren't on this planet to stay . So just pray to god and ask him what you should do start going to church . Another thing dont let your daughter see you suffer !
2007-02-11 11:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Arleenyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if she comes back you should tell her to hit the road, once a cheater always a cheater
2007-02-11 11:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want her back. Move on and find someone that really loves you.
2007-02-11 11:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Myabe you should talk to her or your friend.
2007-02-11 11:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋