emotionally, mentally and spirutually?
I been married TOO many times and am so tired of being the one who gives all the time while the hubby takes. I just want someone to love ALL of me accept all of me all the time
2007-02-11 11:15:46 · 10 answers · asked by flyingdove 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No there is not....
2007-02-11 11:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes the ideal you seek do exist, I know people who have such relationships, some are very old and you feel their love and care when you are with them. If you have been married many times maybe you should think about the type of men you have been selecting, perhaps there is something you saw in each that actually prevents them from being the type of husband you crave.
2007-02-11 19:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is such a thing if the marriage is done right. My husband and i share everything half and half. 50/50 here and that is what it takes. Not one spouse has rights to it all! If you find the right husband He will love and accept all of you all of the time and you will do the same for him. It is called unconditional love and acceptance of each other and you love them for who they are not what they are.
2007-02-11 19:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is give and take.Financially I shared or help pay the bills. My late husband was my lover and a friend. I don't know about sharing emotionally,mentally and spiritually. I have a happy 18 years of marriage life,untill he pass away, he was 20 years older than me,he was my first ,I was his third. I hope you'll find a man who you can be happy with. Good luck..
2007-02-11 19:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is such a thing. Take your time with the next relationship you have. Do not rush anything! You will find out what kind of man he really is and be able to decide whether you want to marry him or not even waste your time with him.
2007-02-11 19:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its rare.
Part of the problem is, I guess, that in a lot of relationships whoever is giving 'more' tries to 'fix' things by giving even more then before, while the other partner for whatever reason loses interest or takes it more and more for granted. So things start off 55/45 but then get pushed further apart.
2007-02-11 23:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. We women have to put up with alot from men and men also have to put up with alot from women. They're just different issues. Sometimes women don't see how much men give in a marriage. We just focus on everything they don't do. Maybe you should wait to make sure the man you meet is someone that values, respects and loves you very much before you go and get married again.
2007-02-11 19:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me men go through the same thing.....I've run into many women who run what I call the ME program and that is Where will take ME, What will you buy ME, What will you do for ME. US and WE never seem to enter the conversation. Most of the time these same women can't seem to understand why there alone....
2007-02-11 19:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, any relationship including marriage HAS to be a two way street in order for it to work. There is someone out there that is your other side of the street...
2007-02-11 19:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes there is such a thing...don't give up hope...i didn't and now i'm living a great life with a great guy.
2007-02-11 19:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋