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I've always been attracted to fat girls. The main trouble is, it's more than just a preference, I'm completely obsessed with the thought of them getting fatter, outgrowing clothes, getting stuck, breaking chairs etc.

I've dated a few girls who are on the plump side and I'm sure they'd be horrified if they knew that I'd fantasized about them getting fatter, to the extent that I feel really guilty about me being with them.

Is there any way of losing a fetish, such as hypnosis or some other kind of therapy, or if not, what do you think I should do about my problem, which is stunting my lovelife?

2007-02-11 11:32:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

2 answers

Hi there,

The easiest way to do this is to associate pain with the thoughts you want to get rid of and pleasure with the thoughts you want to keep.

So imagine the love your life getting fatter and fatter, iller and iller, unable to move, laying on the bed, covered in bed sores because she can't move and then dying from infection caused by the bed sores. Feel the loss of your one true love because you made her get bigger and bigger and feel that pain of knowing she's gone.

Something like that visualised correctly will help you get rid of that obsession.

Alternatively, you can visit a hypnotherapist who will be able to resolve this issue very quickly for you. It shouldn't take more than 1 or maybe 2 sessions with a decent one. There will be professional hypnotherapy bodies in your country where you can find fully qualified and professionally trained practitioners.

All the best

Jason

2007-02-11 22:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The only thing you can do is make yourself go out with other types. I think everybody has a certain preference when it comes to women, I do also. But I MADE myself talk and hang out with all kinds, helped me broaden my horizons because I felt no pressure because in my mind, they weren't my type. Also met some really nice people, now I look at everybody different.

2007-02-11 20:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 1 0

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