Look im a 20 year old virgin, and i've had a couple "dating" runs here and there with women, and actually am pretty good looking. With that included I've taken note I got the nice guy curse; you know old school charm, but I now I live with two roommates off campus in college and transferred here so I really dont know people and have taken a few shots with girls; but in the end I keep getting frustrated? Is my problem possibly im close minded or im putting too much emphasis and worry about gettin laid. (my buddies poke me daily about it..) I guess in the end maybe im venting but I'm just looking for some kind of advice... thanks.
2007-02-11 11:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by bill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I think you're probably just too preoccupied with being a virgin that you're forgetting to have fun with it. Dating shouldnt be painful or forced - its just something that happens, and shouldnt be taken so seriously. Also of course you know that whenever you really really want something to happen it wont until you just stop thinking about it and then it'll just happen when you arent expecting it. Dont fret too much about being 20 and a virgin - as much as society (and your friends) tell you that you're a freak of nature for that you arent statistics actually prove that you are far far from being alone up until the age of 25.
2007-02-11 11:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting laid is not what you should be worried about.
You have to find a girl you are interested in and try to hit it off. Converse, share interests, develop a level of comfort. As time comes, those things will come too. Besides, a girl does not care if a guy never did it before (an honest girl would think that that man is more sincere and trustworthy if he didn't)
2007-02-11 11:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie to your friends... go on a vacation in florida or some tropical/beach place like that or go skiing in Vermont and say you met a chick there and you guys had sex, then it will releive some of the stress your friends are putting on you to have sex and it will be easier for you to get with a girl... Good luck!!!
2007-02-11 11:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Meghan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...hooray for you! yes, you are putting too much emphasis on that...just try to make "friends" first...of course, I realize that some women pick up on ...all you want is ...that's all well and good that you think you are good-looking and charming...(maybe TOO full of yourself)?
Buddies or no buddies don't forget---consequences!
2007-02-11 11:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worrying way too much about sex. Sex isnt all that matters. You sjould be focused on school and having fun in life. Your roomates, you need to ignore them.
2007-02-11 11:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why have you waited this long?.....Hats off to you man, dont let the guys bother you. Pick the right girl, marry her and have a beautiful (love) life
2007-02-11 11:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, your time will come. remember...good guys always win in the end.
2007-02-11 11:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋