Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

2007-02-11 22:45:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months months now and i love him madly and he's the same, its kinda hard to explain he's very good and would do anything to help me out only im finding it hard to understand his way of thinking..he's 22 and was away in america since he was 17 for four years so he's very very independant and went with girls and all but never went steady cause it aint his thing. he's home now over a year adn i met him and ive been mad ever since although he's lovely in every possible way and i really could put my hand on my heart adn say that i know he'd never two time thats how great a guy he is, but he works like mad and be's busy all the time adn can only spend some time with me and i get annoyed cause as all girls would be they want to spend time with there boyfriend but to him that is just the way it is and if he goes out for a night he wouldnt text me at all he'd just wait till he see's me the next day, i no that might sound silly, what do you think?

2007-02-11 22:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 22:41:51 · 4 answers · asked by ANDY D 1 in Family

When i say nation i mean Country.

2007-02-11 22:41:40 · 22 answers · asked by Smurf 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 22:37:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 22:36:59 · 29 answers · asked by shaun2dance 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, this is a personal question, so no offence intended.

If you loved this girl very much and you were both dating very well, then suddenly one day, she spurned you and moved on, or she cheated you and walk off, how do you feel?

Do you feel terrible? Or you feel it is okay? Or you may even feel "Hush! To hell with her"?

As a man, do you feel dejected, or do you feel you should be man enough to take all this. Do you think feeling devastated is okay or is it considered girly?

Hey this is for guys only. I know how you girls will feel. (eg Sob!)

2007-02-11 22:36:06 · 19 answers · asked by Forward 6 in Singles & Dating

I started to love my new friend ( girl) far more than any of my other friends. Once I started to feel that am losing her love and caring,I asked her about where is my place in her heart. Is it below all other friends.. etc.. It was so irritating to her.. now she is moving away from me.. I made the mistake.. I still loves her more than any other friends.. I am very much desperate bcoz of knowing that i am nothing to her.. Now I feel that there is no other person in the world who have worst character than me.. i am really a bad guy.. I need advices from u ppl...

2007-02-11 22:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by kannan 1 in Friends

ok, my sister is 4 yrs younger than me with a 4yr old and a 2 yr old. they are great kids and i would do anything for them (and my sister) however i feel like my sister is taking people in her life for granted. she is 21 yrs old and doesn't work, has a council house and help with her bills etc, she is single however the father of the kids does help out a lot but sometimes he doesn't do what she demands, she then calls me and expects me to drop everything to do what she wants, yet when he is saying yes i don't get a phone call from her, and have to go out of my way to spend time with my neice and nephew (I do not get on with the father) and feel she is being unfair to both me and our parents. she only ever calls my parents when she wants something and he's not around, she has anger issues and whenever anyone tries to tell her something she doesn't like she goes mad............any suggestions??

2007-02-11 22:31:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I started to love my new friend ( girl) far more than any of my other friends. Once I started to feel that am losing her love and caring,I asked her about where is my place in her heart. Is it below all other friends.. etc.. It was so irritating to her.. now she is moving away from me.. I made the mistake.. I still loves her more than any other friends.. I am very much desperate bcoz of knowing that i am nothing to her.. Now I feel that there is no other person in the world who have worst character than me.. i am really a bad guy.. I need advices from u ppl...

2007-02-11 22:31:13 · 2 answers · asked by kannan 1 in Friends

My name is on all the bills paper work, I put a big deposit down on my house.

2007-02-11 22:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by gemma b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a kid with him and he says he loves me before he cheated on me with her his in prison at the moment should i wait to see if he has changed what should i do

2007-02-11 22:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by charp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-11 22:28:49 · 5 answers · asked by kirbytrischler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-11 22:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by Sam W 1 in Singles & Dating

Dearest Sexy,

I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do.

Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind.

I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office).

Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best.

Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires.

Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house.

It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner.

You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about.

The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer.

You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time.

Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important.

If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision.

I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day!

Yours always,

Pumpkin

2007-02-11 22:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by xxx_death_kiss_xxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dearest Sexy,

I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do.

Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind.

I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office).

Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best.

Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires.

Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house.

It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner.

You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about.

The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer.

You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time.

Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important.

If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision.

I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day!

Yours always,

Pumpkin

2007-02-11 22:25:49 · 20 answers · asked by xxx_death_kiss_xxx 1 in Family

2007-02-11 22:25:31 · 7 answers · asked by sarika d 1 in Weddings

He pisses me off every time he meets me, he makes fun of me every now & then without any reason. He is younger to me. My repeated objections have had no impact on him. Should I beat the crap out of him or control my anger even further ?? What other options do I have ? Talking to his parents (my aunt) has no effect on him.

2007-02-11 22:24:00 · 11 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Friends

Dearest Sexy,

I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do.

Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind.

I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office).

Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best.

Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires.

Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house.

It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner.

You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about.

The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer.

You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time.

Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important.

If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision.

I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day!

Yours always,

Pumpkin

2007-02-11 22:22:55 · 8 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

but he never been married before

2007-02-11 22:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by lanicolette 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any one with good tips on showing love? I love my gf but she tells me I don't show it. Any tips anyone?

2007-02-11 22:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by xBoss 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and the ex split up 5 months ago...

We were together for four years.... She dumped me....

She emailed me last week, asking why i was ignoring her/not speaking to her..

I told her b/c she was my ex etc......

we got into a conversation on msn...

I told her that she really hurt me, and she prob' would never undersatnd what she did to me...

She replied with this..

"u seem to think that i was / am fine and it didnt affetct me at all"

the bit that bothers me is the 'am fine' bit, fair enough, but itr was her choice at the end of the day to split up, and thats her prob' Init...?

Whats it like to be the dumper...?

Oh yea, wer4e both with new people, and she seems to wana be friends or sumthing, or is she out to f*ck me over again....?

2007-02-11 22:16:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the question is....... shud she try to fake it some how or shud she tell him the truth.....n tellin him might lead her into serious trouble.

2007-02-11 22:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by misteriousmaiden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No matter what the predicament this relative spouts out her opinion of what I should do even though I haven't asked for her opinion. Then, if I don't take her advice she gets angry. She is always angry at some one because of an arguement but she never realizes it's her own fault. How should I respond to her?

2007-02-11 22:14:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what do guys really find attractive curvy athletic or thin? and does it make a difference to the quality of the sex you have.

2007-02-11 22:12:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls give me your best answers

2007-02-11 22:10:56 · 20 answers · asked by YEN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sadly, I'm 21 and just got into my first serious relationship. I need to know how to give hickies. I know the basics, putting my mouth on her neck or chest and suck. But I think there just might be more to it than that. If there are any good tecniques please share.

By the way, the ones I've been able to do were small and faint. But yet my girlfriend makes her's 10 times bigger than mine. Any info is helpful. Thanks people.

And yes, this is an embarrassing question for a guy of my age. So please, no insults. Thanks again.

2007-02-11 22:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by Homer 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 22:07:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-11 22:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you noticed how many questions on here that the first part of the problem is a lack of communication? If only these people would be open and honest with the other, the bulk of the list wouldnt even be here.

2007-02-11 22:06:50 · 15 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating