I started to love my new friend ( girl) far more than any of my other friends. Once I started to feel that am losing her love and caring,I asked her about where is my place in her heart. Is it below all other friends.. etc.. It was so irritating to her.. now she is moving away from me.. I made the mistake.. I still loves her more than any other friends.. I am very much desperate bcoz of knowing that i am nothing to her.. Now I feel that there is no other person in the world who have worst character than me.. i am really a bad guy.. I need advices from u ppl...
2007-02-11 22:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by kannan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound extremely needy. You probably scared her away. Why can't you just go with the flow. Why be a number in her life? The only people who are number one are family. Realize that.
2007-02-11 22:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. You know some people just find death as a way of making people believe as they do. Just tell them they know you aren't interested in church so drop it. As for how does an atheist grieve? They grieve like any other person. I think maybe the best way for you might be to remember your friend and the good times. Grieving is about what we lose and not where they are going. Be happy that you had such a great friend in life. Fear is normal and it's really ok. If you truly belief there is nothing more than just let it go. Understand that the fear is something that can make you weak. How do you think so many christians work to "save" others? They use the fear tactic. Fear is natural, just acknowledge it and let it go. Just something to add here. None of us know what will be at the end. Just live this life and be thankful for family and friends.
2016-05-24 00:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not a bad guy. you spoke from the heart. how can that ever be wrong? you feel like a bad guy because sometimes women make a mistake of trying to avoid people who tell us something we didn't expect or want to hear. there is no bad person here. but she did not handle the situation as a friend should have. sitting down with you and telling you why she didn't feel the same or if she was scared/confused...would have been more acceptable. take some time away. and then maybe she will call you when she's ready to be mature about it. but don't allow her to call you and use you either okay? you count for more.
2007-02-11 22:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it! son, there's an old saying, 'Act in haste and repent in leisure.' It's very hard when your feelings are not returned, isn't it? Next time, try and 'sus' out her 'mood' before making a move on a friend like that! You are not "The flavour of the month" are you? Still! your young, and you learn by your mistakes, you are probably more embarrassed than love sick, aren't you? Don't worry! You'll laugh about it later on, It's not the end of the world! there's thousands of chicks out there for you yet! Go and get one! Have a good day!
2007-02-11 22:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate u love her that much.does she even care?why would u wanna have a friend like that when she doesnt even care if u be her friend or not.sorry but people like that are selfish she obviously didnt think about u that u will b sad losin her when she try to push her self away from you. so why cant u do the same and move on. look for a new friend its never hard to do and trust me, there are always a very good friend for each of us "as a new door opens we close the one begind" i know its a bit hard because u'll feel sad and lonely but ur absolutly not, look at it in a different way dont just think of being sad.
2007-02-11 22:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be an over possessive guy who needs to satisfy ur ego
and u scared the girl with ur possessive ways!!!
2007-02-11 22:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kavalai vendaam!
Ava kitta poi pessu.... Valantine day varathule? Use IT!!!!! Naa oru ponnuku 4 varushamaa wait panna. Last time she use to hate me, but now, she have reliased i'm the right one 4 her. So, try to impress her! Do things she likes, quit things she don like. tats wat i did.
Innu perachina vantha, enaku email paanu:
natesh_91@yahoo.com
Good Luck Nanbaaa.............
2007-02-11 22:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by natesh_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really that is so sad well chat 2 her tell talking is the best way lol GOOD LUCK
2007-02-11 22:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by lisa p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be ridiculous! sounds to me like you are a good guy, and she just wants to whore around. be GLAD that shes outta ur life. dont give your love to that skank.
2007-02-11 22:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too soon to tell her your feelings
2007-02-11 22:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋