Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

Yesterday one guy who fancies me (he hasn't told me about his feelings yet, but I can tell he's interested) - Fred- sent me a text-message apologising for his teasing me and another guy who I am interested in (Ben). The point is my friendship with Ben seems to grow - we laugh, playfully joke with each other, touch and what not and Fred commented that our feelings started to grow, but Ben started denying it. Though usually when I provocatively joke about the state of our relationship, he says nothing, but smiles. I thought that Fred was just jealous of me becoming closer to Ben. Also Ben joked about Fred liking me, cause it was very obvious. And in a text-message Fred hinted to me that Ben liked me! And they see each other every day, they work with each other... But i'm in a bit of a loss now, because if Ben liked me he would have acted by now...And if this other guy likes me why would he hint that the other one likes me too? Kind of revenge that Ben jokes about Fred's feelings for me?

2007-02-11 22:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been living in NYC for about a year and a half now, and I still have not figured out what to do with myself at night. Chances are I will be doing this by myself too.

2007-02-11 22:04:17 · 5 answers · asked by unit481 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i split up recently but we wrnt sure if it was the rite thing 2 do so we decided to leave it 4 3 weeks and see how we feel after this time? i no that i want 2 get back with him but hes not sure because in the time we have been apart we have spent alot of time 2gether and been getting on realli well and he is worried that if we get back 2gether it will ruin this. i dnt no wat to think because he says he still has feelings 4 me and still finds me sexi and all, he also gets realli jealous if i mention other guys. i dnt think that getting back 2getha will make things worse i fink the time apart will make us appreciate each other more this time round? any ideas on wat i should do?

2007-02-11 22:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 22:03:29 · 5 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband had an affair but he ended it 6 months ago. I asked him whether he loved her and replied he did not. However, he told me he cared about her. What does he mean by care? Please define the word for me. Men, I need your input in this.

2007-02-11 22:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know this guy and he always nuzzles me and hugs me and hangs around me. i like him. and he is my age. so does he like me?

2007-02-11 22:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do?

2007-02-11 22:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by always to help u only... 2 in Singles & Dating

about a year ago i was in a relationship with this girl. she was everything i wanted and i thought everything was fine with us....long story short she was not faithful and we broke up. a few months after we broke up i met another girl....it took a while 2 get close to her and im finally there. she is great, we love each other, but i cant get my ex out of my head....i dont know why. the other day i was looking her up on the internet, when i stopped myself... my girlfriend now has so much more 2 offer me, and i really do love her.....but why cant i stop thinking about my ex - its already been a year....why cany i fully move on?? i admit there wasnt much closure after our relationship....i wish i could just forget her, and look 2 the future with the girl im with now.....am i in love with 2 different girls??

2007-02-11 21:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by tyler 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i`ve got a problem. I have many friends. but i've found someone who i like to be my best friend. i try to be nice with him. i try to be a counselor and anything to him. But, he act as normal. i mean, he does not show that i want him to be my best friends. i'm very sad. What i'm gonna supposed to do. I'm very alone now. can someone help me to find best friends.

2007-02-11 21:57:27 · 3 answers · asked by Ateh 1 in Friends

i met a guy and later i found out he has a girlfriend so i played a joke on him cracked his voicemail took his voice off the greeting put mines on there and changed the passcode and i admitt i should have stop seeing him right away but i didnt i still feel played i want to call the girlfriend so bad not to be confrontational but just to cause a little bit of problem nonthing against the girl but i just want to get him back does anyone believe in payback or just let it go and i am going to let it go but i want a small revenge first

2007-02-11 21:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 and yesterday my boyfriend proposed to me, however before that he had asked my father for permission behind my back. i don't even talk or see my dad anymore, he should have asked my brother. anyway, my dad said that would be fine, my boyfriend said he didn't have to persuade him or anything. now my whole family is blaming my dad for my engagment - what should i do?

2007-02-11 21:56:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sex with someone purely out of desperation?

2007-02-11 21:54:43 · 25 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

But they didn't know you knew. What would you do?

2007-02-11 21:53:23 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7months at first everything was wonderful but when i went away on holiday ikissed someone at this point we were not going out properly as he was with someone else when i got back i told him but all he ever does is argue with me and threaten me sometimes even hits me i told him if he cant forgive me i will leave but he tells me if i leave he will commit suicide

2007-02-11 21:51:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 21:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by Ahmalya 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me today. There were no tears. He had made up his mind and I already miss him. I think he is struggling with other things and the only outlet is me. I want him to come home. What can I do. Should I leave him alone or ring him. I have sent him a message already.

2007-02-11 21:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by karena k 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 21:50:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I had to stay up all night to do homework and now I"m really hyper. I live in the dorms (co-ed dorms) and have my own room,. I have two message boards on the outside of my door.

One says "Go away! No body lives here!"

The other says "Feb. 14 is national One Night Stand day! At least for singles! Because I said so!"

I put in smaller print at the bottom of that "Unfortunately, I'm already taken! haha!"

so what would that say about me?

2007-02-11 21:49:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 25 and egyption .all people here tell me that i am getting old and i have to consider marriage.but i dont wanna. i want to llove someone and then marry him.i hate arranged marriages.but iwas in love with someone and we got engaged and he broke my heart and i was hurt for almost a year and still suffering till now....the thing is i never learnt my lesson.it's like i want someone exactly as my x.i dnt love my x any more but still i miss the happiness .....i am so depressed i cant feel happy anymore even at my sister's wedding or with my friends am afraid i'll grow old and never find someone and be totally alone.

2007-02-11 21:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by lola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 21:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 or 3 month ago I found out someone had sent a picture of their breasts to my bf's phone. He insisted that it was a mate winding him up but I had already called the number and a girl answered. I left it at that. Then this weekend he lent me his phone to call home and I discovered that this person is ringing him everyday and texting him. I didnt sent out to check up on him just found out this way. How should I deal with this? Call her and ask who she is, text her pretending to be him just or ask him?

2007-02-11 21:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by Nickii 3 in Singles & Dating

even though she died 2 years ago.She never really liked me and always said hurtful things to me, she often called me a bastard and said she wished she had killed me at birth, maybe this was just anger?.She never took the time to get to know me and we rarely spoke partly because her negativity was choking me.I find that i am like her in some ways, i always see the negative in things.I try daily to improve and have but i am still so angry that she neglected me and never stuck up for me.I have had a string of troubled relationships ( with friends and boyfriends) all my life.Before she died i asked if there was anything that i had done to her her answer was that sometimes i would not cook a meal for her when i knew she was ill.I feel so guilty and ashamed that i still hat* her.I accept that i am partly to blame as i did not make enough of an effort and should never have given up trying to bond with her.
I've had counselling.How can i be happy again and are there any good books i can read?

2007-02-11 21:41:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is a plumber witch is not going to change this is causing the problem but how do i get him to have softer hands rather than sandpaper I have tried all the usual things hand cream ect. any surgestions welcome

2007-02-11 21:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by heldolly 1 in Singles & Dating

over the past few years my dad has had depression and was on prozac and other stuff,

he works nights so he hasnt got a social life or any mates, last night he said that im his only mate and started crying, i dint know what to do,

i want to do something with him like a weekend fishing or summat, any ideas people?

2007-02-11 21:39:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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he asked me out, i said no. and now he tells me, he's way too good for me or something. I dont want to sound shallow, but why does a simple "No" trigger such negativity among men. plus, he's really odd looking.

2007-02-11 21:39:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 21:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ahmalya 3 in Singles & Dating

Its Valentines Day coming up...and my boyfriend says he cant make it to see me because he needs sleep before he starts work at 12am. This would have been our first Valentines Day together! We live an hour away from each other and don't get to see each other that often because of the distance. After the night's work,(and if he had to come see me) he would have 5 hours sleep, drive down to see me for about 4/5 hours and then drive back to work. But this isn't no ordinary day, it's supposed to be a romantic day with the person you love. Am I the crazy one for expecting him to come?

2007-02-11 21:37:43 · 13 answers · asked by !simply annoyed! 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy he didnt tell me he had a girlfriend so i figured i would give him a little payback i cracked his voicemail and changed his passcode took his voice off the greeting & put my voice on there his girlfriend heard it & it caused alot of problems at home why would he still want to be involved wit a person who he knows may cause problems at his home i told him to hit the road but he still trys to call

2007-02-11 21:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to reach out to millions of Individuals across the world- is there any short cut?

2007-02-11 21:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by mandrake 1 in Friends

fishing weekend, camping trip, anyone know? im in the uk and live in bristol(south west)

2007-02-11 21:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family