If you found out your partner was cheating?

Question

But they didn't know you knew. What would you do?

Answer 1

I would send someone to spy on them and take a video of them cheating then show it to them on the computer or tv.

Answer 2

This is a good question. I would behave the same way I normally would. I would get all the facts and then, when I know he's getting ready to see her and he get a fat juicy lie together to tell me, I would say to him. What time do you think you're gonna be back?
Then I say, so when you go meet Sally tell her I said hello and I hope you two be happy for the rest of your life.
I once caught a boyfriend cheating. I just put him off at work, for a couple of days and nights, I had been getting this feeling that something wasn't right, so I did some snooping. I found 2 numbers, where he had talked 11 mins. He does not talk on the phone that long. I found out where the girl stayed, her work place was in the mall in a woman store. I dropped him at work, went to the mall to see what she looked like( she look like me ). I called the store from inside the store to make sure the girl was the fling of my ex. I was gonna confront her, but I didn't want her to lose her job and plus this was he's lie to tell. I walked outside of the store and called his job and asked him what time are you getting off of work? he told me and ask if there was something wrong? I said not really, I'm just in the mall getting ready to talk to your girl Tina and I really want to know if there's anything you want to tell me before I speak to her(silence) I said' well I'll tell her you she WHAT'S UP and he just held the phone and I hung up.

Answer 3

It presently would depend on how mature you are and if you are b/f or married. I suppose it would depend on how secure you are with yourself, people handle situations like this differently, especially if they are insecure, jealous, or abusive. Do you really know, is your information from something you seen or a person telling you? In any event no matter what the age or partner situation, it is not a good idea to attempt to get even, hurt the person or anything you may be sorry for one day. Trust is very important and the question is could you stay with someone you feel you cannot trust or wonder every time they are late, or be full of anxiety? You have to make the decision yourself on how to handle your feelings about it. Like I said, depending on your own self esteem, self worth, handling this, these things will play a part in your choice. Good of Luck

Answer 4

try to deal with the pain that this would infect on me along with the drama that this will cause the mental pain - what would i do - im a man so i would take the lady out for one last nite and show her the world-shower her with everything that her cheating heart would want -then tell her that we are thru-then i would try to get lucky and find an lady who is not so pretty and maybe over weight and let my ex-cheater find out about this -and give the new lady all the things i would give the old cheater-if me and the new lady hit it off-looks dont matter to me i look for inner beauty-why stay with some one who ugly on the inside

Answer 5

if you knew for sure that they were then i would confront them with the evidence you have. you never know, it might mean something totally different to what you thought. regardless, you need to confront them and have one of those chats. it might end the relationship but at least everything is out in the open and you know you cant carry on as you are. good luck!

Answer 6

well depending on the circumstances.

if my partner was cheating on me with my friend, best friend, and/or a good friend, i'd confront him or her about it "well, we've known eachother for so long and you go with my chick? what ever happened to bros before hoes?" then i'd go and break up with my girlfriend and never talk to my "friend"

if my partner was cheating on me with one of her friends, then i'd never talk to her again, and if beef started with me and that guy, PIKACHU is going to kick his ***.

if she was cheating on me with someone she just met, "HA! you lost what good we had for the newbie? hell, **** him and **** you"

hope that was helpful as i've been there on all three.

Answer 7

If this means the end of your relationship, then do nothing, don't call, or give them the time of day. Just walk away, send the message that they really didn't matter to you, even if its tearing you up.

Answer 8

I would tell her I know and talk it throught. This might of course lead to a break up or a brand new start depending on how forgiving you are.

Answer 9

its very easy to say end it, but very difficult doing it , but all said and done, that is the only option out, u have to end it, it depends how u want to do it, that's up to ur comfort level, whether u want to just walk away or tell him/rudely , end it immediately

Answer 10

End the relationship