Its Valentines Day coming up...and my boyfriend says he cant make it to see me because he needs sleep before he starts work at 12am. This would have been our first Valentines Day together! We live an hour away from each other and don't get to see each other that often because of the distance. After the night's work,(and if he had to come see me) he would have 5 hours sleep, drive down to see me for about 4/5 hours and then drive back to work. But this isn't no ordinary day, it's supposed to be a romantic day with the person you love. Am I the crazy one for expecting him to come?
2007-02-11 21:37:43 · 13 answers · asked by !simply annoyed! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not crazy, but why dont you go see him? Theres other factors like has he came to visit after work before? Plus you have to look at the fact that most men dont really put alot of stock in Valentines day. Just explain to him how you feel and if he still doesnt seem to care, lose him.
2007-02-11 21:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to feel this way. the thing is if it's such a long drive and he's the one usually driving maybe this time you should make arrangements to go see him. That would be a nice gift without losing the meaning of love. Men see things differently. Maybe he is planning a surprise visit for you? Whatever the case tell him without too much pressure how important this day is to you. He should get the hint. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-12 05:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. I'm going to drive an hour and a half to see my girlfriend on Valentine's Day. I also work night shift, but she's going to follow me back up to my work and hang out with me that night, so we can both drive back to her house and spend all of Thursday and Friday together.
2007-02-12 05:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not going to see my boyfriend on Valentine's day because he has to work the next day. It will be our first one together and he lives an hour away. We will be together the next day because he has Friday off. As long as you spend a special time together, to me it does not matter as to which day we do something special.
2007-02-12 05:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can celebrate it maybe on other day when the two of you is not busy... what's important is that he would find time to celebrate it with you even if's not Feb. 14... just don't ecpect too much you might be disappointed...
2007-02-12 05:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by desert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's day was made by greeting card countries. Nothing special.
And why should he do something for you? Why don't you do something for him??
Go to his work bring him a burger for lunch, and a quick kiss. That's all he would want.
2007-02-12 05:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on, u cant expect him to come to u straight from work, spend time with u and get back to work.
so may be u can invite him over and let him sleep at ur place.
why cant u think of doing something for him??? like go visit him and surprise him or send fllowers for him or something like that??? u also love him rt?? its not just he who loves u!!!
2007-02-12 05:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Five hours is plenty of sleep any time. You're not crazy, he's lazy!
2007-02-12 05:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing stopping you going to visit him honey, VDay is not all about you.
2007-02-12 05:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he wants you to show YOU care by coming to see HIM cuz of his circumstances!
2007-02-12 05:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Chasey Lane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋