Yesterday one guy who fancies me (he hasn't told me about his feelings yet, but I can tell he's interested) - Fred- sent me a text-message apologising for his teasing me and another guy who I am interested in (Ben). The point is my friendship with Ben seems to grow - we laugh, playfully joke with each other, touch and what not and Fred commented that our feelings started to grow, but Ben started denying it. Though usually when I provocatively joke about the state of our relationship, he says nothing, but smiles. I thought that Fred was just jealous of me becoming closer to Ben. Also Ben joked about Fred liking me, cause it was very obvious. And in a text-message Fred hinted to me that Ben liked me! And they see each other every day, they work with each other... But i'm in a bit of a loss now, because if Ben liked me he would have acted by now...And if this other guy likes me why would he hint that the other one likes me too? Kind of revenge that Ben jokes about Fred's feelings for me?
2007-02-11 22:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you described, the one you want to progress further with is Ben. There are many reasons why Ben may not have acted, including that Fred is also both your friends, and also that Fred has been teasing him. Sometimes the teasing makes a guy back-off, to prove that he is not a wuss or whatever.
2007-02-11 22:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matters of the heart dont have logic - just stop guessing whats going on in these guy's mind, who actually likes u and all.
first u understand clearly whom u like - then just talk to him straight. u dont need to wait for him to ask u the question. now that v-day in just on the way, u can get to know the answer pretty easily.
good luck
2007-02-12 06:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give both of them a wide berth. Too confusing and too many mixed signals being given here. This will only serve to do your head in!
2007-02-12 06:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up but why dont u just ask him if he likes u
2007-02-12 06:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your tongue must be hinged in the middle!
2007-02-12 06:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see what happens,...u have nothing to lose rite?
2007-02-12 06:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like oh my god
2007-02-12 06:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by kid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its too confusing!
2007-02-12 06:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by always to help u only... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore these
2007-02-12 06:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋