i met a guy and later i found out he has a girlfriend so i played a joke on him cracked his voicemail took his voice off the greeting put mines on there and changed the passcode and i admitt i should have stop seeing him right away but i didnt i still feel played i want to call the girlfriend so bad not to be confrontational but just to cause a little bit of problem nonthing against the girl but i just want to get him back does anyone believe in payback or just let it go and i am going to let it go but i want a small revenge first
2007-02-11 21:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is immature to try to pay him back like that. The best thing you can do is to let it go and act like you don't care. Don't answer his calls or e-mails. Be the better person and move on with your life.
Would you appreciate it if someone tried to get revenge on you for something you've done in the past?
2007-02-11 22:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done enough. In fact, you did too much. It's always a good idea to wait and not act on anger. You'll only regret it. Don't call the gf unless he comes sniffing around again. The best revenge is moving on and living well. His current gf will find out what a loser her bf is soon enough. Watch your karma and just leave them alone.
2007-02-12 06:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, all you need to do is confront him.Tell him how you feel. And if that don't work call the girlfriend and let her know what is going on. She thank you later if she don't try to hurt you for hurting her.
2007-02-12 06:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you...i would go and tell the girlfriend straight n leave. no need to linger longer, just enough to pass her the information that her boyfriend cheated on her. i mean, if i were in the girlfriend's situation, i would most definitely want to know instead of being cheated behind my back n not knowing about it -- in any r'ship, where the girl/guy cheats, the cheated one would want to know/should know, for many reasons.
2007-02-12 06:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by cutecocobear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, revenge always comes back to bite you, it will come back to him 3x as hard, it's not your job to even things up, someone, or something else will take care of that... for sure !
2007-02-12 06:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have let it go and just walk away and have nothing to do with him. If you didn't pay him back for what he did sooner or later his infidelity would have caught up with him. Thats just my opinion on the matter.
2007-02-12 06:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoiding someone is the best punishment
2007-02-12 06:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in pay back but i do believe what cums around goes around....every dog gets his day....
2007-02-12 06:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no avoid this guy
2007-02-12 06:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and move on, please....
2007-02-12 06:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋