2 or 3 month ago I found out someone had sent a picture of their breasts to my bf's phone. He insisted that it was a mate winding him up but I had already called the number and a girl answered. I left it at that. Then this weekend he lent me his phone to call home and I discovered that this person is ringing him everyday and texting him. I didnt sent out to check up on him just found out this way. How should I deal with this? Call her and ask who she is, text her pretending to be him just or ask him?
2007-02-11 21:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by Nickii 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No they were droopy breasts lol
2007-02-11 21:52:45 · update #1
Think this thing out real good before you act. Are you ready to be finished with him? If not, then don't just hand him over to her! Fight for your man..and fight dirty.. be the most loving caring , trusting woman he has ever known or will ever know. He only listens to her because she is telling him how great he is ..she is making him feel good.. he needs to feel desired, wanted... but he is WITH you.. he isn't hiding his phone from you..and you can give him what he needs.also, .to feel desired ,needed ,wanted., important.. ..but you can make him feel loved and worthwhile.,and appreciated. Don't accuse him of anything , show him you trust him, But if you get the chance, make fun of her boobs! compare them to some floppy, sorry veggie or wonder how much starch she needed to get them to stand up like that.and''.doesn't fake feel fake.?' where soft and real are soooooo much better.!..and oh my god!! how desperate can she be?? how many others has she shared her goodies with?yuk!!!!! It's yours now..if want to keep him, let him know..but don't start a fight , stay on his side..it is ALL her fault. Maybe the two of you could set her up with one of his horny buddies..double date..act like you could be her friend while letting her know BACK OFF MY MAN! or else..( if need be, say it to her face.. but when you are alone..and then in a very soft, low voice. Totally under control) or on the other hand...are you looking for a way out of your relationship? Then jump on it and run out and let her take him (if that is the kind of girl he likes..he might want to have her checked for STD's first...really..pictures of her boops? Whatever happened to class?What's next? a scratch and sniff sticker on a picture of her...........................feet? ha ha
2007-02-11 22:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to confront him. Even if he's not physically cheating, he is doing some form of cheating. There's no excuse good enough on this one. If some broad is sending him pictures of her bare breasts and he's talking to her, you can bet he's slept with her or plans to. Take the high road and just dump him. If you confront him, he'll only lie to your face and that will make you more angry. I like the suggestion of texting the other girl back and then pretending to get mad at her. That's a pretty good revenge trick. DON'T call her! It will only look desperate and psycho. She's going to lie to you as well or be smug. It's more trouble than it's worth.
Just dump the guy. He's being disrespectful and dishonest. You deserve better.
2007-02-12 05:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out for sure other wise it will eat you up inside I would get one of your friends to call her from an anonymous number and ask for some random name then say sorry i think I've called the wrong number who is this when you have her name you can do further detective work it might turn out to be Innocent but don't ask him he will Deny it all the way
2007-02-12 05:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by heldolly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what going on -it takes two to tangle-if you confort him on this you just give him the opportunity to lie to you-so really if he was your true lover he wont have other women breast on his phone i wont but hey he probaboy showing his home boys and all proud of the situation-dont let it get to you take controll of the situation and cut him loose you need better trust in a person what will he do if he found a man organ on you cell phone- be honest tell him he violated the terms of an honest relationship that what i would do-
2007-02-12 05:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even wasting another minute on this guy, move on, its obviusly not going to work and will only become more and more chaotic and disruptive to your life if you continue. He has already proven what type of person he is. How can you possibly still be interested. The more respect you have for yourself, the more you will get.
2007-02-12 05:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id send him steppin',,,but not before I had some fun first.Id text & pretend your him & see what she has to say,,then Id get her mad @ him,,real mad & then be done with the whole situation including him.Dont even waste your time questioning him,,he is guilty as can be & there will not be a good ending anyhow.A rat is a rat is a rat.Say bye.
2007-02-12 05:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely cheating on you, and he's not very smart about it either to have left her calls and messages on his phone. You should confront him, break up with him, and have him know that you will not be taking his ****. See if he fights for you, because if he doesn't then he never cared to begin with. Good luck girl
2007-02-12 05:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by broken 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they sent a pic of their breasts, I bet there has been more going on before you saw that pic. Time to confront him and then see what happens next.
2007-02-12 05:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Christop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup, he's up to something. It's call cheating. Call the girl to get her confirmation and then, tell your bf that the girl already confessed and admitted to you there was some hanky panky going on. Dump him after that.,
2007-02-12 05:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i dont have a girlfriend at the moment, so my answer might be worthless, but i'd say, talk to him first, ask him, and tell him what you know, maybe there's an answer... and also see what e responds like, nervous, stressed etc, you should be able to see when he lies.... Good luck... i know it feels like.
2007-02-12 05:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Valentine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋