Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

guys- I hearing things on this site like women dont give men rights over their babies or no father rights. women dont consider men opinion or for the okay if a woman wants an abortion or wants to put a baby up for an adoption so here we go If you have sex with a woman (youre not married not really together one-night stand or maybe if you are married) and a women comes to you say she pregnant by you and says she's considering abortion or adoption would you consider giving your opinion about her decision and possibly try to change her mind to keeping the baby or you ( maybe you can consider raising the baby) or do you not want any part in her descision meaning whatever decision the girl/woman makes is whatever, you dont care you dont want any part of it?

2007-02-11 21:08:55 · 1 answers · asked by race1983 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Look, I need to give some friends some gifts and I really need something cheap, useful and something they could always remember ...

2007-02-11 21:06:25 · 12 answers · asked by Unable2Love 1 in Friends

In a relationship, what's the biggest age difference you'd settle for?
What if you were younger (14)?

2007-02-11 21:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by huntingforeggs 2 in Singles & Dating

Are drugs like viagra available in India pharmcy shops ? is it legal????

2007-02-11 21:03:20 · 18 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After a 3 years long-distance relationship -but we were about to be finally together for sure!- she decided to break up arguing she missed physical presence. 2 month after that she confessed she had a new boyfriend! It broke my heart like never. All my friends consider it's been very quick regarding to the context... I really wonder if she has been seeing this guy before we broke up. 6 month after I'm not totally done with that and am still thinking of her.
What do you think about my wonder and do you know how for me to be over it once and for all?
I'm not in contact with her anymore and I'm very far from her.

Thanks

2007-02-11 21:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by twenty6 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who is always so concerned with how she loks, and always craves the attention of others (particularly men). It really bugs me!! she is constantly over-dressed (for example, if we go to a casual lunch, she will spend hours getting ready), and always is looking to ensure that all attention is focussed on her. It really bothers me because I constantly feel ill at ease in her presence. It is almost like she is competeing with everybody for attention, when all I want is to be her friend! How do you deal with a person like this?

2007-02-11 21:02:04 · 13 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Friends

I have a crush with this guy, we're from the same school now in college and found out that we're from the same province and go to same highshool back... We're not really close but we text each other maybe 2x a month with just some silly quotes... then one day I had the courage and text him... I ask if he have some feelings for me!!! but days passed and no response from him... And from that moment on I never texted him again... Then we saw each other at the airport but we never even say hi hello to each other... I don't know it's a weird feeling that I still like him but don't want to be hurt by that feeling anymore... So I still have this question in my mind why he never reply with my question if he have feelings for me... It just simple as YES or a NO!!!

2007-02-11 21:01:48 · 4 answers · asked by desert 2 in Singles & Dating

Those boys, 15 years old, who skip Computer class at school and instead, play computer games with their notebooks without the teachers' knowledge?

2007-02-11 21:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

SOme one told me that is good .. ANy idea what is it?

2007-02-11 21:00:02 · 7 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-11 20:59:18 · 10 answers · asked by microbiology is much harder! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

see me and my gf wanna kiss but i dont know how we both want to but probaly are to embarased to kiss.she told me she wants to kiss.but the thing is i do to but how when where and how long?and how to tell if she likes the kiss or just went along to not break up.im 11 old. and wht do i do when i want to kiss her hug her.we have not started holding hands yet should i wait for that then after a few weeks kiss her?we have been going out since january 18 2007.we hug and sit next to eachother at lunch and walk next to eachother and walk home together bt no holding hands or kisses yet.how to tell if she wants to kiss me (i mean i already know for sure she does but she wrote me a note i wrote i do to)like if she want to more than kiss like make out?pelase help me please???dont forget to answer all of my other questions please thank ya girls advice most helpful pelase.

2007-02-11 20:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by ray r. 2 in Singles & Dating

it was always hard for me to meet new people it was easy in high school but im not able to do the things i use to. ive tried to meet new people but its hard for me. it makes it even harder sincei never go anywhere and never have nothing to do so because of this i have nothing instresting to talk about.

2007-02-11 20:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by comacati 3 in Friends

Does anyone have words of encourgement or tips on how to deal with and get over a break up? I'm dying here, please help..

2007-02-11 20:57:53 · 28 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just gotten through a really tough relationship, and now my ex and my friend are sleeping together. My problem is: I just can't seem to move on!! How do you get over the guy that breaks your heart?

2007-02-11 20:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Friends

Is this possible? Why?

2007-02-11 20:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going through a depression that I feel as a wife I can not handle any more. Problem is he has refused cancelling and at the same time he does not want to do anything with us as a family. He now keeps telling me his life is over and wants to even give up his job. He does not say what exactly is the problem and there is no communcation anymore.
I am afraid for what he could do to himself or to us as a family.
However he insists I should not tell anyone but day by day the situation is getting worse.
He had never drunk all the while I knew him and now he has even started drinking.
I am ovewhelmed by a heavy heart but also feel overburdened. Should I at least talk to his brother, I cant find any one else since he has no friends or should i wiat for what comes by?

2007-02-11 20:55:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what should be given as a return gift to a young man <30 yrs as a return gift on birthday.

perfuems, watches??
give me more options

2007-02-11 20:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by fresh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going to be in Barcelona this week and know a lady who will also be there. On Valentine's evening I've offered to show her the city, lavish my attention on her, buy her dinner and then walk her around the Barcelona fountains.....so far she's said.... "f*** off, I'm busy!"

Do I take this as a sign of genuine disinterest or is she playing hard to get?

2007-02-11 20:54:29 · 21 answers · asked by James M 2 in Singles & Dating

My crush & are classmates..One time, while i was talking to one of my friends, I caught her looking at me! (my crush) Then i became so shy that I tried to look away (while still talking, pretending that I didn't see her)..Then,after that incident, while we we're walking as a group, I heard her tell one of her friend (a girl) that her crush was somewhat stupid coz her crush seem to be always daydreaming, I mean, always looking far away..Then she said, even if her crush was like that, she still likes him..I don't know if it's me she was talking about..Bcoz this girl isn't a typ[ical one, she's aggressive and some kinda flirt..Do you think it was me? what's a good advice to help me?

2007-02-11 20:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by 'd campus Hearthrob 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've got a major crush on this guy at school ... and then my best friend said to him that I have a crush on him, and then he always looks at me then smiles and well, he was asking me to dance with him to our prom ... (I DONT REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO, I'M REALLY A BEGINNER WHEN IT COMES TO THIS, PLEASE HELP!! I'M REALLY REALLY SHY AND I DUNNO WHAT TO DO!!) ... hehehe, I dunno ... maybe I uhhhh ... whatever ...

2007-02-11 20:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Unable2Love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 20:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by rchrd_strange 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he can send me long mails and even cry if he feels he is losing me. iam confuse i dont know if he really loves me? few days ago he sent me amail that he loves me but we both have strong personality. and we can not be together. i haven't replied cos i am triying to forget abt him even if i know it's not easy, bcos he won't let go. what should i do?

2007-02-11 20:52:50 · 2 answers · asked by MIMI T 1 in Singles & Dating

Well here it is. I signed on to my b/f's yahoo screen name, and went through his conversation that he had with this girl. In the conversation she asked him if we were back together and he said no, but we were back together. Then she told him about the message I had sent her, and he said if anyone is a whore it is her(referring to me). Well I confronted him. He asked what I was doing going through his personal stuff. I understood where he was coming from but I felt I had a right to know. He said it don't matter cause it's just yahoo, and besides he didn't even remember the conversation because he was drunk. Then just this past Tuesday night I called to talk to him and he said that he couldn't talk because he was busy. Well come to find out there were to girls here that his buddy had brought over and the girls slept in my b/f's bed with him. He swears he didn't do anything with them. What should I do? Should I break up with him. Help me please!

2007-02-11 20:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by Esther V 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 20:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want a leagal step to have my rights

2007-02-11 20:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by ayieh 1 in Family

so I'm doing a poll.... which do you think...
is love a false preception of security, or is security a false preception of love?

2007-02-11 20:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom passed away when i was only 10..had a 3 year old brother then to lok after..dad was never really close..so for te most of my life i was left alone..could never be like other kids..had to to hom,e chores..even now i am very lonely and sad and miserable..i have loads of responsibilities on myt head..taking care of my brother, taking care of the food and college..this is too much for me..m only 20..i can never have fun like other lucky girls..i had a nervous breakdown last year and i havnmt been able to comeput of it till now..i am not able to eat properly too..thats why feel weak most of tyhe time..am taking antidepressants and suffer from body dysmorphic disorder..my father is always abusive towards me even though i work so hard to keep the house running..i am really miserable..pls tell me what should i do?..should i get out of my home and live alone..shoudl i leave my brother alone?..pls tll me..i am lost...this is not what i thought my life would become one day.
:(

2007-02-11 20:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with my husband for nearly twelve years. throughout the relationship he has cheated again and again. in the begining I was very emotionally connected and somewhat co-dependent yet as years pass and I mature I've become one bitter woman. my nature makes me confront and defend but I'm unable to stay angry. I seem to just get over it. He has definately changed from in the beginning so much that I am very torn over what may or may not be going on. I check his phone records every month and for the most part it seems they're clean. He is accounted for 95% of the month. But once a month, he is GOING to disappear for hours. He doesn't give me a heads up about it and will not answer his phone. However, he comes home and usually I can partly comfirm his whereabouts due to friends seeing him in our small hometown. I have always been very crafty with finding the truth but I feel he has learned from mistakes. Now I am ready to make a move if only I discover an affair. ANY BRILLIANT IDEAS

2007-02-11 20:46:18 · 14 answers · asked by bellsgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boss hits on me. I don't mind because he is a good friend of mine. I have worked for him for five years now, and he has never acted on it.

There are two things that DO bother me about this situation though.

1. He has a wife, that I am also good friend with, and I feel bad letting him talk the way that he does.

2. My sister has begun working there recently, and he hits on her too. My big sister gene kicked in, and I am a little worried...

I don't know what to do, because I don't want to ruin their marrige, or mine and my boss's friendship, but it really needs to end.

How do I go about asking him to stop without hurting anyone?

2007-02-11 20:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Brandy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am Rajib.32 years old.
I like a girl(20 years).she takes computer tution from me.I want to
know whether she likes me.
Sometimes she stares at me and create a direct eye contact while
talking.Even she wants to listen music(titanic) and watch some music
vedios
in class.Tho other students are there she doesn't care about it. Tho
her
course tends to end but she doesnt want to end the course and wants to
hold for long.She even don't want to miss the class also.She laughs
when i say some joke in class.
Based on these pls. tell whether she likes me or not.
Thanks

2007-02-11 20:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by rjb_bnrj 1 in Singles & Dating