I'm going to be in Barcelona this week and know a lady who will also be there. On Valentine's evening I've offered to show her the city, lavish my attention on her, buy her dinner and then walk her around the Barcelona fountains.....so far she's said.... "f*** off, I'm busy!"
Do I take this as a sign of genuine disinterest or is she playing hard to get?
2007-02-11 20:54:29 · 21 answers · asked by James M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Emma C, I think it is I not worthy of her...
2007-02-11 20:59:57 · update #1
Interesting theory Pam O! Nice to see you again too!
2007-02-11 21:12:04 · update #2
Toxic21... er... just a few times... I'm a glutton for punishment and I refuse to take no for an answer.....
2007-02-11 21:12:57 · update #3
Take it as genuine disinterest. Like I said, I'm busy, in actual fact with British&Rude above me, so let me reiterate.... fcuk off, I'm busy and I will always be too busy.
2007-02-12 02:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Hobnobs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear.... if you knew her at all, you would know that this sort of public display of affections cr@p really doesn't float her boat.
Listen mate, trust me on this one, she is genuinely not interested. She's busy because I'm with her on Valentine's night. So unless you are thinking of taking us both out... and seriously if I hear you've been near her at 3GSM, then you will be seeing me at least on valentine's day.
2007-02-12 05:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey stranger - long time no see! ermmm I think you may need to call her bluff on this one - act disinterested yourself - when she realises you're not gona chase after her and play her games I think you'll find she'll do a 360 turn and chase after you!
Best of luck
xx
2007-02-12 05:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa- worse cause of PMS that I have ever heard of. U have 2choices:
1) ask her what is up, &listen to what she has to say
2) Move on, accept that she is just not interested.
have u asked her out before?? cause she really sounds annoyed or irritated....
2007-02-12 05:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im getting the feeling shes genuinely disinterested!
2007-02-12 05:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by xxx sara xxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a tad rude in her response to be honest, so sack her off, text back something like, 'oh sh*t, that wasn't meant for you... and f*** you too' women love a childish man.
2007-02-12 05:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yayick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well mate, unfortunately "f*ck off, i'm busy!" sounds more like loathing than playing hard to get... it's a tad harsh for playing hard to get don't you think? you ain't got a chance... snow balll in hell springs to mind....
go and find something else to dip your c*ck into :P
i know women are a strange and umpredictable breed, but "f*ck off!" seems pretty damn clear to me...
2007-02-12 05:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bad Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT playing hard to get. "She's just not that into you"!!! Don't waste your time. Maybe you can find someone in Barcelona to lavish................
2007-02-12 05:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by miss_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means meet her by the Columbus monument and dont be late hahaha
2007-02-12 05:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, those are pretty strong words, I guess it depends on her personality though......do you have a back up option lol
2007-02-12 04:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋