After a 3 years long-distance relationship -but we were about to be finally together for sure!- she decided to break up arguing she missed physical presence. 2 month after that she confessed she had a new boyfriend! It broke my heart like never. All my friends consider it's been very quick regarding to the context... I really wonder if she has been seeing this guy before we broke up. 6 month after I'm not totally done with that and am still thinking of her.
What do you think about my wonder and do you know how for me to be over it once and for all?
I'm not in contact with her anymore and I'm very far from her.
Thanks
2007-02-11 21:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by twenty6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were used and manipulated by a not very nice person who lied to you. Why would you want to be with this person? Concentrate on how awful she was to you and you will get over it quicker.
2007-02-11 21:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would have been eith him 4 a while before telling u.... sad but true. Your still wanting her is very common. We all want what we can't have, u know kind of like the forbidden fruit.
Why are you still thinking of her? Is it u are missing her or the person you wanted her to be? This girl wasn't honest with u so it's not ur loss. Stop giving her control of your feelings. She did u a favour by breaking up with u, start dating again. I'm sure u will find a girl who will make u wonder why u even bothered with ur ex!!
Best of luck
2007-02-12 05:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of sight out of mind.Adopt this policy and you'll be a happy guy.There is no point in brooding,when things are beyond yer control.You should be happy that the break up was timely.There is no point in persueing,when the other individual does'nt appreciate yer feelings.Its a big big world and there are many out there who are compatible,find them and nurture new relationship.Life is very precious,every moment counts hence enjoy it
2007-02-12 05:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by MrKnow_All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. She is obviously cheating on you before the breakup. Take up a new hobby or meet other women. This will take your mind off your old gf and also open up your heart and mind to other opportunities along the way. There are many other "fishes" in the sea. Why settle for a "sardine" when you might catch a "tuna" instead? I believe you will get over her once you put your mind to it. She is not worth your love or respect. She leaving you could turn out to be a blessing in disguise.
2007-02-12 05:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what we all do everyday, suck it up and learn to cope. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I have dwelled on things in the past and that tends to make moving forward a lot more difficult. I know it is hard to do but snap out of it and you'll get a girlfriend that is worthy of you. Clearly this person was not worthy of your love.
2007-02-12 05:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lynnemarie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she kept you as a second best in case of her relationship does not work. When she realized it was working, or everything got how she expected to be, she decided to let you go. I guess she fooled you, but it happens with everyone. Everyone gets fooled sooner or later.
2007-02-12 05:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied to you. MAybe she is a married woman who was using her for the attention that she lacked in her marriage. I think that you should move on.
2007-02-12 05:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it matters how soon or how late she started dating again she has made the choice to move on and I think you should do the same...just focus on yourself and work/school and before you know it she will be out of your mind.
2007-02-12 05:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many time you see in person? Long distant too hard. Where you live?
2007-02-12 05:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by LaToya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl near u brotha
2007-02-12 05:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a vacation, and forget that foolish girl, anyway she is not the only girl in this world
2007-02-12 05:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by SJD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋