2007-02-11 22:45:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can be heartbreaking and feel like the end of the world. But you have to tell yourself you can do better. Sometimes things just dont work out and you have to accept that. The sooner the better. First give a long and strong good rational think and then get determined to survive. Look for a diversion and concentrate on you hobbies. Be with people who understand you and are good to you. Revive your hobbies or take up a new project. Dont let your self pine for him or languish to death. Remember if he has done this to you, he isnt worth it. Pull up your socks and get going. You owe it to yourself.
2007-02-15 21:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going through a heart break is a very difficult thing to do, like many other people, I know what you are going through. It takes a very long time to get over it especially since there will be very many things that remind you of the person. If you need to cry, dont hold back. Don't bad mouth the person, it will only make you feel bitter and make it even harder for you to move on. Remember though that what has happened has happened, and you are both probably better off living seperate lives. Its noone's fault, thats just life. Also, take some time off dating, you don't need it. What you need is time alone, to nurse your wounds and let go. There's nothing worse than starting a new relationship when you have excess baggage.
2007-02-12 07:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Solid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.
Everything is not always final.(only about 90% of the time) I broke up with my love because I felt I had about a thousand reasons, to call everything off. Mainly and bottom line, I thought variety was the spice of life. 2 YEARS LATER i CHANGED MY MIND. I did everything I could think of (NOT stalking).I even, accidently gave Valentines Day flowers to her (Boyfriend,Boss,Principal)to be delivered to her homeroom,she didnt like that. I talked to her sister alot (she accused me of trying to date her sister). I found out she was getting married, I called her and simply said Id be there if anything ever went wrong. I told every girl that wanted to get serious my heart was taken(I never used her name)(note:that didnt slow other girls down,but it makes your life easier to straighten up). Lastly, I respected her marriage! In the end...in less than 4 years we were back together, married and happy. It was a hard 4 yrs. I don't know what got messed up with you guys, but with maturity,understanding,soul searching,(I would say luck, but I believe we reap what we sow) WE BEAT THE ODDS. REMEMBER! If you have a goal, maybe you can smile again. a smile can open many more avenues than tears!
2007-02-13 03:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
look i know it is definitely not easy to over come such emotional traumas but all i could cay is just do things that you enjoy the most...outting shopping.....give your emotions a balance by sharing out your fellings to people you trust and spend time with people who make you laugh....do something that recquires or seeks your attentioin make new friends and keep your self busy cause if your mind is left vacant and unoccupied you will renenber things that has given you pain....i've tried this withmy ownself and has worked out so telling you from mine own experience....aftr all life is very long there are many to come and go
2007-02-12 07:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by khushboo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro u cant get out of it!!! ur goin through alot i know i been there..i was with my ex for 8 years had 3 children together a house a dog etc..i went through thoughts of suicide u name it..stay strong you'll have good days then u'll have days u just cry it seems to be to much...DO NOT BOTTLE UP UR FEELINGS!!! talk to family friends etc bro dont let it stay in u eating at u.. my im is whatzzcrackin@yahoo.com if u ever need someone to talk to bro plzzzz hit me up i know how screwed up up it can get
2007-02-12 06:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by ry h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged and i thought he was the love of my life and he left me telling me i wasnt the love of his. So i know how it feels to feel like everything has been taken away from you. This happened to me last October and im still going through it, but i can honestly say it gets easier, dont rush it, allow yourself to get upset/angry. You dont fully get over things like this, its more like you get used to it, the feelings will slowly fade, they will i promise you and every day will get easier, it may not look or feel like it now but just gather your friends and family around you and just feel what you have to feel.
2007-02-12 07:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud beter kno dat evry gal nd evry guy in dis world once go through dis situation. wether d relationship is of love or friendship. or whatever it is. bt u have 2 deal wid it nd make ur mind. as i personally have also passed through d situation. bt my frnds nd my family members nd me too made my mind 2 4get her. even i still missing her a lot bt life cant b stoped bcoz of a single person. i kno d panic of separating from 1 whom we loved too much. bt time nd tide wait for none. u've 2 keep faith in god. may b u'l get a person who will love u more.
2007-02-12 06:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by $#Romeo Boy#$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a bad dream.
2007-02-12 07:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME IS BIG THING AND IT CURES YOUR WOUND. THINK POSITIVE CHANGE ATTITUDE AND BE HAPPY IN FUTURE LIFE.
2007-02-13 10:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS TOUGH. DEAL WITH IT.
2007-02-16 00:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋