2007-02-11 22:37:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf really loves me and i kno he adore me and so do i, but he doesnt trust me when im with guys even as a friends he is a jealous type.i dont wanna dump him just for that reason cuz i dont think that i can do better, he is gr8 to me at one stage because he does whatever i say and respects me BAD and everyone thinks that iam lucky that i've got a guy like him but they dont really know whats goin on with that shity part.
2007-02-11 22:51:18 · update #1
I can undestand him, and I'm going to say this: reassure him that you love only him, and don't act flirty around other guys. Concentrate on him, and don't act like you want other guys. On the other hand, if he is being too protective or controlling, tell him to stop, and if he continues, tell him you can't have a bf who treats you like that, and if he STILL continues, dump him (I'm sorry if you couldn't bear that thought, but it's true)
2007-02-11 22:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is one of the most important things in a commitment/relationship. So, if you guys don't have trust, or your partner doesn't have any trust on you, you don't call that a relationship. Try to talk to him about it but if it doesn't work, then, break up with him. Even though you love him your whole life, it's not right for him to treat you like that. Hope this helps. Take Care!
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2007-02-11 22:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love begets trust. and trust begets love.
i hope this does not offend you but does he really love you?
perhaps he consistently tells you that but as the saying goes,"actions speak louder than words." and trusting you is an action. it's different from simply saying "i trust you" or "i don't trust you."
of course there are times when we become doubtful of the capacities of the ones we love. say, you may think that your brother can't do a project on time because you've known him to be lazy and unmotivated in his studies. you know, because you've been with him for a long time. you know, but you still love him. and you still trust that he can change for better.
by the way, you haven't specified on which matter he doesn't trust you. is it the with the way you handle money? then wait for a while and let him discover you can, through your friends' help. i hope it's not too severe. if it is, then the decision lies entirely to you. Can you love someone who doesn't even give you the right to love him? To reitariate, love begets trust and trust begets love.
Have a nice day^_^.
2007-02-11 22:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Naomi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend.
Jealousy is one reason for physical violence between men and women. And if you don't want to end up in a violent relationship, then stay away from a jealous man.
2007-02-11 22:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun its not goin to work thats one sign of controlling behavior!!!like i tell so many ppl TRUST is the most important thing in a relationship if he doesnt trust u what do u have???explainin what u do where u been etc thats just b.s. its ur life ur still young i personally wouldnt waste time on someone like that.
2007-02-11 22:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by ry h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ITs hard to have a relationship full of love but dosn't have any trust.
2007-02-11 23:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by LOVED:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him what kind of a loser are u w/? if he's projecting his insecurities onto u he's really not worth it. trust me, avoid relationships w/ guys who havent got themselves together cos u'll be all messed up by the end of it
2007-02-11 22:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by o o g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he trust you with girls??
2007-02-11 22:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonder why that is,........ a past history of jumping their bone?
2007-02-11 22:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋