i have a kid with him and he says he loves me before he cheated on me with her his in prison at the moment should i wait to see if he has changed what should i do
2007-02-11 22:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by charp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him sounds like a nice guy in prison to what a catch can i have him next
2007-02-11 22:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You've got yourself in a pickle. Having a kid with a boyfriend who is in jail is bad, and when you put a kid into it... but, i say you should see once he comes out of jail if he has REALLY changed, not just the typical "yes dear, I'm a new person" If he has, so be it, but monitor him carefully. If he really hasn't changed, and he isn't genuinly sorry about cheating on you, dump him. You need standards, you could get a much better guy who is fully devoted to you.
2007-02-11 22:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day if he cheated on her to get wid you than you should know he a player, you've got a yewt for him now and he needs to learn to grow up instead of getting himself locked. But prison can change mans as they have time too think bout all the things they''ve done so when he gets out and you see him if you think hes changed then give a second chance but tell him no messin sbout otherwise leave his ***
2007-02-11 23:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Charp
People like him will never change if the people around them don't force them to change.
I would say he clearly has no respect for anyone by the sounds of it.
What I think you should do is to get some self-respect.
Your first priority is to look after your child so get on with that & get on with what is best for you.
Stop worrying about what he wants & think about what you want.
You are wasting so much valuble time so don't gamble yours & your childs future on an odds-on loser
I know it is not easy but I hope you have the strength to go find a better life for yourself & your child
2007-02-14 13:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prison! cheater! has a kid with you but loves another girl. All of these things make him sound like a waste of space. Get someone else.
2007-02-11 22:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a bit of a mess, really. at least while he's away, you can think about what is best. I would not stay with a bloke who cheated on me, but then I don't have a child to consider. Probably you can do better and have less stress on your own, and more time to enjoy your child on your own. Be a single mum and get away from him
2007-02-11 22:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long is he away for? does he want you to wait? Most men don't change but he will always be in your life because of your child so if you decide not to wait try to make the split as amicable as possible good luck
2007-02-11 22:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait on someone who has cheated on you? Obviously he wants to be with the other girl if he was with her before you and to top it off he went back to her while with you. I can't believe you would sit there and believe the lies that he's telling you when his actions show otherwise. Move on with your life and take care your child!
2007-02-11 23:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by step b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems like bad news. get a decent man who doesn't cheat or get put in prison. you can do better for yourself and your kid.
2007-02-11 22:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mike H 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take care of his child as he is your child too some or the other day he will realize your importance forget everything else.
2007-02-11 22:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by ukriti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he's a loser. Get yourself an education and get out of that lifestyle. Give your kid some hope.
2007-02-11 22:36:16 · answer #11 · answered by Spottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋