Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

Let me tell you a little story... I've been married for almost 10 years and cheating have never crossed my mind. I've met this guy at work and of course he's living with his pregnant girlfriend, he doesn't know that I know. He was very persistant with me and I let myself get caught up in to so much confusion. To make the story short, he kissed me. And this is where it all began. The way he kisses, touching and holding me and the way he stares at me, I feel that it's more than like and lust. He tells me that I'm beautiful and that he wants me. But I haven't given him my whole heart, because I'm afraid I'd hurt him and I'd hurt myself and I'm married, and he knows this. This affair has been going on for couple of months without sex. He's not telling me what he really feels inside and I'm very confuse. And the weird part about this is that he talks longer to the girls I work with, ever since he got too close to me. What does he want from me? Is it just sex?

2007-02-10 18:48:37 · 31 answers · asked by mqlovely 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years and people are still telling me that its wrong. i need opinions. We have a beautiful baby girl and im pregnant again. They said it dosnt matter i should still get out.
Kirstin

2007-02-10 18:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by Kirstin 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm over 21, but I think he's liked me for a long time...Will his feelings for me finally surface since we'll both be considered adults at than point?

He blows me kisses, licks his lips at me, hugs me, says "I love you", tries to make other guys go away, stuff like that. He's been to my house twice. He says I matter more than other females we both know. His ex- gf even confronted me saying he always talks about me. Is his behavior "only friends" or heading toward something I'd like to happen? Yes, I'm totally interested in him!!!

2007-02-10 18:46:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a female and I wouldn't know how it feels for a guy but I heard it's painful right?

2007-02-10 18:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4 in Singles & Dating

you really don't know what you had until it's gone? Or is there better out there?

2007-02-10 18:42:19 · 11 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

how do i start out?

2007-02-10 18:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by .BAM! =]] 2 in Family

2007-02-10 18:40:26 · 21 answers · asked by aab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-10 18:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by tony g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 18:39:43 · 12 answers · asked by loveisthemovement. 4 in Singles & Dating

Every time I see a girls that I think is attractive I become very quiet and shy away. I have girls that are friends but the girls I like I really don't talk to, even if they talk to me. I have been thinking of getting profecional help. This problem has not let me have a girlfriend. What should I do?

2007-02-10 18:39:09 · 7 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 18:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by spice 1 in Singles & Dating

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What if you liked how they look but you are not that way?!

2007-02-10 18:37:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so this is pretty much my first Valentines day, that i will actually have a Valentine..
Now i want to get him something really nice but not extra expensive...
But everytime i ask him what he wants for Valentines day..He doesn't tell me all he says is " you dont have to get me anything"
Now i am going to get him something, but i just dont know what..

What should i get my guy for Valentines day?

2007-02-10 18:37:03 · 6 answers · asked by Tay Tay 2 in Singles & Dating

I know, I know, you're all probably sick of these questions, but please give me advice or your opinion. Thankss (:
There's this guy. I'm not even sure if I like him. I mean, I do like him, but i'm not sure ahh...I mean, I still think other guys are hot and sorta like them too.
ANYWAY.
It seems like he's always trying to do stuff to get my attention and make me laugh. but by nature he's very loud and friendly, so I'm not sure if that's actually a clue. However, if I'm standing in a group and he comes over to say hi, it seems like he is looking mainly at me. We have gym class together, and he always jokingly teases me. If I go stand close to him or walk closely beside him he doesn't move away. He laughs at my sarcastic comments.
But, sometimes he ignores me, or isn't as friendly, like when he's with his friends. Which I guess is normal.
I don't know.
Thanks for reading

2007-02-10 18:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But I recently realized that although my parents have endless numbers of videos of my sister in her first halloween costume, play, ballerina performance, etc, they don't have a single video of me. I've been in the family for 14 damn years, and I've never enjoyed being the blacksheep, but that broke my heart. What should I do?

2007-02-10 18:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

More recently I am feeling that I am getting angry very very quickly at home. To the extent that I slapped children as well. Although I repent later on, but I don't know how to stop this. I admit being quick tempered but it use to be under control. Any methods/ways to bring your anger in control and manageable?

2007-02-10 18:34:38 · 9 answers · asked by GS 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so i've been going out with this guy for two years off and on. we have had good times but he has also been violent before and every time i try to break up with him he gets violent or guilts me into staying with him. so i started seeing this other guy, just trying to avoid my old bf. i really like this guy. a lot! and then my old bf told me today that he has been stalking me for a week and knows everything. he said i have to choose and i better choose him. im scared he will try to hurt me or my new bf. i dont know what to do. hes crazy!

2007-02-10 18:33:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sareeg 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a cute guy I see at the gym. How can I get him to notice me and possible strike up a conversation?

2007-02-10 18:31:26 · 13 answers · asked by LCB!@ 1 in Singles & Dating

a little girl is having a hard time on it and I want to make her feel better.Please help me cheer her up by making a comment to make her feel better.this is the problem.She never got in trouble, not even missed a recess,she has been a good girl.School was out and she was standing in front of the school with her friend.Then it was almost an hour later when school was dimissed and the principle came out. She took them in the office.When she asked the girl why are you guys standing out there right now?The girl just opened her mouth and said because then another lady spoke to the principle and then the principle said shut your mouth to the girl. the girl closed her mouth. then the principle told her friends and her to write their name and room number on a list, they have to miss reces for a week.The girl didn't mind missing reces she just think it will be embarasing if others knew and she will disapoint her teacher if she does that. please make a comment to make her feel better thanks =)

2007-02-10 18:29:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kevin 3 in Singles & Dating

She just broke up with the boyfriend.She's not happy with life in general.But now she's telling me don't get to comfortable On My Own Couch. Come straight home from work and don't forget the candy bars on the way home.What's really going on here.

2007-02-10 18:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by raven 2 in Family

if I'm with a girl and She's sweet , and romantic , i think She's ...,,the one"....bought wen she told me she loves me i didn't believe it!becase she was lied 3 yers bye shes ex-boyfrends!I love her bought i dont know what to think....and 4 the first time i'm filling grate in a relation ,i love her like no ader....WHAT SHOOOOLD I DO?

2007-02-10 18:25:15 · 13 answers · asked by Jokeso! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He needs to find out how he can get back with his ex who doesnt talk to him, they went out for five days and he knows that he made the mistake of falling in love too quickly and telling her that he loves her. but he feels that he can get her back some how but he doesnt know, he misses her a lot even though this was 4 months ago but he still misses her like crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzy

If he should continue to try to get her back, what should he do?

Or should he just find someone else?

2007-02-10 18:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 18:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by joelskie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my birthday is March 1st and he's a lot younger than me he's not turning 14 until July 1st (we both have our birthdays on the first of the month didnt realize it till now). My parents are going away for the weekend and his mom and fiance are going away for a little Valentines week romance lol lol and there going to leave the mice at home to play lol lol. His mom and my parents are trusting us to act appropriate but my grandparents are going to be in this picture so the trust level isnt complete (wonder why lol lol). Anyway I'm not planning for anything to happen but what if? I'm definietly keeping my distance from his thingie. But what if? I've been told that a young boys stuff is too thin to do anything. (My girlfriend the one who just got pregnant with a 14 almost 15 yr old says at 13 they cant do anything, is she right? even though I'm NOT PLANNING ON DOING ANYTHING except a little kissing and cuddling when my grandparents aren't in the room of course watching like hawks

2007-02-10 18:22:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 18:21:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im so scared that when my brother goes to iraq he might get killed. the war is getting so bad now. so many soldiers have lost there lives. not only is my brother leaving for iraq 2 of my cousins are leaving. one is in the navy and the other is in the air force. if i loose my brother i wouldnt know what to do. me and him dont get along and we are to diffrent people. but i still love him and i dont know what to do.........i need some advice

2007-02-10 18:19:43 · 14 answers · asked by *babygirl* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like to be charming and sweet talking the girls
if i sweet talked you would you think im a player ?
do you think i should stop i mean i dont do this to every girl i see just to the ones i like and would like to have a relationship with

2007-02-10 18:19:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 18:18:38 · 21 answers · asked by tiffany l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend both REALLY like the same guy.
BUT he likes me.
which is good, but she likes him a lot too.
and idk what to do, cuz i dont wanna hurt her.
im a nice person.
i really wanna go out with him but what about her?

2007-02-10 18:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kendall :] 2 in Singles & Dating

of 1 month, for Valentines Day. I read some other peoples questions like this, but didnt get a real answer. Please, no sex, no picnic, no cake, no dinner, CD, etc. I want to BUY him something personal, but not too expensive. We have only been together for a month, so, I don't know him well enough to come up with a cool gift. Please help! Think personal!

2007-02-10 18:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating