Ok I know a 13 yr old girl can get pregnant but can a 13 yr old boy make a girl pregnant?

Question

Ok my birthday is March 1st and he's a lot younger than me he's not turning 14 until July 1st (we both have our birthdays on the first of the month didnt realize it till now). My parents are going away for the weekend and his mom and fiance are going away for a little Valentines week romance lol lol and there going to leave the mice at home to play lol lol. His mom and my parents are trusting us to act appropriate but my grandparents are going to be in this picture so the trust level isnt complete (wonder why lol lol). Anyway I'm not planning for anything to happen but what if? I'm definietly keeping my distance from his thingie. But what if? I've been told that a young boys stuff is too thin to do anything. (My girlfriend the one who just got pregnant with a 14 almost 15 yr old says at 13 they cant do anything, is she right? even though I'm NOT PLANNING ON DOING ANYTHING except a little kissing and cuddling when my grandparents aren't in the room of course watching like hawks

Oh gosh all of you gave such great answers so im going to do what I usually do when I cant choose the best answer. That is don't choose lol lol. I did learn a lot like he might be young and innocent (he is that's one of the things I love about him his innocence) but his thing has the power to make me into a mommy long before I want to be. Oh well, I guess I'll keep it far far away from me until I get much much older and then then ...... oh well you know. Thanks again and I will be careful.

Answer 1

Yes, they can

Answer 2

You and your boyfriend need to talk to this man - these are HIS problems, not yours. It was kind of you to say you would help, but this is above-and-beyond what a babysitter should be asked to do. Explain that, much as you would like to help, you are unable to do so because you are pregnant with your own child and your doctor is worried about your health (he will believe that - tell him it is a problem with your uterus, he wouldn't dare ask for more info!). Tell him you are sorry, but you won't be able to do it after the end of this week. EDIT: You say "Because I'm not going to tell him no, i already told him yes, so I cant back out now" - of course you can change your mind! You can tell him whatever you want, but nobody has to continue doing something they don't want to do - as long as you give him a few days to find someone else - honestly, dear, the problem is HIS, not yours. People accept jobs, then change their mind all the time, my son-in-law is a trucker, he just worked for a company for a week, then quit - they expected him to be away for more nights that he told him at the interview. My daughter had a job in a factory, the shifts didn't turn out to be the day shifts that they promised her, so she quit. You do not have to continue to do something that you don't want to do, just because you are kind and said you would - the job you are having to do is not the simple job you thought it would be, so it is okay for you to say that it is too much for you and you can't continue after next week. Be strong! You should also question why he would ask YOU to take care of his kids when he only met you the week before when you moved in! Also, when the school calls, tell them that you will not be coming in to see the teachers or principal, the children are not yours and you only supervise them after school - the school must speak to their father, not you.

Answer 3

Um, yeah well, I guess guys at 13 don't really have a big ... thingy. But he could get you pregnant, theorically. If I were you, I probably will not do 'a little kissing and cuddling' as you put it. It might go into something more serious and then you're dead. Seriously, you're still so young. You shouldn't, you know. Cuz that kind of thinking almost got me into trouble before

Answer 4

It is possible to get pregnant. It is also possible to catch diseases. Whilst the mum coming out in me says you are way to young, if you do go further, take care, and use protection. It will protect you from diseases and pregnancy. There are plenty of people who have cought HIV and other diseases on there first time when they thought there partner was a virgin. (There are other ways to catch these things).

Be careful, but most of all. Enjoy been young. You have the rest of your life for sex. Enjoy the kissing and cuddling etc. once you go further, that's it, you cannot go back, and life changes. Don't be in a hurry to grow up. Grown up life is not what it is made out to be.

Goodluck, and enjoy your weekend

Answer 5

I was fully sexually active at 13. And I still remember the width and length that I used to measure with my ruler. I could have made one woman pregnant every week (u know, I don't hv to tell u abt the quantity at that age). So better keep ready those things that you should to avoid pregnancy.
So seems like whatever u heard might not be fully applicable to all. Better don't take any chance as you won't know which snake hides where.

Answer 6

First of all, you're EXTREMELY dumb to be thinking about doing anything like that. That's a sign that you're extremely insecure with yourself. You should not do ANYTHING with a guy until you're positive that he's the one. A boy can go through puberty at as young as 10 years old, which means he's able to impregnate a girl. You don't even know if this boy has AIDS/HIV, and you're barely 13, a young teenager, just barely in 8th grade. If you really want to ruin your life and be looked down upon, go ahead, it's up to you.

Answer 7

wow...thats something you really have to think about. For instance say u have sex. Then you get pregnant. Everyone is going to look at you and think "omg look at that slut!" Yes...he CAN get you pregnant. Eveyone says, "oh, its not gonna happen to me, but yea.,..it might ! Im in high school right now, its a jungle!! People get drunk @ school behind the football field, have sex on the weekends ect.!! I think you should just make out and watch a movie or something in ur room, but save your virginity for someone u really love!

Answer 8

Yes, a 13 year old can get you pregnant! And 13 is too young to be having sex anyway! There are more important things in life right now (like school!)

Answer 9

Why play with a loaded gun to find out? Too many kids are having sex too soon. There have been 11 year olds documented to have become fathers. You honestly need to think about how you would explain getting pregnant to your mother and father after they trusted you. They would be very hurt and disappointed in you.

Answer 10

Yes. The answer to your question is yes.

But sometimes hormones take control, so little girl, please keep your clothes on. Your parents trust you, so keep it that way. You are ready to have sex, when you are ready to openly talk about it with your parents, and get on birth control, and pay for your own condoms. So remember my advice if any.... wait.

Its not fun being a kid with a kid. Which seems like you've seen from your friend. I wish her and you the best, but please wait to have sex. Its not just pregnancy you have to worry about, STD's are running rampant. That is what will kill you!!

Answer 11

It takes one time , with very little sperm , in fact one sperm , and you can become pregnant.

If the guy has reached puberty and is producing sperm , then he can be a daddy.

Suck his face and do a little cuddling but unles you want to take a chance on being a mother , keep your pants on.