2007-02-10 18:18:38 · 21 answers · asked by tiffany l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me too sometimes! but anyway if it will come to the point that he will get on my nerves, i will not pay attention on him, i will just stay away, i'll go to the other room or watch TV or play on the computer, read some funny stories, jokes and make myself busy with something else... and i guess that's the right thing to do in order not to start an argument! cuz if both of you are mad it's not healthy and it surely start a fight so one must at least cool down... ;)
2007-02-10 18:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Precious Gracious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as it is not your LAST nerve, you both will be alright...
No one promised that marriage was going to be a bed of roses. It takes some bad to appreciate the good. But some times you have to look really hard for the good. ha ha ha
You said sometimes he gets on your nerves,be glad its not ALL the time and do you ever get on his too? Think about it for a few minutes. The noise from the crickets may be relaxing for him. Go out there and check it out with him. You might find out that he is not nerve wracking so much if you try to enjoy some of what he does.
It is a proven fact that men do not see things the same way that we women do. Things that bother us, they don't understand why and vise versa.
Give each other a break.
2007-02-10 18:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mary D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take 30 minute out of every day for "me" time. Then, each night plan a time where you and he can take a walk away from the house. Use this time to discuss what's bothering you BUT give him the chance to say the same.
By leaving the house, it eliminates the opportunity for a fight plus the exercise releases endorphins which help keep the mood light. Laugh about what gets on your nerves with him and ensure you keep a very open mind about what he says.
I know I drive my wife crazy with some of my ability not sweat the little things; she knows she makes me crazy with her excessive organization. But between the me times and the alks we work things out and try to change for the better. Folks is Folks and change is hard. Whenever he is making you crazy, walk away, take a deep breath, close your eyes and visualize the good things he does. Often times you will forget about the irritant when you remember what a good man he is.
2007-02-10 18:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jim from the Midwest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend gets on my nerves too sometimes, it's a fact of life dear, join the club!!
2007-02-10 20:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what is commonly called marriage .. get used to it happens a lot of divorce him and be single.. if you arent happy then its time to make a choice.,but i assure you this is normal in marriage or should it be called misery lol. but yes its normal gets worse as the years get longer and well hopefully you will both learn to dance around each other and not get on each others nerves.
2007-02-10 18:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it as part of life. I'm sure you get on his nerves sometimes too.
2007-02-10 18:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Realize that's what happens in marriage. Marriage doesn't mean that your husband will never make mistakes. It means loving and forgiving him in spite of them. Of course, having a talk from time to time can't hurt. Just avoid the accusatory tone.
2007-02-10 18:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a breather. You get on his nerves sometimes too. That's life.
2007-02-10 18:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good question.. What to do.. Have a little time for yourself away from him.. It works for me and my wife :) Plus.. You probably get on his nerves too!Good luck
2007-02-10 18:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When he gets on your nerves, stay away from him
2007-02-10 18:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sydney 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋